Reasons I don’t have a Boyfriend

張貼日期：Jan 30, 2016 12:32:18 PM

Reasons I don't have a Boyfriend

Irene Xie

     This year I am 21 years old but I never have any experience in having a boyfriend. When I was in the first and second year in university, I thought it was because I was too busy to have one. Now I take this situation more seriously than before. I guess there are three reasons for the problem: my educational background, my shy personality, and my appearance.

     To begin with, actually I do not regard educational background as a crucial point in having a boyfriend. I never mind that my boyfriend has only a senior high school diploma. I have some friends who have never gone to university; still they have a formal career. But I can’t tell my parents who pay tuitions for me that my boyfriend only graduated from senior school. What a saddening fact! Strangely, I usually like this kind of boys. Is it because I can love more, as I more able in some way?

     Second, I think I am a radiant and efficient girl. I even feel that I am smart when compared with some of my classmates. However, I still have difficulty having a fluent conversation with the boys of whom I have a good impression. I am always clumsy in front of them. I wish one day I would have enough courage to face the boys I like and show them who I really am.

     The worst of all is my vanity. I admit that sometimes I’m a shallow girl. I regard appearance as the key in making a boyfriend. I have some pursuers who are kind people. It seems my parents would like them. But, I like handsome boys, to be honest .Sadly; I don’t think I am cute enough to be attractive to them. How cruel the fact is! Maybe I have to go on a diet or have a new hairdo and a face lift up.                            

     Above all, I figure I will stay single for many years to come since I am still not mature. My teacher taught me how to choose a good boyfriend, but I never had any good feelings to those boys. I think laziness and shallowness are my big bad points. Every time I think about the reasons that I don’t have a boyfriend, I would feel confused five and then I will give up the idea of making a boy friend.