As long as it is uncool for men to be feminine and refined, we will never have equality of the sexes.
When there is pressure on one gender, there will be pressure on the other.
As long as we expect men to be grunting cave men that swear and fight, celebrate toxic masculinity and belittle healthy masculinity, and make fun of men who are beautiful and refined,
There will always be pressure on women to be refined, beautiful, and perfect all the time.
Because we need someone to be better than that.
As long as we expect men to be grunting cave men who swear and fight, and make fun of men who are beautiful and refined, there will always be pressure on women to be beautiful and refined and perfect all the time.
When there is pressure on one gender, there will be pressure on the other to balance it out.
And so women will never be treated with equal respect until men are free to be just as beautiful and refined as women.
For only then will it be okay for a woman to grunt and be imperfect.
Because as long as we expect men to be grunting swearing cavemen, we need someone to be better than that.
When one achieves technical equality, only then will the other have equal respect.
Food for thought.
Go girly men! Keeping up a high standard for us all!
God loves you!
Sincerely,
David S. Annderson