Neurodivergence (which I now call Brain-difference) is from the brain, not the mind.
A healthy brain (ask any biologist!) has sex in it.
A healthy brain feels good!
Sex has a calming effect on Neurodivergence!
Especially on us Autistics!
Trust me on this!!! <3
Also, remember: sex is like any feeling that can feel or express love: what matters is that you follow it in a loving, giving way, and not a selfish way! Your feelings for someone are holy as long as you let them inspire you to give and love in an unselfish way! It is selfishness and greed that are dangerous! Let those feelings inspire you to give and love unselfishly, and those feelings will be holy!
And it will especially have a calming effect on your Neurodivergence if you follow it in a loving, giving, unselfish way!
Persued selfishly or as a hungry desire, sex becomes dangerous, gives power to hunger and craving
But as an expression of unselfish true love, even just as admiration, it transforms into a flower
Do not fear, but simply enjoy the scent of the flower and let it, like everything, pass on by in its own time
Do not crave the flower as a desire, but simply enjoy it as it passes by
Hang on to the memory of Love itself, of Beauty, of unselfish devotion to love and beauty, for such is life
Be not afraid, for fear of desire is as bad as selfish desire, but rather free yourself from both and be free!
If you are Autistic like me, it will be hard for you to fall for the negative temptation of sex to be selfish, because you feel how precious the life of the people around you is deeply, so you are only selfish when you are stressed or overwhelmed, but sex calms and heals the Autistic mind in a powerful way!
It can heal you if you let it be an expression of true love!
But remember that whatever way you are Brain-Different, this is a normal and natural part of your brain, and can be positive and healing if you let it be an expression of true, unselfish love, at least unselfish friend love!
It is only selfishness that is unhealthy! Selfish materialism will drive anyone crazy, no matter how solid and secure their brain is!
God loves you!
David S. Annderson