What is suffering? Whether it can be explained ? Often ,one doesn't find apt words to convey what it is.It is unimaginable. It is incomparable. It's suffering that makes one impatient. It's suffering that develops immunity in us.It's it that imbibes in us great qualities like forbearance & fortitude. It's also one which makes one understand what's life is. It's suffering which quite often makes one human. One cannot remain a mute spectator before a suffering for a long time at all. Even hardest of hardest heart melts before suffering. It is suffering which many times an eye opener. It enlightens a person also. It cannot be described or expressed or shared many a times. Its intensity and magnitude cannot be measured at all.That is why the remark " our enemy must not suffer. " Sufferings shatter one's hope. Yet, one shouldn't lose hope & hope that better days would come . Further, everyone isn't blessed with same quantum of endurance too.
There are certain sufferings which cannot be either shared or to told to others also. Sufferings can be momentary or life long. They may or may not deserve others sympathy or pity at all. They sometimes makes one dumb, sometimes makes one cry and sometimes makes one scream. To bear it more than a strong body a strong mind is always needed. It makes even strongest of strongest person shiver.It's capable of making anyone humble too.There's no guarantee that one's suffering won't go waste and and one would be rewarded. Everyone thinks that their sufferings are the most. Only when they compare their sufferings with that of others they realize the reality.
Nobody would opt definitely life if it only consists of suffering.Nobody welcomes it even in dreams of dreams. It's always an unwanted guest. There must be a limit to everything. There must be a limit to one's suffering too. Yet,one has no other go than to lead a life even if it consists of only suffering. When sufferings are unbearable, when there is no other go, one surrenders themselves to God. Every suffering is a battle only. One would be able to relish a sweet better only after tasting something that is bitter. Similarly, one would be able to enjoy comforts of life more only after suffering a little bit. More than anybody else one who has undergone a suffering understands others suffering always better.
Suffering is an unforgettable experience.It's part & parcel of everybody ’s life. The river of life flows between the banks of pleasure and pain. There is no scale to measure sufferings.From where all and how it befalls, it couldn't be easily made out at all. More than a man's age his face and body indicate how his life was. Hard life and health create more wrinkles on face than what the age creates. God doesn't stop all suffering and pain in this world. What all suffering & pain one would have it couldn't be always easily said or could be made out.What's suffering only one who undergoes it knows.Pain & suffering often help one learn important lessons in life.It's impossible to undergo every suffering to know it. To understand others suffering one needn't always undergo it. What's needed to understand others suffering is always a kind heart.
"Do not be afraid of suffering . Face them courageously.There's no use of simply sitting and crying while undergoing suffering. One must always be determined and try to emerge out of it." many say. Nothing is easy as one says. Experience is the best teacher always. Unless ,one knows what's suffering , one would not be able to understand others suffering.Only some share their pain and suffering with others. Many do not disclose their pain and suffering with others.
Man must understand others pains and sufferings. Otherwise, many times one may have to repent later on for it .One who has heart one who is sensitive and vigilant only could understand others pain & sufferings. There are various types of people in the world.There are some people though have eyes won't understand the suffering of those who suffer in front of them. Whereas there are people who cannot bear the sight of people who suffer in front of their eyes too. Once one understands others pains and sufferings,even though they are of no avail , they would try their best to avoid causing trouble in any way at least.Life is not mere sharing of others happiness, it is sharing of others pains and sufferings also.
Understanding others pain and suffering is a quality which everyone must possess. It is a duty of everyone too. One who understands others pains and sufferings would be a better person One who understands others sufferings and pain even if they couldn't do anything, wouldn't do anything that would aggravate them.
It isn't enough if one understands others pains and sufferings,one must respond to them in one or another way.The contentment that yields is unique and inexplicable. World is strange.Some understand only their pain & suffering and don't understand pain and sufferings that others undergo at all.It is always not easy to understand one' own suffering. One cannot make out the reasons many times for their sufferings. Whether it is due to their fault or whether it is due to somebody's fault. Are there anybody behind their sufferings. Many such queries arise in their mind. Sufferings are of numerous types. It is difficult to understand them. They are riddles.