What is desperation it cannot be explained fully. One who has undergone it only knows what it is .It doesn't spare anybody.Rich,poor,intelligent,dull herds, man, woman, children & all undergo it. Of course, reasons aren't the same.Love, money, health or anything else or nothing also can be a reason to a desperation.When how & why it dawns upon man,it couldn't be said .It's a precarious state of mind where it would land man it couldn't be said at all. It's loss of hope & surrender to despair. As hope is less & less desperation mounts & mounts. Once one is in desperation,in every act of them desperation is reflected. Desperation is like a leach. In it a man who is blessed with eyes becomes blind. That which in front of his eyes would not be visible to him at all also. It's like a brake failure too. In vehicle a brake failure makes it run hither & thither haphazardly . In life desperation too makes a man as well as his mind run hither & thither haphazardly.
Everyone's desperation is a story. In it perplexity is common. Instead of one does another. It is often either an adventure or a tragedy. Decision taken after much thought when one is normal itself goes awry. How it would be when taken in desperation? In desperation man doesn't think. He acts haphazardly .Hurry & anxiety always appear without fail in it. In it all the patience in one zeroes .God must only always save one at that time. It makes one lose their individuality. It doesn't allow one to hold on to their terms & conditions. It makes one loosens them & agree to others terms & conditions.
Here is a desperation in one's own words:-
" The boat I was travelling tilted due to heavy rain & wind & I fell into a river. I was not knowing swimming at all. I was about to be drowned It was inevitable. I was desperate. All negative thoughts entered my mind. Yet, I didn't rest. I was beating my hands & legs. My clothes were all completely wet. I was drinking water & inching forward. Suddenly a wave hit me. It threw me. I could catch hold of the roots of a tree which had spread into the river, With its help I could crawl to the bank of the river. I was saved. It was a miracle"
Nobody wants to become desperate yet become desperate. Ignorance & impatience are behind every desperation. Life is unpredictable. A failure after failure, whatever that one touches, turns mud & life becomes unlivable. Life feels like a mess. Frustration & desperation together raise their head. They put one into state of perplexity. One often feels alone when they face desperation . What is this life ? is a question that often arises in one when they face it unfailingly.
Desperation is darkness. It increases heartbeat & pulse rate invariably. No way would be visible or clear in it. It's taking a chance.It produces thrill to otherwise a dull life. It's a toofan that arises in an ocean called life. It may throw one to bank or may drown one.
One needn't tell about desperation .It doesn't allow one either to sit or stand .It makes one run.. One's face, steps & behavior discloses its presence vividly. What all a man does in desperation it couldn't be said at all. Desperation makes him lose control over self. Man does in it what is wanted & what is not wanted also. He does lawful acts or unlawful acts too.
Desperation is not an enjoyable. It is always painful. It is crossing an ocean. Time, money, man , incidents & many other factors add fuel to fire. It doesn't come suddenly ,without reason or reasons. Poverty & problems cause it.There is limit to everything & there must be limit to it too. It occurs due to too much of ambition, desires,carelessness,negligence & all other reasons. It's an uncertainty It is not a long term affair. It is not a one time affair at all too. How many times it occurs in life to a man it couldn't be said at all also. Sometimes, others make him desperate & sometimes he himself becomes desperate. It is all His play.
When whatever one thinks doesn't take place instead whatever that wasn't dreamt or thought takes place & nobody cares or listens then one becomes desperate.
In desperation one is as good as a mad person.They are ready to do anything.They are vulnerable. In it one knows not what to do, what not to do & in which direction to proceed. In it only negative thoughts emanate in mind.All courage & confidence dwindle. It is a weakness, It is a struggle to convert weakness into strength.
Desperation depends upon man & situations in life. All desperate people are not alike. We cannot underestimate anyone.Some for silly reasons become desperate . Some are mentally strong & face desperation. Physical fitness is of little use to face it. Man needs a lot of patience to face it. It makes one lose presence of mind. It may make one tread a wrong path.It is when man completely surrenders to God. It's a test to a man.It's a memorable experience. It is full of lessons.
Desperation doesn't, end of the world. Suicide is not answering to it. Desperation is falling into the water without knowing swimming. It is peril teaching the way. The best way to tackle it is always remaining optimistic . After desperation, things improve & better days emerge usually.Hope for the best,be prepared for the worst.
Desperation isn't unnatural. It's human.One who has belief & confidence in them -selves won't have desperation. They say come "what may." Man must not runaway from desperation. It is cowardice..Shakespeare rightly says "There's nothing good or bad thinking makes it so"Even in desperation we come across good.Many times whatever one does in it clicks & one prospers. A new life begins. Hope springs from hopelessness. Desperation is a passing phase in life only. Lord Tennyson rightly says " Old order changeth, yielding place to new " Nothing is permanent in the world. Happiness is not permanent, desperation is not permanent, Why man himself is not permanent.
“Desperation can make a person do surprising things.” says
― Veronica Roth, Allegiant
Desperation is a dubious virtue. Desperate people have a power that others lack: they have the ability to go all out, to put all their effort towards a task without reservation.
After desperation one mentally & physically becomes strong. One who has absolute faith in Him needn't worry about it at all. In fact, they aren't bothered about it at all too.
What's needed in time of desperation is guidance,help &sympathy. All those who are desperate don't deserve sympathy. Often desperation is one's own making .It's due to their carelessness & misdeeds only. In such instances they don't usually deserve any sympathy at all. Better avoid desperation than being in it. Do not do anything that causes it.That is prevention is always better than cure.“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” says Benjamin Franklin.
But all desperation are not man's making. Many are His making.