Relying on predictions

A dear friend of mine was lamenting a precieved life event that had departed unseen. You see this life event was first brought to his attention by a medium upon him asking a question about his future. But it never came to fruition. Why? Upon discovering that such an event was not to be, he was left in a profound state of loss. But, what had originally happened was that the spirit in communication with the medium he inquired of, was giving him a snapshot of a probability or likelihood based upon current circumstances and mental desires.

For this reason I have such a huge problem with people asking divination questions of spirit. The future is always in motion. And free will truly does reign supreme. By asking spirit to tell you the future; In many cases you are giving your personal creative power away. This is because in many instances you cease to seek, discover, and co-create experiences for yourself. Instead you wait for the big reveal, or you wait for life to come to you, or you wait for Spirit to bring you the promise on a silver platter.

The problem with all of this often is that to meet the prophecy, to meet the likelihood and bring together the probabilities, requires a lot of hard work, active intent on your part, and active creative participation. Because no matter what anyone tells you, you are the master of your own destiny. If you ask for the future; ie. will I get this job, will I be cured, will I meet my one true love.., etc., You are essentially saying to the universe, "Life is beyond me. Tell me what to do. I don't understand, I am confused, This is a problem for me."

And the universe will always try to respond to your original creative thought. Whatever you deeply focus on, it will bring you more in an attempt to allow you the opportunity to "Master that experience". So for example-- take myself. I've often asked myself, "will I ever get over the fear of the paranormal" So I kept having experiences with it until I was no longer afraid. For the person who is afraid of never having that job; they will be repeatedly be presented with situations that force them to put themselves out there until they take the initiative to decide and seek what they want. And for the lonely person. They will be put into situations that let them remain that way until they reach the mastery of self love and the knowledge that life is about sharing the journey, not finding completion in another person.

In my experience, truly higher level spirit will never give you predictions or divination's without telling you that it is just a probability, likelihood, or snapshot of a circumstance, and then offering you help on how to discover and achieve your goals. How you live now is so much more important that what if scenarios. It is a telling aspect of communication.

You can either ride life or let it ride you. But whatever you decide to do, take the reins and dont let yourself get floundered.

Just my 2 cents