Channeling Grief

Grief interfearing with Spiritual communication. Do you think this is true...... I've been thinking of the difficulties that those with heavy grief encounter when attempting to learn channeling or awakening a "Clair" ability.....or am I way off base? I am not sure. I was talking about such things with a good friend last week.

Some people do have trouble with Spiritual communication because they manifest desire through grief rather than in-spite of grief. They desire communication with their perceived departed loved ones out of loss rather than communication through the gain of spiritual development of the self. Personally I don't think there is any right or wrong as communication is a process that has to involve emotion by it's very nature.

When you move away from loss of the self and move into the loss-less-ness of selflessness, you realize that there is really nothing lost. Because in reality, you are just as much a spirit as your loved one. And that you have everything to gain, by the inner focus of the self in-spite of desire and and the surrender of the self through experience. To understand that loss is a misplaced desire is to see that there is no real loss, only a juxtaposition of separation and oneness of the all. As one moves back to one's self, the easier it is to attain forms of Spiritual communication. I do understand what you're saying. I think spiritual communication is blocked when you're in so much pain here in the linear, thinking that your loved one is lost to you forever; or intensely brutally missing their physicality.

I don't know if this is true for everyone. But I've seen it enough that I know it's a problem for some. More of that emotional up and down stuff. Myself, I don't have the grief to contend with. But I do know that when I am emotional I encounter significant problems with channeling and the clairvoyance, clair-auidence, etc. I think that is because Spiritual communication is heavily involved with all forms of thought and emotion. And on Earth, our experiences really send our thoughts and emotions through some hard times.