Can you hug a ghost

Stop Mechanisms....

In channeling sessions, Erik has stated through said medium, that in Spirit there is no stop mechanism, that his hands just pass through us...

Ok. now this seems disappointing, but it's not the whole story, and it's slanted from a certain point of view...and so far has been limited in explanation due to the format of Elisa's channeling sessions.

Lets start over:

On Earth, when in 3D physicality: Matter, has 4 possible forms. Solid, liquid, gas, plasma. But, Matter and energy are interchangeable on the atomic and higher levels. What alters condition, or physicality is density of energy. This energy moves or "vibrates" (poor choice of word); Sub atomic matter vibrates within a series of values or spectrum's. Just like light.

In a certain way, Dimensions also vibrate within a spectrum of values.

Certain values or ranges within a spectrum are sub dimensions.

All of these exist in the same relative space each within the distance of it's vibrating energetic particles.

A Spirit, vibrates at and within certain frequencies. This depends on it's ability to expand or contract. Or if you will, increase or decrease the energetic particles that make up it's consciousness/s. This ability is a state of being. It is created by Spiritual evolution. Or the ability to expand. The distance it CAN expand is dependent on Awareness. This is regulated by experience. Power is regulated by energy flow. The ability to hold and manipulate energy is regulated by how close to Source you are and through experience.

Ok, Now a Spirit at a certain vibration normally and nominally exists or resides on a "plane" or dimensionality that most closely matches it's vibration.

Within this vibrational range or dimensional spectrum, A stop mechanism exists for everyone who shares the same vibration. But only when the Spirit creates a body for itself--consciously or unconsciously. To create a body; energy from the existing plane is pulled through the chakras to create an etheric body, which then molds dimensional matter into a solid form existing on that plane. Within this context, there is and can be solid stop mechanisms.

Now just as there is physicality on other dimensional planes or vibrational state of beings, IN Spirit world, depending on evolution, one can exist or move in and out of physicality within ones state of being OR, one can be as energetic consciousness. If one is as Energy, you have many more options. You and others you interact with can create bodies from different vibrational planes and interact that way, or they can create "thought forms" to act via proxy in a holographic dream/illusion space.

Now all this "ability" totally depends on experience, evolution, knowledge, and ability, and energy available, in conjunction with others free will, intent, ect.

When Spirits come to our physicality on 3D earth, more often than not, they run into a problem. They are not evolved enough to create a solid body for a myriad of reasons, thus... no stop mechanism. Does this mean they cannot effect other means of interacting with solid matter? No, they can; with practice, energy and effort, they can--only just not like we think they should. For example, to push a button, they can condense their energy or create a thought form shape and with force of will, or pulling from environmental or our energy they can snap it to push a button.

When you hear of solid materialization's, it is because the Spirit in question is evolved, and experienced enough to pull and condense energy from some source into form. This is extremely rare. Other times, Spirits can combine energies to manipulate matter.

So, in short, Stop mechanisms really only exist within ones state of vibration or state of being. To move between dimensionality and manifest in the physical is beyond the norm experience and ability for most spirits for many reasons.

Now to Spirit to Spirit: This does not matter so much as intimacy and love between energetic bodies is more about blending, sharing, and enfolding of consciousness in such a way that pales to any tactile sensation possible to our current perception.