South Indian Stir-Fried Asparagus

Serves 2

1/2 lb fresh asparagus (could use cabbage, carrots, etc instead of asparagus)

2 tsp unrefined virgin coconut oil

3/8 tsp black mustard seeds

1 tsp black gram dal (urad dal)

1 dried red chili (2" in length)

1/8 tsp ground tumeric

2 tbsp frozen or fresh grated coconut (available at Thana)

1 tsp lime juice

salt to taste