Blaming
Fault-Finding
Deviance Detecting
Reflective Listening, 1994 Neil Katz and Kevin McNulty
"Evaluating/Judging
2. Criticizing/Blaming.
Make the the person feel stupid, outcast, or foolish. (Stereotyping or categorizing.)
You're out of line
You didn't do it right.
That's a stupid thing to say!
You are a fuzzy thinker
You're talking like an engineer.
You really goofed on this one.
That was a dumb thing to do.
It's your fault"