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  • Fault-Finding 
  • Deviance Detecting

Reflective Listening, 1994 Neil Katz and Kevin McNulty
2. Criticizing/Blaming. 
Make the the person feel stupid, outcast, or foolish. (Stereotyping or categorizing.)
  • You're out of line
  • You didn't do it right.
  • That's a stupid  thing to say!
  • You are a fuzzy thinker
  • You're talking like an engineer.
  • You really goofed on this one.
  • That was a dumb thing to do.
  • It's your fault"

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