Wise parents,
without any anger,
may sometimes scold
or even punish their children.
This is permissible, but
if you really get angry
and whack the child
too much, then you yourself
will feel regret
in the future. However, with
a good motivation of
seeking a child’s welfare,
it is possible to
display an expression
appropriate to what
the child needs
at the moment.
有智慧的父母們, 在不發怒的前提下,
有時可以責罵, 甚至處罰他們的孩子.
這是能被允許的, 但若你真的動怒,
而狠狠的責打小孩, 接著你一定會後悔.
無論如何, 在好的動機下, 為了孩子的福祉,
可以在需要的時候適度的表達情緒.