may23

Many people think that

to be patient in bearing loss

is a sign of weakness, I think

this is a mistake. It is

anger that is a sign of weakness,

whereas patience is a sign of strength.

For example, a person arguing a point

base on sound reasoning remains

confident and may even smile

while proving his case. On

the other hand, if his reasons

are unsound and he is about

to lose face, he gets angry, loses control

and starts talking nonsense. People

rarely get angry if they are

confident in what they are doing.

Anger comes more easily in

moments of confusion.

許多人以為在吃虧的時候仍耐心以待

是一種軟弱的表現, 我認為是不對的.

憤怒才是軟弱的表現, 而耐心展現的是力量.

好比, 一個人充分合理的提出一個論點時

容易保持信心, 甚至可以微笑著逐步證明他的看法.

反之, 如果理由不當而可能丟臉的時候,

他會開始生氣, 失去控制而開始語無倫次.

人很少在充滿信心處理事情時發怒.

怒氣較容易在混亂的時候出現.