Within oneself, within each single
person, one finds many inconsistencies
and contradictions. Sometimes the
disparity between one’s thoughts
early and late in the day is so great
that one spends all one’s energy
trying to figure out how
it can be resolved. This can
lead to headaches. So naturally,
between two persons, between
partners and children, between brothers
and sisters, there are differences.
Conflicts and disagreements
are bound to happen.
If so, then how do we
deal with them? If we have
confidence in our capacity for
reconciliation then we will
be able to deal with
these situation.
在每一個人的內在中, 都可以發現
許多不連貫和相互矛盾之處.
有時一個人從早到晚想法改變之大
讓這個人得花所有的力氣來想法子解決.
這是讓人頭痛的問題.
很自然的, 在任何兩個人之間,
父母子女, 兄弟姐妹, 必定存有差異.
衝突和意見也一定會發生.
發生時, 該如何處理它們呢?
只要我們對自己的調解能力有信心,
我們就能處理這些狀況.