december21

With the love that is

simply attachment, the slightest

change in the object, such as a tiny

change of attitude, immediately causes

you to change. This is because

your emotion is based on something

very superficial. Take, for example,

a new marriage. Often after a few

weeks, months or years the couple

become enemies and finish up

getting divorced. They married deeply

in love – nobody marries with

hatred – but after a short time

everything changed.

Why?

當愛情單純只是依戀時,

對象一點點的改變,

例如態度上的些微轉變,

都會立刻讓你改變.

因為你的情感建立在

一些很表淺的東西上.

拿婚姻來舉例吧.

夫妻常常在婚後幾周,

幾個月, 或幾年後變成仇人,

最後以離婚收場.

他們深愛對方而結婚 –

沒有人帶著憎恨結婚的 –

但沒多久什麼都變了.

為什麼?