If you know that someone is speaking
badly of you behind your back, and if
you react to that negativity with
a feeling of hurt, then you destroy
your own peace of mind. One’s pain is
one’s own creation. One should treat
such things as if they are wind behind
one’s ear. In other words, just brush
them aside. To a large extent whether
or not one suffers pain depends on how
one responds to a given situation. What
makes a difference is whether or not
one is too sensitive and takes
things too seriously.
如果因為別人在背後說你的壞話,
你就感到受傷而產生負面情緒,
你就破壞了自己內心的平靜.
人的痛苦是自己製造的.
我們應該把這種東西當做耳朵後面的一陣風.
或說, 就當耳邊風吧.
大體看來, 一個人對身邊狀況的反應
就能決定他是否能承受痛苦.
一件事對人是否產生影響取決於
這個人是否過度敏感而把事情看得太重.