On the subject of love
and marriage, my simple opinion
is that making love is alright, but for
marriage, don’t hurry, be cautious.
Make sure you will remain together
forever, at least for this whole life. That
is important, for if you marry hurriedly
without understanding well what you
are doing, then after a month or after a
year, trouble starts and you will be
seeking divorce. From a legal viewpoint
divorce is possible, and without
children maybe it is acceptable,
but with children, it is not.
在愛與婚姻這個課題上,
我的簡單意見是
做愛是可以的,
但對婚姻要十分謹慎不能莽撞.
確定你會和這個人永遠在一起,
至少這一輩子.
這很重要, 因為你若匆匆結了婚
沒仔細想清楚自己在做什麼,
過了一個月或一年,
問題開始發生後你尋求離婚.
從法律的角度看來離婚是可能的,
沒有小孩的話也許能被接受,
一旦有了孩子, 就不妥了.