In most cases the affirmation of the
ego leads only to disappointment, or
else to conflict with other egos just as
exclusive as mine – especially when
the strong development of the ego leads
to whims and demands. The illusion of
the permanent self secretes a danger
that lies in wait for all of us: I want
this, I want that. You might end up
killing someone, as we all know well.
The excess of egoism leads to
uncontrollable perversions, which
always end badly. But from another
standpoint, a firm ego, sure of itself, can
be a very positive element. You have
to have real confidence
in yourself.
多數情況下, 從自我肯定出發只會導致失望,
或是與其他特立獨行的自我相牴觸 –
尤其是這個自我意識大肆擴張時
引起的許多妄想和需求.
自我永存的幻象中暗藏著危機,
埋伏等待著我們每一個人:
我想要這個, 我想要那個.
我們也都知道, 最後你可能會動手殺人.
自我主義過度膨脹下會產生無法控制的扭曲,
總導致不好的結果.
但從另一個觀點來看,
堅定的自我,相信自己,
可以是非常正面的要素.
你必須對自己有真正的信心.