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Kære Naser Khader
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Kommentar til artikel i Kristeligt Dagblad, den 31. januar http://www.kristeligt-dagblad.dk/danmark/drenge-flygter-fra-krig-pigerne-bliver-tilbage
Det er meget kynisk at Naser Khader som de konservatives talsmand ELLER måske i sin rolle som SYRER med en palæstinensisk far og dermed EN der må vide, hvad han taler om!
Hr. Khader, som talsmand for Kristian Thulesen Dahls tidligere budskab på landsdækkende TV! at forældre i de dybt krigs- og terrorramte nationer er kyniske mennesker!
Thuesen Dahls påstand er, at de UDØVER omsorgssvigt mod deres børn, ved at sende dem afsted alene.
Så LETKØBT af to politikere som IKKE HAR VÆRET I DE HÅRDT RAMTE FAMILIERS SITUATION OVERHOVEDET. Hvor arrogant at tro om sig selv, at de to mænd ved alt om, hvordan det er at leve i reel frygt for ISIS og i sønderbombede byer. Måske der er flest mindre børn i familien- så det oveni udgør en reel fare for hele familien, at flygte sammen????
Det er utrolig stærkt, at de magter at sende ét barn i sikkerhed. Hvis blot de har en flig af håb om, at hele familien kan overleve, genforenes og leve i sikkerhed,
på sigt ,
giver det dem nok styrken til at træffe de virkeligt barske valg.
Barske valg ‼
Mennesker i BLÅ, HØJTRÅBENDE PARTIER, DER SIGER, DE TRÆFFER SVÆRE OG BESTEMT IKKE SJOVE VALG, når de skal begrænse mennesker i at komme til DANMARK og true vor velfærd .
De to mænd i dansk politik: Luksus og Nydelse på den nære bane!" Det ligner til forveksling en ældgammel menneske- egenskab kaldet grådighed - Impuls, ikke langsigtet.
Hvor er deres visdom i lederskab, så der osse bliver noget tilbage af vor klode til POLITIKERNES egne børn og børnebørns børn! ????
Indianerne i Amerika har/havde det perspektiv fra gammel tid: " VI LÅNER JORDEN AF VORE BØRN!"
Mange danske ledende politiker udlever desværre:
VIL HA DET HELE! - OG DET SKA VÆRE
NU‼‼‼‼‼‼‼
Har de berettigelse til at DØMME forældre med ordet: OMSORGSSVIGT!
http://www.kristeligt-dagblad.dk/danmark/drenge-flygter-fra-krig-pigerne-bliver-tilbage
Drenge flygter fra krig - pigerne bliver tilbage
Næsten alle de uledsagede børn, der kommer til Danmark og Sverige, er drenge. Det skyldes traditionelle kønsroller, og at forældre sender familiens stærkeste af sted med menneskesmuglere
Ni ud af ti af de flygtningebørn, der kommer til Danmark uden deres forældre, er drenge.
Danmark har det seneste år modtaget et rekordstort antal uledsagede flygtningebørn, og tal fra Udlændingestyrelsen viser, at der kun er 179 piger blandt de 1700 uledsagede flygtningebørn, som kom til landet de første 11 måneder af 2015.
I Sverige er tendensen den samme. Pigerne udgør kun otte procent af de godt 35.000 uledsagede børn, som Sverige modtog sidste år, viser tal fra det svenske Migrationsverket.
I Danmark kommer to tredjedele af de uledsagede børn fra Syrien og Afghanistan, mens to tredjedele af de uledsagede børn i Sverige er rejst fra Afghanistan. Hovedparten af de uledsagede er teenagere mellem 15 og 18 år.
Ifølge generalsekretær Steen M. Andersen fra FN's børneorganisation Unicef hænger de mange drengeflygtninge sammen med, at piger af kulturelle årsager ikke bliver sendt alene på flugt, og at drengene risikerer at blive hvervet af militser og hære i blandt andet Syrien og Afghanistan.
”Drengene flygter, fordi de kan. De kommer fra en kultur, hvor man ikke sender kvinder ud på rejser alene. De bliver ofte sendt som spydspids i håbet om, at hele familien senere kan komme. Der er samtidig ikke tvivl om, at piger i kraft af deres køn vil være mere udsatte for overgreb under den ofte meget barske flugt,” siger Steen M. Andersen.
Generalsekretæren fremhæver også, at lukningen af Europas grænser har betydet, at det først og fremmest er de stærkeste, der flygter via illegale ruter.
”Da jeg for to år siden besøgte syriske flygtningelejre i Mellemøsten, ville de flygtninge, jeg mødte, tilbage til Syrien. I øjeblikket bliver situationen mere og mere håbløs, og de, der har kræfterne, rejser. Kvinderne er generelt set mere udsatte. For Unicef er det ikke vigtigt at skelne mellem køn, men i stedet fokusere på, at de svageste bliver ladt tilbage, og at de har brug for hjælp,” siger Steen M. Andersen.
Liza Schuster, der er sociolog og migrationsforsker fra City University i London, har et indgående kendskab til Afghanistan, hvor de fleste uledsagede børn i Skandinavien kommer fra. Hun forklarer, at de mange drengeflygtninge fra Afghanistan næsten altid kommer til Europa med en menneskesmugler. Forældre håber, at en søn i udlandet kan forsørge familien og eventuelt også skaffe familiesammenføring.
”Familierne ville være rædselsslagne for at sende en pige alene af sted med en mandlig menneskesmugler på grund af frygt for, hvad der kunne ske. Faktum er imidlertid, at også drenge bliver seksuelt udnyttet på rejsen,” skriver Liza Schuster i en mail.
Liza Schuster fremhæver, at selvom drengene i modsætning til pigerne har udsigt til en mere privilegeret tilværelse, så er de også under et voldsomt pres.
”Familierne har ofte lånt penge til rejsen, og det forventes, at drengene skal betale den gæld,” lyder det fra Liza Schuster.
Den britiske sociolog påpeger, at det for mange afghanske familier er den yderste nødløsning at sende en søn til udlandet.
”Men Talebans fremmarch betyder, at der er en voksende følelse af, at det er sidste chance for at få i det mindste én person i familien sendt i sikkerhed,” forklarer Liza Schuster.
De Konservatives integrationsordfører, Naser Khader, ser det som et udtryk for omsorgssvigt, når forældre fra Syrien og Afghanistan sender deres teenagedrenge alene til Europa.
”Det er kynisk, at det næsten kun er drengene, der rejser på grund af de traditionelle kønsroller, og fordi forældrene mener, at de kan forsørge familien. Jeg har familie i Syrien, der er flygtet til en mere sikker del af landet. Hvis man flygter, må man flygte sammen med sine børn. Vi skal behandle de uledsagede børn ordentligt, men samtidig skal vi gøre alt, hvad vi kan, for at stoppe fænomenet. Der er større risiko for, at børnene bliver udsat for overgreb under rejsen end for, at de bliver ramt af en bombe i hjemlandet,” siger Naser Khader.
Den konservative politiker opfordrer til en styrket indsats for at bekæmpe menneskesmuglere, der hjælper børn til Europa. Samtidig mener han, at der bør laves programmer, der genbosætter familier i sikre zoner af Syrien og Afghanistan.
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En kort biografi om Naser Khader, taget fra en lærebog fra Sprogskolen i Kolding.
Naser Khader blev født i 1963 i Syrien. Hans far var palæstinenser, og hans mor var syrer. Naser Khader var den ældste ud af 5 børn. I slutningen af 1960’erne rejste hans far alene til Europa, hvor der var mangel på ufaglært arbejdskraft. Først rejste faren til Tyskland og bagefter til Danmark.
I 1974, da Naser var 11 år, flyttede han og familien til Danmark for at bo sammen med faren. Moren var analfabet og lærte aldrig godt dansk. Faren havde kun gået tre år i skole. Sammen havde forældrene en grønthandel, indtil faren døde i 1998.
Familien boede i Istedgade på Vesterbro, og de første år i Danmark havde Naser hjemve: ”Jeg havde svært ved at sove, græd meget og kunne ikke lide at være i Danmark. Jeg savnede mine skolekammerater og ville hjem til mine bedsteforældre, som jeg holdt meget af. ” Efter at Naser begyndte i skole, blev hjemveen mindre. Han fik danske kammerater og lærte hurtigt dansk.
Efter folkeskolen gik han i gymnasiet og blev den første elev med indvandrerbaggrund, som tog en studentereksamen på Rysensteen Gymnasium i København.
Samme år, i 1983, blev han gift med en kusine fra sin landsby i Syrien. Ægteskabet var arrangeret, og Naser kunne ikke sige nej. Men han ville ikke giftes, og han boede aldrig sammen med sin kone. Kusinen var kun i Danmark et par måneder, så blev de skilt.
I sin fritid gik Naser til karate og dyrkede denne sport på eliteniveau. I 1985 blev han danmarksmester i karate.
Naser fortæller om sin integration at ”noget af det mest afgørende i min integration var, at jeg spillede fodbold og dyrkede kampsport i danske klubber, var på lejrture, træningsophold og udlandsture med de andre danske drenge, for derigennem lærer man at være sammen.”
Efter gymnasiet læste Naser økonomi på universitetet og blev færdig som cand.polit. i 1993. Han arbejdede bl.a. som tolk, men blev også politiker. Han havde i mange år været medlem af partiet det radikale Venstre, og i 1996 begyndte han en karriere som radikal politiker. Fra 2001 til 2007 var han folketingsmedlem for partiet. I 2007 forlod han partiet og var med til at danne et helt nyt parti, nemlig partiet Ny Alliance, som han blev formand for. Han var kun formand i to år, så forlod han også Ny Alliance og blev i 2009 medlem af Det Konservative Folkeparti. I 2011 forlod han dansk politik.
Naser flyttede til USA for at arbejde ved Hudson Institute, hvor han bl.a. forsker i demokrati. Naser Khader har to børn, en datter og en søn, fra to tidligere forhold.
Med venlig hilsen Lars Skov Krøgholt og Daniela Skov
ENGLISH TRANSLATION
Comments to an article in the Christian daily Kristeligt Dagblad http://www.kristeligt-dagblad.dk/danmark/drenge-flygter-fra-krig-pigerne-bliver-tilbage
It is very cynical on behalf of Naser Khader, who is spokesman of the Conservative Party OR perhaps in his role of a Syrian of a Palestinian father and thereby profiling as "someone who really knows, what he is on about!" Mr. Khader, who is spokesman of Kristian Thulesen Dahl's recent message on nationwide television! that parents in the deeply war-and terror torn Nations are CYNICAL human beings!
Kristian Thuesen Dahl’s, Leader of Danish Folk Party (DF)'s claim is that the parents concerned (for instance Afghan parents sending their sons to Denmark on their own) show severe Lack of Care towards their children.
Such cheap superficiality from two politicians, who have never ever been in the situation the despairing families are faced with.
Such superiority attitude and sheer arrogance to tell lies to themselves, that you two men, know all about what it is to live in a reality of fear of ISIS , insurgents of Taliban, and living in cities destroyed by bombings.
Perhaps the families consists of merely younger children,-thus increase the danger to the family traveling together -fleeing through traffickers ...!
I really am in awe of families who find the strength to send off a child all by himself to find safety. If only a glimpse of hope is there for them, that the entire family can survive, reunite and live in safety that must be the strength they cling to when making such unbearably tough choices for their children.
Extremely tough choices.
People in BLUE AS WELL AS NOISY PARTIES, CLAIMING THEY ARE THE ONES WHO MAKE THE UTMOST TOUGH AND DEFINITELY NOT AMUSING CHOICES, in order to prevent refugees to come to Denmark posing huge threats to our riches and welfare.
Those 2 men in Danish of the political ideology: "LUXURY AND PLEASURE within our territory"
Actually, it is easy to compare with an ancient human characteristic called greed - driven by impulse. No wise long-term visions and planning.
Where is the wisdom in their leadership.
In order to leave part of our planet also to the politician's own children and grandchildren's children??????
Indians in America have or had the perspective from days of old: "We are the ones who borrow the planet from our children"
Many leading Danish politicians sadly to say live out:
" WE WANT IT ALL
- NOW!"‼‼‼‼‼
In what way does that entitle them to PLACE PREJUDICE on parents: SEVERE LACK OF CARE?
http://www.kristeligt-dagblad.dk/danmark/drenge-flygter-fra-krig-pigerne-bliver-tilbage
Boys are fleeing war-the girls stay behind
Almost all of the unaccompanied children, who come to Denmark and Sweden, are boys. This is caused by traditional gender roles, and that parents are sending the family's strongest away with traffickers
Nine out of ten of the refugee children, who come to Denmark without their parents, are boys.
Denmark in the past year has received a record number of unaccompanied refugee children, and figures from the Danish Immigration Service show that there is only 179 girls among the 1700 unaccompanied refugee children, who came to the country the first 11 months of the year 2015.
In Sweden, the trend is the same. Girls make up only eight percent of 35,000 unaccompanied children, as Sweden received last year, figures from the Swedish Immigration Office show.
In Denmark two-thirds of the unaccompanied children come from Syria and Afghanistan, while two-thirds of the unaccompanied children in Sweden have travelled from Afghanistan. The majority of the unaccompanied are teens between 15 and 18 years.
According to the Secretary General of the UN children's organisation Unicef Steen M. Andersen the issue of the many boy refugees is related to the fact that girls by cultural reasons will not be sent alone on the run, and that boys are in danger of being enlisted by militias and armies in among others Syria and Afghanistan.
"The boys flee, because they can. They come from a culture where people do not send women out on travels alone. They are often sent as a spearhead in the hope that the whole family can come later. There is also no doubt that the girls because of their sex will be more exposed to assault during the often very harsh flight, " says Steen m. Andersen.
The Secretary General also highlights that the closure of Europe's borders has meant that primarily the strongest are fleeing via illegal routes.
"When I two years ago visited Syrian refugee camps in the Middle East, the refugees I met, wanted to go back to Syria. Currently, the situation becomes more and more desperate, and those who have the strength to it, travel. Women are generally more at risk. To Unicef, it is not important to distinguish between the sexes, but instead focus on the fact that the most vulnerable will be left behind, and that they need help, " says Steen M. Andersen.
Liza Schuster, who is a sociologist and migration researcher from City University in London, has a thorough knowledge of Afghanistan, from where most of the unaccompanied children in Scandinavia come. She explains that the many boy refugees from Afghanistan almost always come to Europe by a trafficker. Parents hope that a son abroad can provide for the family and possibly also obtain family reunification.
"The families would be terrified to send a girl alone with a male trafficker out of fear for what could happen. The fact is, however, that boys also become sexually exploited on the journey, " Liza Schuster writes in a mail.
Liza Schuster highlights that although the boys as opposed to girls have the prospect of a more privileged life, they are also under tremendous strain.
"The families have often borrowed money for the journey, and it is expected that the boys must pay that debt," says Liza Schuster.
The British sociologist points out that for many Afghan families it is the most extreme emergency solution to send a son abroad.
"But the Taliban advancement means that there is a growing feeling that it is the last chance to get at least one person in the family sent in security," Liza Schuster explains.
The conservatives ' spokesman on integration, Naser Khader, sees it as an expression of neglect, when parents from Syria and Afghanistan send their teenage boys alone to Europe.
"It is cynical, that it is almost only the boys who travel because of traditional gender roles, and because parents believe that they can provide for the family. I have family in Syria, who have fled to a safer part of the country. If you are escaping, one must escape with your children. We must treat the unaccompanied children properly, but at the same time, we must do everything we can to stop the phenomenon. There is a greater risk that children will be exposed to assault during the voyage than for them to be hit by a bomb in their home country, " Naser Khader says.
The conservative politician calls for a strengthened effort to combat traffickers, who help children to Europe. At the same time, he believes that there ought to be programs to resettle families in safe zones of Syria and Afghanistan.
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A short bio of Naser Khader, taken from a textbook in the Language School (for foreign learners) in Kolding.
Naser Khader was born in 1963 in Syria. His father was Palestinian and his mother was Syrian. Naser Khader was the eldest of 5 children. In the late 1960s, his father traveled alone to Europe, where there was a shortage of unskilled labour. First the father travelled to Germany and then to Denmark.
In 1974, when Naser was 11 years, he and the family moved to Denmark to live with the father. His mother was illiterate and never learned good Danish. The father had only gone three years in school. The parents had a green trade together, until the father died in 1998.
The family lived in Istedgade in the Vesterbro district, and the first year in Denmark Naser felt homesick: "I had a hard time sleeping, cried a lot and did not like to be in Denmark. I missed my schoolmates and wanted to go back home to my grandparents, who I was very fond of. " After Naser began in school, he felt less homesick. He got Danish peers and quickly learned Danish.
After primary school, he went to high school and was the first student with a migrant background, who took a high school diploma at the Rysensteen Gymnasium in Copenhagen.
The same year, in 1983, he married a cousin from his village in Syria. The marriage was arranged, and Naser could not say no. However, he did not want to get married, and he never lived together with his wife. The cousin was only in Denmark a couple of months, then they were divorcing.
In his spare time, Naser went for karate and cultivated this sport at the elite level. In 1985, he was Danish champion in karate.
Naser tells about his integration that "some of the most crucial in my integration was that I played football and cultivated the martial arts in Danish clubs, was on camp trips, training and international tours with the other Danish boys, that way you learn to be together."
After gymnasium Naser studied economy at the university and graduated as Cand.Polit. in 1993. He worked, among other things as an interpreter, but was also a politician. He had for many years been a member of the “Radikale Venstre” Party, and in 1996 he began a career as a “radikal” politician. From 2001 to 2007, he was MP for the party. In 2007, he left the party and helped to form a brand new party, namely the party “Ny Alliance”, of which he was Chairman. He was only Chairman for two years, so he left “Ny Alliance” and became in 2009 a member of the Conservative People's Party. In 2011, he left Danish politics.
Naser moved to the United States to work at the Hudson Institute, where he, among other things. researches in democracy. Naser Khader has two children, a daughter and a son from two previous relationships.
Kind regards Daniela Skov and Lars Skov Krøgholt
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