Man's greatest victory is the conquest of himself. When man is selfish, he is incapable of unselfishly serving and loving others. We must lose our selfishness to find our eternal destiny. (http://www.scribd.com/doc/913101/5th-Epochal-Revelation)
Humility is a true knowledge of oneself as one is. To have a true knowledge of ourselves as we are, we must recognize both the good and bad parts of ourselves. (p87) Self-love implies care, respect, and responsibility for the self as being important, but not self centerness and esteem. (p88) (Further)