Domestic Violence (DV)/ Abuse of female partners
Many of these resources are gender neutral and apply to abuse of male partners by the female partners as well.
Online resources
Through their eyes - Impact of DV on children
10 Tips to have an informed conversation about Domestic Violence (DV) PDF
Difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one with the Couplets
Are you modeling respect at home?
Your past can affect your health
DV Services in New York State - Booklet
DV and Faith communities - Guidelines for leaders
Videos
Unmasking the abuser by Dina McMillan TEDx - 20 minutes
Not Another Victim — I’m An Empowered Survivor Defendant By Marissa Alexander TEDx - 17 minutes
Watch "A Mile in Her Shoes: Changing perspective on domestic violence by Ryan Calvert TEDx - 14 minutes
Men, own your role in domestic violence by Christan Rainey Tedx
Can abuse feel good? By Kristin Carmichael at TEDx
Books
"Adult children of emotionally immature people - How to heal from distant, rejecting, or self-involved parents" ByLindsay C. Gibson
"Emotional Blackmail - When the people in your life use fear, obligation and guilt to manipulate you" By Susan Forward
"Toxic parents - Overcoming their hurtful legacy and reclaiming your life" By Susan Forward
"Toxic in-laws - Loving strategies for protecting your marriage" By Susan Forward
"Women with controlling partners - Taking back your life from a manipulative or abusive partner" By Carol A. Lambert
"The verbally abusive relationship - How to recognize it and how to respond" BY Patricia Evans
"Controlling people - How to recognize, understand, and deal with people who try to control you" by Patricia Evans
"The disease to please - Curing the people-pleasing syndrome" by Harriet Braiker
“Family and friends’ guide to Domestic Violence - How to listen, talk and take action when someone you care about is being abused” by Elaine Weiss
“Why does he do that? - Inside the minds of angry and controlling men” By Lundy Bancroft
“When dad hurts mom - Helping your children heal the wounds of witnessing abuse” By Lundy Bancroft
“Should I stay or go? A guide to knowing if your relationship can and should be saved” By Lundy Bancroft
When Love Goes Wrong: What to Do When You Can't Do Anything Right By Ann Jones
