Parenting

Learn the basics of Collaborative and Proactive Solutions by Ross Greene (Founder)

STEP 1: CHANGE YOUR LENSES - Following four videos

Solving Problems Rather Than Modifying Behavior - 5 min

Solving Problems Collaboratively Rather Than Unilaterally - 2 min

Let’s Get You Out of the Heat of the Moment  -  9 min

Kids Do Well if They Can  - 13 min

STEP 2: IDENTIFY LAGGING SKILLS AND UNSOLVED PROBLEMS

How to complete the ALSUP2020  (Assessment of Lagging Skills and Unsolved Problems 2020 version)  - 38 min

Download the ALSUP - Form PDF

Sample ALSUP Meeting at School - 51 min 

STEP 3: SOLVE PROBLEMS COLLABORATIVELY AND PROACTIVELY

The Three Plans and the Three Steps of Plan B  - Video 8 min

KIDS & PARENTS (Videos)

Demonstration of Plan B with a 10-year old Boy and His Parents - 26 min

Plan with a Mom and Her 15-Year Old Son - 35 min

Demonstration of Plan B with a 15-year old Girl and Her Mom  - 42 min

KIDS & EDUCATORS (Videos)

Demonstration of Plan B at School with a 10-year old student - 41 min

Full-Class Plan B - 42 min

Success stories

Dr Gabor Mate on parenting - Multiple videos

Consequences of stressed parenting  - Dr Gabor Mate

Presence, Parenting and The Planet by Dan Siegel - Talk at Google 

Mindful Parenting Demonstration By Daniel Siegel

5 connections that will change children’s lives By Laura Jana 

Communication and the Teenage Brain by Martyn Richards - TEDx 

Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain - Dan Siegel - Talks at Google 

"How to talk so kids will listen" Szczepan Faber TED style talk at LinkedIn 15 min    

Practical Parenting Tools, by Joanna Faber 11 min

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk!   45 min     

How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen with Joanna Faber & Julie King Youtube Audio - 1 hour 

Interview - Adele Faber 8 min

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk - Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish (Summary) - Animated Youtube Video  9 min

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk!  9 min 

Articles

Spanking can lead to relationship violence Study published in Journal of Pediatrics       

5 Things Loving Parents Would Never Say Psychology today 

Articles on Parenting and Family Communication  Based on Nonviolent Communication

New York State Parenting Guide 86 pages with pictures

Books

How To Talk So LITTLE Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King  

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

How to Talk So Teens Will Listen & Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish 

The whole brain child by Dan Seigel PDF

Resources