Edwin Rutsch
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Director Center for Building A Culture of Empathy
EdwinRutsch@gmail.com
I would like to:
I’m working on all aspects of the MOOC project. making it a central focus of all my work time.. 6 days a week. A to Z. Recruiting participant, making contacts, designing basic initial lessons.
Trying to set up a productive and effective framework so others will be able to constructively contribute to and enjoy working on the training development.
(x) Participate as a sample workshop attendee
(x) Read material, Show up and do the exercises.
( x) Co-Design Training
( x ) How many hours per week can you contribute?__ working full time on this
( x ) I commit to the initial 6 week project. (chapters 1 to 6)
( x) I can commit to extending to a full book series. 16 weeks, (chapters 1 to 16)
Comments?:
Skills
( x) I have the following skills I can contribute.
Empathy skills
technical and organizational skills
Social media
( x) Design Activity Lesson.
( x) Design a Lesson. (a full meeting)
(x ) Design and Facilitate an Activity Lesson.
( x ) Facilitate a (x # of weeks) Empathy Study Group
Visioning
( x ) Help articulate the Culture of Empathy vision.
( x ) Write copy. I write well and can help write content and copy..
Comments?:
Technical Production
(x ) Do Web design
( x ) Create video clips
Comments?:
Lead/Facilitate Empathy Training
( x) Lead/Facilitate an Empathy MOOC study Teams
( x ) Lead/Facilitate a Training Series.
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(x ) Do Empathy Activism
( x) Facilitate Empathy Circles between people.
( ) Support circle
(x ) Take part in an Empathy Tent
( x ) Start an Empathy Tent in my Area
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( ) Add Any Other Ideas:
On Arrival Questions
What are personal and/or social problems that you feel empathy can solve, and why?
Painful feelings of conflict, disconnection, loneliness, alienation, depression, anger, numbness, stress, anxiety, fear, etc etc can be transformed into enjoyable feelings.
Also, when feelings are disjointed, disconnected, chaotic or blocked, - empathy can be a powerful agent to integrate them.
Presently the social political polarization is something I have been working on addressing with empathy. I see that empathy can heal the divide.
We generate a lot of video but is it difficult to go back and harvest the ideas and comments. It may be more effective to be doing more writing along the way to capture ideas. Also, to have heading in the video of the sections so that we can more easily find the different topic and activity..
Empathy for Problem Solving:
Problems that Empathy Addresses
Would it be helpful to specify some specific problems the training is working on to address?
For Example
Political Polarization
Fear
Question,
What problems would you like to address with empathy?
Empathy As a quality of Feeling and a way of Being.
Creating a felt experience or environment.
What do you appreciate about yourself and why do you appreciate it?
In terms of the Empathy work, I appreciate my dedication and perseverance in working on it. Because, for effectiveness and to make real personal and social empathic change, this is needed.
I also appreciate my willingness to step into the unknown, like set up the empathy tent, even if I have to do it by myself. There is a sense of pushing into the unknown. Maybe an adventurous,, trying something new.
Did world traveling like this after high school, leaving my home and traveling around the world for 10 years.
What questions do you have about the empathy training project and MOOC?
I’m curious what design participants think about it and what questions they have.
These questions came up in another team
Other Questions
What is the scope of the MOOC?
Express a little bit about a fear you have in any area of your life?
A big fear from me is about income. I haven’t been very effective at making a reasonable income from my empathy work which causes a lot of stress for me and my relationship. I feels like an ongoing anxiety in the background.. I’ve gotten so used to it that it’s difficult to articulate from other anxieties in my awareness. Sometimes I wake up around 4am and start thinking and thinking.. Sort of an ongoing rumination trying to address it.
List the specific skills that you see that are part of an empathic way of being (ie. attitude - mindset - heartset - consciousness)?
Which of these skills do you most want to get better at?
Self empathy
Identifying an internal feeling. Putting it into words and expressing it.
Empathic listening
Reflecting
Reflecting a feeling someone is expressing
Reflecting a feeling that is behind what someone is expressing.
Reflecting a feeling the someone desires (need or value)
Empathic Speaking
sharing a feeling
identifying and sharing the feeling that arises as a consequence of someone else's action.
Empathic Relationships
Identifying and articulating the feelings of a relationship
Most want to get better at. Empathic Speaking. Authentically expressing my own feelings.
How do you think reflective listening compares to our everyday conversation?
Edwin
Everyday conversation:
Each person will experience it differently.
Can be competitive, full of empathy blocks. Each of these blocks may have visceral feelings of discomfort for the listeners and speakers.
Most extroverted person may get the most attention.
Reflective listening:
Each person will experience it differently.
For the speaker, they may feel more deeply heard, without the stress of competition.
Can have more positive feelings, of openness, creativity, etc.
Thinking about this question, a more effective question maybe:
How do you personally experience the difference of reflective listening as compared to everyday conversation in your life?
How do you feel reflective listening compares to everyday conversation in your personal experience?
Course Experience: How was the experience of doing this Listening Well course?
I Like..
This is a very solid and dedicated team.
I love the commitment of everyone.
A good learning and growing experience.
Was able to start from scratch and create the whole website and resources. Feelings of satisfaction and accomplishment.
The outline of the course gives a good structure that builds.
I Wish…
It was clearer on how people could contribute
We had been able to design more refined exercises.
Had been able to make more of all the dialogues and notes.. Ie turn it into articles, or something.
The we could create something that really resonates with a lot of people, ie goes viral.
What if…
We continue with making a video for the next 2 or 3 meetings
Everyone be able to use the video to host online empathy circles.
We then do the next 6 lesson course together.