But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
― Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
12. Listening Well in Relationships
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* How is Reflective Listening Different From Conversation?
* Try It? Think of a topic that you feel two ways about. 1 Speaker, 1 Listener. The challenge is to suspend your own thoughts as the Listener. Miller suggests that the Listener can use 2 questions (no more) to use between 'Reflective Listening'.