Using a peace table...
Provides 'cool down' processing time
Gives think time
Increases opportunity to perspective take
Allows repairing of harm
Overview
A desk with a feathered pen in a holder located in the classroom.
Whenever students have a conflict they each draft a peace table statement before coming together to meet with teacher.
Every statement had to have three distinct elements
An explanation of what the disagreement was about
An I statement explaining the writer's feelings (“When you ____ I felt ____. I would like ______.”)
An I statement explaining what the writer thinks the other person might say (“When you ___, I felt ___. I would like ___.”
Next teacher meets with both students to discuss the conflict.
"The time the students spent drafting accomplished two important objectives:
It gave both parties time to cool off
It encouraged both to put the conflict in perspective.
In most cases the conflict was on its way to being resolved before the impromptu conference even took place" -Better Than Carrots or Sticks"
Core Components
Students must be introduced to the 'peace table' when in a regulated state
The table must be a common process to solve conflicts
Debrief and affective statements must be used after think time (writing) is completed.
Proactive Implementation
Proactively establishing the peace table occurs when students are given opportunities to practice the peace table protocol when they are not escalated.
Responsive Implementation
Responsively implementing the peace table may occur when students begin to feel their voice is not being heard during conflict. This is a conflict resolution intervention. The supervising adult must be present and work through the process with the students in conflict if this is being done responsively.
Connection
If the need is connection then the peace table truly needs to allow for all parties to be heard. Additional connecting questions can be used after the conflict is resolved.
Skills Training
If the need is skill building then the students may write down their responses to a script to use during the conversation.
Awareness
If the need is awareness then there must be an emphasis on actively and empathetically listening to the other when it is their turn to share how the conflict has impacted them.
Emotional Regulation
If the need is regulation then time may be provided prior to bringing the students to the peace table.
Consider Factors Prior to Start
Student factors-
Gender, race, function, topography, family dynamics, interpersonal relationships
Contextual factors -
Resource availability, classroom instruction, physical space, time, technology
Intensifying or Fading During
Duration
Frequency
Feedback
Reinforcement
Goals
REMINDER
Make a note to document when you're starting this intervention.
After 10 consecutive school days of implementation, use collected data to determine the intervention's effectiveness.