Despair is a sense of hoeplessness about a person's entire life and future. When extreme hopelessness seeps into all the corners of our lives and combines with extreme sadness, we feel despair.
Brene Brown Atlas of the Heart p. 102
Someone believes that there is no end to what we're experiencing is a desperate and claustrophbic feeling. We can't figure a way out or through the struggle and the suffering.
Brene Brown Atlas of the Heart p. 102
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