Remember back then whenever everyone was allowed to speak on anything they wanted to. Whenever everyone gave their personal opinion, everyone would be happy and move on. But nowadays say one little thing, and that might tick someone off. Now half the world is chasing you down. Almost like its a man hunt for Bonnie and Clyde What I'm trying to tell you is that people have become so opinionated and so self centered. That I really don't remember a time where we were allowed to say anything we wanted to. My question is where did it all go wrong. Where did it start, and why did it become such a huge thing. Because due to the fact of people being so opinionated people tend to only see one side. That's either the right or wrong side, it doesn't matter because people deserve to see both sides. So they could make their own decisions, and not be forced to follow a train of people who just hopped on it due to the fact that others did and those who didn't are just getting bashed into the ground.
For example we got many new current day articles talking about how to deal with opinionated people, and how to tell someone is opinionated. And nowadays we have leaders and people who have even the slightest bit of fame. Watch every single word they say. It's almost like ANYTHING they said was a planned speech. But this leads to another good example: a simple way of telling someone is opinionated is by just listening to the conversation going on. They would be the one speaking whenever the other is speaking. They would try to take control in every little spot they can. They will NEVER and I mean NEVER try to hear you out they would keep the same opinion no matter what you hit them with.
For example, Los Angeles County is just a brick wall in the lawsuit against Vanessa Bryant. They want all these extra things just to prove something everyone knew she was going through. They are just shutting her down each time she tries and tries.
But my number one tip to deal with opinionated people is just say ¨Thank you for input, but we see it differently.¨ Some people may take this the wrong way, but it normally seems to work for many people. But another way is just to change the topic in the middle of their speech or after they are done. Why you may ask because it was more of a hassle for them to put out their small speech that they would die on. Will you just smile and bother them.
It's just something that needed to be brought back up in the world. Where everyone heard both sides of the story without making a noise blind decision. This would give everyone the chance to take in feedback and improve themselves. For the better good or not.