The most dangerous form of betrayal is DISENGAGEMENT. When the people we love or with whom we have a deep connection stop caring, stop paying attention, stop investing and fighting for the relationship, trust then begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in. Disengagement triggers shame and our greatest fears- the fears of being abandoned, unworthy and unlovable- what can make this covert betrayal so much dangerous than something tangible like a lie or affair is that we cant pin point exactly what went wrong - there’s no event, no evidence, all we can see is that people have changed and moved on- No explanations or whatsoever - Monk Reflections

LAW OF BETRAYAL 🐍🦂

Have you been betrayed before? I have been betrayed severally. Even last week I was betrayed.

The LAW OF BETRAYAL says that as long as you are a mortal, at one point or the other you will be betrayed. It is a law- even God had his own share- Satan betrayed him, and You -created in the image of God think you can dodge it, sorry for appearing like a prophet of doom but the truth is that betrayal will seek you out like a plague, so you must be prepared and learn how to deal with it when it comes.

As for the coming it will come, it is how you handle the betrayal that will break you or make you. You know most often - just when you think you know it all and have a grasp on life issues and your relationships- life’s storms will strip you and strike you down with betrayal.

No one is immune to being hurt by a loved one - at some point in time, you will be hurt. This is another ugly truth and to deny it will come with catastrophic consequences for your emotional health when the betrayal comes. – The odds are that betrayal will rear its ugly head and plunge it sharp teeth into your delicate emotions. Keep your eyes opened…

Betrayal is a system. You could be a VICTIM or a PERPETUATOR. If you spend your life being a victim of betrayal all most all the time, you need help. If you are constantly betraying people, you also need help. Let me explain.

A system is a set of principles or procedures according to which something is done; an organized scheme or method. A system can also be defined as a collection of elements or components that are organized for a common purpose.

So the system of betrayal is the collection, components or set of principles that is organized for the purpose of betraying. Betrayal is like for the lack of a better word a " Spirit " that looks for bodies to inhabit, and if you leave yourself it will inhabit your body and use you or allow you to be used as a victim.

It’s a serious spiritual law am sharing with you, betrayal is a system. It’s a system that allows you; to break your promise, be disloyal, be unfaithful, let people down, double-cross, deceive, cheat, inform on/against, give away, denounce, sell out, stab someone in the back, bite the hand that feeds you, turn into traitor, give up treacherously, to disclose in breach of trust, to seduce, to deliver up, etc. Betrayal can also take the form of abandonment, vicious gossip, and spreading lies.

You must understand that this system of betrayal can make you the victim, that’s where you are the one being betrayed or make you the perpetrator, where you are the one doing the betrayal.

Now, let me take you through how the system of betrayal was birth. The founding father of this system is Lucifer, the former morning star, aka Satan, the Devil. Lucifer became so impressed with his own beauty, intelligence, power, and position that he began to desire for himself the honour and glory that belonged to God alone. So he betrayed God by convincing one third of celestial beings to stage a coup deta - Ezekiel 28:11-19. So after designing this system, the system started looking for ways of expression.

The first humans the system found expression in was Adam and Eve, our first parents who betrayed God, and did exactly what He asked them not to do, hope you remember the role that the originator of the system of betrayal (Satan) played in this first human disobedience.

The system then manifested itself in Cain, one of the first children of Adam and Eve, who treacherously betrayed his brother Abel, by murdering him. As a result he was cursed and marked for life (Genesis 4:1-16). After this incident the system of betrayal was now gaining roots in humanity, once you avail yourself, the system will come upon you like a spirit and use you either as a victim or perpetrator.

The next big betrayal that happened in biblical history was that of Joseph. The system of betrayal found Joseph as the victim and His own brothers as the perpetrators. It didn’t end there, another betrayal came again- He served his slave master Potiphar faithfully, but Potiphar jailed him after hearing a false accusation.

Later, an inmate he’d aided forgot his promise to help clear his name, leaving Joseph imprisoned until he was thirty. Yet Joseph triumphed over these betrayals. How did he do it? He later recognized the system of betrayal at work, and did something about it.

Some of you through no fault of yours have been victims of betrayals, every time, this system is looking for an expression in your very existence, and you think it’s normal, you got to rise up and begin to pray against the system of betrayal. You must add prayers against betrayals to your prayer list.

The next betrayal one I can bring you up to speed on is Samson and Delilah. The system of betrayal found expression in Delilah, she was the perpetrator and Samson was the victim. We can also talk about Ahitophel, Absalom and how they betrayed David.

Oh even David himself betrayed his own soldier. Uriah trusted David, but David betrayed him, sentenced him to death and took over his wife.

Then the most broken record betrayal of all times, the classic of all human betrayals, found its expression in Judas, the C.E.O of the humans betrayal company and Jesus was the victim. The motivation was 30 pieces of silver.

My dear friends betrayal is real. It has now become part of the human experience. Are you a victim of constant betrayal? Are you one constantly perpetuating betrayal? If you answer yes to any of this question, you need help...

TO BE CONTINUED….

Shalom and God bless you.

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