5.2 how to choose welL?
In the previous section, we have learnt that money, fame and health are not the key to happiness. This does not mean that money, fame or health are completely irrelevant to happiness. But they are less important than we may think at first:
In our societies, money is needed for covering our basic needs. We would live a very unhappy life if our basic necessities were not covered. But beyond that, money is not the key factor (the most important factor) for our happiness.
Fame, when caused by admiration, may be a source of happiness. But fame, when reduced to simple popularity, is not related with happiness.
Illness, especially if it is accompanied by constant pain, surely is incompatible with happiness. But handicapped and old people are as happy as anyone else even when they have serious physical handicaps.
Perhaps the most important factor for our happiness is satisfying human relations: more concretely, the relations we establish and maintain with family and friends.
Two kinds of happiness
Exercise 2.1 Two kinds of happiness
Write a composition about the two different types of happiness represented by the two previous charts:
Can you put some examples of the first kind of happiness?
What are the problems of the first kind of happiness?
Can you put some examples of the second kind of happiness?
What are the advantages of the second kind of happiness?
Personal development
The happiness tree
Exercise 2.2 The happiness tree.
Write a composition about the "tree of happiness":
Do you think that one of the four branches is more important than the others? Or are the four of them equally important?
Can you put concrete examples of how freedom is a key ingredient of happiness?
Can you put concrete examples of how purpose a key ingredient of happiness?
Do you think that each branch contributes to the growing of the other branches? Can you put examples of mutual dependency among them?