Qualities of Healthy Relationships
Although relationships come in a wide variety, there are some things that we can generally agree make a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Another word for healthy can be "successful". I placed it in quotes because "successful" may mean something different for different people.
This page gives some of the KEY points and considerations when it comes to keeping relationships healthy and successful. Most pages on this site just give resources and links to other articles, sites (like in the next section). This page is different...it gives a detailed text/image explanation and "lesson" that people can use to self-guide principals of healthy relationships. Scroll down for MORE!
Reflection Questions to consider:
1) What are your non-negotiable traits you seek in a partner?
2) How many of these non-negotiable traits do you yourself HAVE?
2) How many of the NGT's above does your current “love of your life” or best friend/close friend have?
3) Is it possible to “change” someone to fit your “needs”? If not, why do people try?
4) Why do people settle for someone that does not meet their absolute non-negotiable standards?
BUILDING THE PERFECT......
We all have qualities and traits that we look for in a partner. This activity can be done for a dating relationship OR close/best friend
Go through the entire list and check off any item you think you want in a partner or close/best friend.
THEN, pause, walk away, take a 1 minute break and do it again. This time, "star", hi-light or circle your absolute "can't live without", "no mater what", "NON-NEGOTIABLE traits you ABSOLUTELY want in this relationship.
These traits are the things you should make sure your closest relationships always have. Don't give up on them.
FEATURED ARTICLES & websites
FEATURED VIDEOS
Building the Perfect Partner (Corabi)
The 7 things needed for any relationship to succeed (Corabi)
12 signs you're in a healthy relationship (Psych2go)
12 signs you're in a healthy relationship (Top Think)
Mr. Corabi's Theory on the 7 Essential Things that are needed for ANY relationship to be successful.
A Relationship is like a house. We pretty much know in our head what it looks like, but in reality, they are all slightly different. Using a house shaped Graphic organizer, Mr. Corabi created a theory that says that 7 things are needed for any relationship to be successful, no matter what kind it is. This is EASILY used to explain dating partners, best friends, or family but can absolutely be applied. to a lesser extent for ALL relationships.