A feminist author claimed that I had women issues because of my former wife. No, that is not true. My former wife is a good enough person. I have an attitude because in much earlier age many people saw me as a monster or a psycho, and I have found it very difficult to get their rubbish out of my mind.
Now Christ demands forgiveness; but the issue here is not forgiveness. The issue is how can you remove from your head vile poison that has found its way there and would not go away. One thing I do all the time is refute the source mentalities of the poison. I have done that with things that have been poisoning me, and I have also done that with things that have been poisoning many others.
Of course once you do that you are going to incite the people who have beliefs that one is working to deconstruct. And in some cases not everything that these people believe is incorrect. Most people are right about some things and wrong about others. So it does not work to demonize. It does however work to get rid of things that are untruthful and also things that have been messing with you.
Some of the people who made these kinds of claims did so in the name of feminism; so I fought any number of things in feminism. Others made them in the name of psychology; so I have been throwing into question many theories in psychology. Of course neither feminism nor psychology as such are bad. However if something is really messing with you, you better deconstruct it.
One positive effect of that is helping others who have been wrongfully dealt with by similar things. One negative effect is that of incurring the wrath of people who practice such convictions. My response is that I have the right to get poison out of my head, and if it helps others to get poison out of their heads as well then I have done something good.
So no, this is not about my former wife or about anyone else I have been with. This is about wrongful beliefs to which I have been exposed and which, once again, I have been having a very hard time getting out of my head. I have no ill will toward her or to anyone else I have been with. I want to get rid of wrongful and poisonous ideas – both for my own sake and for that of many others.
Once that is done, I can shut up about such things and focus on doing what I need to do in my own life.