Dharma 7
Hindu Ideals and Values
2019-2020
Class Information -
This class covers: Review inspiring life stories of Hindu/Jain Sages and Saints (such as Mahavir Swami, Tulsidas), Kings (e.g., Shivaji), political leaders (e.g., Mahatma Gandhi) and major historical events. Use these biographies and events to teach Hindu values such as Ahimsa, compassion, Bhakti respect, morals, and so on. This class also has a major focus on our internal enemies and how to overcome those. Students also learn about Ashtanga Yoga and the 16 basic steps of Hindu Puja ceremony. This course focuses on ‘saadhaarana dharma’/ sanaatana dharma (general ethical precepts of Dharma) from a Hindu standpoint.
Ages: 10-11 / Grade: 5-6
Download PDF copy of book: CLICK HERE
Classroom: Classroom 2
Teachers -
Teachers:
Bhakti Modi
Jayant Anand
EMAIL teachers: bhaktibm@gmail.com, jayant@jayantanand.com
Teenage Volunteers:
Neev Mangal
Adhvaith Sridhar
Class & Homework -
May
May 10
Good study habits
Being timely
Don’t procrastinate *
Get distracted by other FUN options
Leaving work up to last moment
Don’t really WANT to do it, HAVE to do it
Forget about task when distracted
Avoid if it’s cumbersome
If task requires a lot of effort and time, and is a drag
Just don’t want to do it
WHY:
Panic
Not good at it
Maybe I’ll get help
Too hard
Want to get away with it
Fear of failure - scared of result
Where do we get the fear of failure?
Afraid of being judged
Unrealistic expectations
Afraid of post-failure feelings and results
HOW TO OVERCOME:
Designate a spot and time
Face the problem
Calm down - think about why
Start over and think about specifics
PROS & CONS
Visualize it - make a plan (but don’t set it in stone)
Improvise
Prioritize work
Make time
Be organized
Pick a designated spot
Focus on your work
Sit in a good position
Remove distractions
Do homework first - just be done with it
Something you get to do, not have to do
Get something good out of it
Focus on learning it, not just finishing it
Keep trying even if it is hard
Take breaks, freshen up
Seven Steps to Overcome Procrastination:
Step 1: Do the task for just a few minutes
Step 2: Do the hard tasks first.
Step 3: Overcome the fear of failure. Believe in your ability
Step 4: Manage your environment. Get rid of distractions, find a place you can work
Step 5: Set yourself short deadlines, Prioritize your work
Step 6: Model success
Step 7: Make the task harder
How to manage Clutter:
Take time to organize and clean your desk after you study
Or, Set a thirty second timer before you study and use that time to clean your work area. This also helps you feel motivated and accomplished.
Cleaning up clutter takes less time than we think.
Choosing friends from peers
Think about how you met your first friend at school. What made you want to be their friend?
Similar hobbies.
Notice good things about people, end up liking that about the person.
You start out by talking with the person. Then eventually you spend more time together, look for things to do together, and you become friends over time.
Subconsciously matching up your values with the other person. This is done through interaction, not consciously.
Trust and respect in the friend increases.
Time increases the strength of your friendship.
A change in the strength of your friendship happens when the other person thinks they are part of your family. This change is affected by:
Spend lots of time with them, like them a lot, and get to know them well.
The way you treat them and they treat you.
How you feel when you are together.
“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou
Quality is greater than quantity.
You argue with people to grow and learn, not to disrespect.
Fighting is not a bad thing. It is bad if you act badly after you fight. Never fight for the sake of winning, be ready to change your opinions at the end of a discussion.
Go out in the world to meet other people, and work together to spread kindness and compassion. Friends can be family, someone you recently met, someone you volunteer with, or someone you play games with.
A friend is someone you trust with your values and vice versa.
You can make friends with people from different backgrounds. This will help you learn.
Unexpected friends are good too.
A good friend is someone that will correct you and watch out for you (i.e. makes sure you don’t stray away from good values).
May 3
We had class presentation on Sunday. Thank you to all the students for preparing! They did a wonderful job.
Here is a full compilation of all the essays written by the students: CLICK HERE
Homework:
Chapter 7 - Choosing your Friends from Peers
Chapter 11 - Good Study Habits
April
FINAL PAPER SUBMISSION & PRESENTATION REMINDER:
WRITE UP:
ALL TOPICS HAVE BEEN ASSIGNED TO STUDENTS: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/12uo50q2YI_f6vBOmW1GPWMSNv7cv1NNKGk1VrBhWIbw/edit?usp=sharing
Submit 170-200 words
In your own words/perspective: write what this topic means and how it impacts your life (how it helps, what lessons you have learned, how it helps you grow, best practices, etc)
Final submission is due by 8pm on Saturday, MAY 2nd. You can submit using this form: https://forms.gle/S89i29dGVLWkTzYM7
Students can also submit this same write up to the HATS Annual Day if they wish: https://sites.google.com/site/hatshsmn/annual-day-2020
PRESENTATION:
Students will read aloud their write up in class on May 3rd (be ready with the write up when class starts)
Each student will also be asked to either recite one of the two Gita Shlokas or explain the meaning of that shloka in their own words
Follow along with the youtube video: Practice singing: https://youtu.be/LkARYBHZJwM?t=2m11s - video from 2:12-2:48
Chapter 2, shloka 62:
dhyayato vishayaan pumsaha, sangastesho upajaayate
sangaat sanjaayate kaamaha, kaamaatkrodhobhijaayate
When you constantly think of objects, attachment is born,
from that attachment desire is born, from desire anger is born
Chapter 2, shloka 63:
krodhaadbhavati sammohah, sammohaat smriti vibhramaha
smriti bhramshaad buddhinaasho, buddhi naashaat pranashyati
From anger comes delusion, from delusion there is loss of memory,
from loss of memory comes destruction of intellect, from destruction of intellect, one is ruined.
This will count as our "end of year class presentation"
Parents encouraged to join!!
April 26
Respect for others
WHY
Helpful
Older and wiser
They stand their ground
Show kindness
HOW
Showing admiration
Not putting others down
Elevate someone else
Not talking back
Gratitude - being thankful
Acknowledge
Hard to respect
Want to be the best
Need to earn respect
Good impression
Ego gets in the way
Respect your elders vs respecting when deserving
Consider when you want to give respect
Show respect for your parents or someone else you respect
Have your opinions - but be civil
Behave like someone you do respect
Limit confrontation - uplift your own values and thoughts
Respect is underlying in current society
Methods of showing respect can be different, but the value is there
Navigating different social settings
Indian culture context vs American culture context
Important to understand how someone else wants to be respected
Learn from others’ experiences - can learn SOMETHING from everyone
SELF respect
Confidence
Self motivating
Self esteem
Dignity
Uplifting self
WHY
Kindness
Happiness
Increases wisdom
Intellect
Challenges
Internal enemies take over
Disappoint others and self
Guilt
Cycle of defense
Questioning self
Overcoming
Calm self down
Consider solutions
Apologize - at the right time, in the right way
Forgive yourself
Limit before it turns to ego
Equality and equity
Humility
Accepting your mistakes
Not letting ego take over
Play down your greatness
Focus on kindness and empathy
Acting upon good values
The second you think you have it, it’s gone
All the great gurus have it
Often the people we respect have humility
Middle ground between ego and humility
Result of our good actions and values
Respect and humility can coexist
April 19
Chapter 2, shloka 62:
dhyayato vishayaan pumsaha, sangastesho upajaayate
sangaat sanjaayate kaamaha, kaamaatkrodhobhijaayate
When you constantly think of objects, attachment is born,
from that attachment desire is born, from desire anger is born
Chapter 2, shloka 63:
krodhaadbhavati sammohah, sammohaat smriti vibhramaha
smriti bhramshaad buddhinaasho, buddhi naashaat pranashyati
From anger comes delusion, from delusion there is loss of memory,
from loss of memory comes destruction of intellect, from destruction of intellect, one is ruined.
Summary:
All internal enemies lead to each other. You end up being destroyed.
When you get angry, your judgement is clouded, leading you to other internal enemies.
Lost control of yourself.
Gossip
Talking about someone behind their back
Hear something and repeat it (in a bad way)
Gossip - emotional, story, can be hurtful, scandalous, untrue, on purpose, changing someone’s image
Rumors - pieces of information that has not been verified, usually not harmful
Backbiting - intention of hurting someone else, do something wrong behind someone's back, doing without someone being ok with it
Impact
Gossip
Relationships can get impacted
May not get accepted in places or groups
Can hurt reputation
Can hurt your work and credentials
Rumors
False image
Same impact as gossip
Backbiting
Less likely to trust others
Lowers your number of relationships
Can impact job/education
Can impact others
Reaction
Can ignore and move on - if situation is small enough
Is it worth it to react?
Share the truth with trusted person
Avoid complaining
Talk it out with the person causing the problem
50% risk of it going either way - good or bad
You don’t know what they’re going to do
Personal connection - WHY? Learn their perspective. Add your experience. Avoid being defensive.
Be responsible and get ahead of the situation - proactive
“It's out there”
Let your actions speak for themselves - do the best possible job that you can do
Let your results determine your reputation
Wait it out
Do good actions based on good values
Avoid the bad traps yourself
Homework:
Chapter 32: Humility & Respect for Everyone
Memorize word-by-word meaning and practice singing Gita shloka - students will be picked at random to sing out loud
Practice using this link: https://youtu.be/LkARYBHZJwM?t=2m11s - video from 2:12-2:48
End-of-year presentation information:
WRITE UP:
LINK TO SIGN UP: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/12uo50q2YI_f6vBOmW1GPWMSNv7cv1NNKGk1VrBhWIbw/edit?usp=sharing
Pick one of the topics covered in class
Assign your name to list, first come first serve
All required topics must be assigned
Submit 170-200 words
In your own words/perspective: write what this topic means and how it impacts your life
Teenage volunteers, Adhvaith & Neev will be available to help proofread or provide constructive feedback if you would like.
If you would like their help, you can email them your write up no later than April 26: adhvaith.sridhar@gmail.com, pokeneev@gmail.com
Final submission is due on MAY 2nd. You can submit using this form: https://forms.gle/S89i29dGVLWkTzYM7
Students can also submit this same write up to the HATS Annual Day if they wish: https://sites.google.com/site/hatshsmn/annual-day-2020
PRESENTATION:
Students will read aloud their write up in class on May 3rd
This will count as our "end of year class presentation"
Parents encouraged to join
April 12
Cleanliness of body- chapter 46
Being neat and clean
Good hygiene
Shower every day
Fresh clothes
Throwing garbage away regularly
Cleaning messiness
“Cleanliness is next to Godliness”
Have assigned spaces
Eat meals together
It will help mentally
Makes you feel fresh
Less clutter = think better
WHY
Better habits
Organization
More motivation
Better mindset
Remove DISTRACTIONS
Helps FOCUS
Keep clean
Desk - that’s where you work, spend most of your time, need focus
Self - smell and feel fresh, around other people, motivation to work
Room - find things faster, less distractions, avoid lethargy
FOOD - eat healthy, limit junk, increase energy, avoid greasy
HOW
Deep cleaning - set aside time and do something you don’t normally do
One thing at a time
Avoid feeling overwhelmed
Short breaks in between
Do something relaxing (book break, exercise break)
Listen to music
MAKE A LIST - keep it simple and limited, organized, add a couple easy things
Short breaks -
Refresh and reset
Deep breathing and meditation - refresh our minds
Power nap if possible
Healthy snacks - nuts, fruits, veggies
Check in with others - make sure to take healthy breaks
Exercise - walk around, stretch, jumping jacks, drink a glass of water
Something fun - short games/puzzles, music, instruments, screen time, arts/crafts/creating
Purity of mind
Cleanliness for mind
Clear and good thoughts
Pure = not mixed, free from contamination
Limit desires and distractions
Focused thoughts
Rid of the internal enemies
Extra energy - make the right choices
What are you using your thoughts for
Prayers, helping, growing, learning
Gita shloka 2.62
dhyayato vishayaan pumsaha, sangastesho upajaayate
sangaat sanjaayate kaamaha, kaamaat krodho-bhijaayate
dhyayato: contemplating - thinking - dwelling
vishayaan: (sense) objects
pumsah: self
sangah: attachment
teshu: to those (sense-objects)
upajaayate: arises - develops - is born
Sangaat: (from) attachment
Sanjaayate: arises - develops - is born
kaamaha: desire
kaamaat: from desire
krodha: anger
abhijaayate: arises - develops - is born
Gita shloka 2.63
krodhaat bhavati sammohah, sammohaat smriti-vibramaha
smriti-bramshaad buddhi-naasho, buddhi-naashaat pranashyati
Krodhaat: from anger
Bhavati: comes, happens
Sammohah: delusion
Sammohaat: from delusion
Smriti: memory (positive)
Vibramaha: loss of
Smriti: memory
Bramshaad: from loss of
Buddhi: intellect
Naasho: destruction of
Buddhi: intellect
Naashaat: from loss/destruction of
Pranashyati: one is ruined
Homework:
Memorize word-by-word meaning and practice singing shloka - students will be picked at random to sing out loud
Practice using this link: https://youtu.be/LkARYBHZJwM?t=2m11s - video from 2:12-2:48
Read chapters 23 (Fault finding) and 24 (gossiping)
April 5
Shraddha (FAITH) & Bhakti (DEVOTION)
Shraddha -
Having trust
What you believe in
What you think is right
Dedication
Can have shraddha in:
*RELIGION*
Faith can be anything/broad
Acting on guidelines
Religion is something specific, one God one thing
Ways to ignite belief/faith
Other people - guidance to help make decisions
Yourself - confidence, results from hard work, believe in yourself, fearlessness
Bhagwan - guidance, have something to believe in, *Supreme Power*
Your morals - doing the right thing, help do actions, help throughout life
NOT blind-faith - be conscious and thoughtful
Believing without knowing
Not committed
Overpowering your actions
Bhakti -
Keep efforts going
Don’t falter
Consistency
*COMMITTED*
Connected to shraddha - need to have faith
Devoted to:
Family
Morals - guidelines - right things
Education
Sports - extra curriculars
God
Goals
Shraddha & Bhakti - feed into each other. Connected together
YOGA presentation - view outline HERE
Homework:
Read chapter 46 (cleanliness of body) and 47 (purity of mind)
Start thinking about Annual Day submissions
Do minimum 3 out of 7 yoga practices every day
Memorize Gita shloka with meaning
Chapter 2, shloka 62 & 63
MEMORIZE Shloka - follow along with the youtube video: Practice singing: https://youtu.be/LkARYBHZJwM?t=2m11s - video from 2:12-2:48
March
March 22
What is the order is shaastras?
Some examples:
Ramayana
Vedas
Bhagavad Gita
Upanishad
Mahabharata
(Patangali) Yoga Sutra
Puranas
“IN ORDER”
Vedas - FOUR
Rigveda - Knowledge of science, (universe, nature, body, energy, earth, space, etc), practical explanations on how things work
Samaveda - Practices, shruti/singing - how to pray, focus on philosophical questions and thoughts, nature of God
Yajurveda - Practical knowledge on how to live life, explanations of duties we have (as leaders, students, family members, parts of society, etc), more info on yagnas (havans)
Atharvaveda - Veda of knowledge (God- supreme power), ayurveda/medicine
The knowledge of the Vedas teaches you to be your best self. They are very scientific. They are guidelines for all of our Dharmic teachings. They have everything. Have a lot of content and are huge books. Generally only rigorously read and studied by people whose focus is on studying the Vedas as more than a hobby.
Upanishads - ELEVEN
Are “categorized” summaries. Has lots of practical examples. More accessible then the Vedas in terms of having the time to read them. Made for people who are unable to give all their time to studying the Vedas. Contains the same essentials as the Veda’s.
Patanjali Yog Sutra
Practical application in day to day life. Helps you apply concepts on a day to day basis.
Bhagavad Gita
Conversation between Arjuna-Krishna
Krishna encouraged Arjun to fight the war
Moral lessons - secrets of life
We still learn from it because the basis can still be applied to your daily life and the concepts can still help us. One example of a similarity is that in the Bhagavad Gita there is a phrase about Arjun having fear which is something that we all feel sometimes. It shows Arjun as a person just like the rest of us.
Bhagavat Purana
Stories!!!!! These are the fun examples that we use to learn positive morals/lessons.
Written as stories so it’s easy to understand for people of all ages, from kids to adults.
Ramayana & Mahabharata
HISTORY - EPICS
Learn about how the world used to be, learn what changed, learn from their mistakes and remember the good they did in the past.
Chapter 2 - shloka 62 & 63
dhyayato vishayaan pumsaha, sangastesho upajaayate
sangaat sanjaayate kaamaha, kaamaat krodho-bhijaayate
dhyayato: contemplating - thinking - dwelling
vishayaan: (sense) objects
pumsah: self
sangah: attachment
teshu: to those (sense-objects)
upajaayate: arises - develops - is born
Sangaat: (from) attachment
Sanjaayate: arises - develops - is born
kaamaha: desire
kaamaat: from desire
krodha: anger
abhijaayate: arises - develops - is born
Homework:
Learn Shloka 63.
MEMORIZE Shloka - follow along with the youtube video: Practice singing: https://youtu.be/LkARYBHZJwM?t=2m11s - video from 2:12-2:48
Read Chapter 55 & 56.
Continue working on your habits.
March 15
Why is the number 108 significant?
108 diameter moon to sun-earth-moon
108 - wholeness of existence - vedas - ultimate knowledge
108 upanishads - 108 chapters of rig veda
108 japa mala beads - 108 sun salutations
Sanskrit alphabet has 54 letters (x2=108)
9 planets - 12 constellation - so when they revolve around the constellations, gives 108 combinations
108 is the basis of all creation
Sun salutations 108 times for maximum effect
108 pressure points
Why is the number 11 significant?
According to shaastras - there is a correlation from moon movements to our bodily functions
10 sense organs - 1 mind
11 is associated with many faiths - can show connection between faith and science
What are Shodashopchara (16-step) pooja steps? CLICK HERE to Download document
A pooja that is a ceremony with sixteen different parts.
Sixteen steps to worshipping Bhagvan.
It can be used to worship any god.
Some steps include:Offer to wash feet, give them a seat, offer holy water, fill the mind with pure thoughts, offer flowers, meditate, clean clothes.
Steps in order: Invite, offer seat, give a welcome, symbolically wash feet of deity with sacred water, water offered for washing hands and face, water is offered for drinking, a sweet or energizing drink is offered in order to give energy, symbolic cleaning of the deity/image, symbolic offering of clothing and ornaments, Kumkum, Chandan, and other fragrant pastes and powders are applied, flower and garlands are offered, incense is burned, diya is lighted and the arti is performed, Satvic foods and fruits are offered and are later distributed to the worshippers as Prasad, worshippers as forgiveness for any mistakes made, and bhagvan symbolically returns to heavenly abode.
Symbolizes the actual action’s main idea. Ex. bathing -> cleanliness
Examples - 24 hour Akhand Ramayan which is only one part (13) - you can do this at home with a little moorthy in your home! Do this when you want something, when school starts, you can just do your prayers from HATS Assembly, clean the feet a little bit, use clean pure water and clean the murthy and offer water, offer something sweet, offer some flowers, put a new outfit or jewelry to the pooja, offer prashad, Thank bhagvan for the blessings.
Very simple, make sure you do it with devotion, you can do it at home!
Difference between mantra and shloka?
Both have religious meaning and significance. Both there to help you and others.
Mantra - Usually Vedic, starts with Aum, Vibrations of Mantras helps you when you say it right. Originally in Sanskrit, based on sounds.More scientific, and more about invoking the power inside yourself rather than being centered around bhagvan.
Shloka - verses, spiritual meanings, can be in other languages, more “casual,” more dialects, more languages, India has many diverse languages and Shlokas can be created from any of them. Focused on how it makes you feel emotionally. Often something that is praising a form of Bhagvan and Bhagvan’s qualities. More about connecting to Bhagvan and praising Bhagvan. Bhajans are a more extended form of a Shloka.
What is the order is shaastras? Also bring some examples.
We will go over this next week.
Please work on continuing your habits!
Homework:
For next week write word by word meaning of Gita shloka- chapter 2, shloka 62. HINT: First word is “Dhyayato”.
Also, please read chapter 53 (Spiritual Knowledge)
Continue working on your habits.
March 8
Performance of Worship
4 major ways (details below)
Japa
Pooja
Yoga
Yagna
Know the meaning of what you do and it’s relevance.
Practice with focus. Don’t be distracted.
Do it with devotion and respect
Four types of Worship in detail
Japa: Japa is reciting prayers, usually 108 times, charecterized by the Japa Mala (a string of 108 rudhraksha seeds that you use to count the number of times you repeat a god’s name or mantra).
Helps you focus.
Helps you understand what you are doing.
Repetition.
Helps keep the positive thought of Bhagvan in your head.
You can chant the name of god, mantras, or chapters of shaastras.
Doing Japa regularly helps instill bhagvan into your brain.
Pooja: Pooja is when you sit in front of a Murthy of bhagvan and say prayers to connect with god, light an aarthi, cleanse your mind, physical and visual way of worship. Towards a picture or moorthy that represents bhagvan.
They offer flowers, foods, lamps(diyas), incense, jewelry, people dressed up, books, different types of food, a maala (garland), people doing actual chanting.
Poojas look different when done to different bhagvans. They have special poojas, special rituals, and special mantras/method in order to honor each bhagvan specially and to symbolize specific things on specific days.
There are poojas for many, many things! Like car poojas, home poojas, test poojas, etc.
Yoga: Yoga is done in order to activate your energy, involves breathing, bring our inner soul, connect with bhagvan, connecting.
Word “yoga” means unity and connecting,
Important to lear that it is not exercise.
Calms heart and mind.
Eight parts of yoga.
Yagna: Yagna is when people sit around a fire and give offerings to bhagvan, Fire, sacrifice through holy fire.
Performed around a fire
Symbolizes that you are not attached to every material thing in the world.
Fire purifies, it is the most powerful.
We offer things like branches, trees, herbs, ghee and other items to purify the air around us.
Offering to bhagvan.
Sacrificing ego to bhagvan.
Fire destroys evil but protects the good.
Doing any of the above methods of worship helps you take a step toward enlightenment. The purpose is to understand the meaning and know the end result. Next time you go to a pooja, spend some time learning why you are doing the pooja and what its meaning is.
Study of Shaaatras
Shaastras are guidelines on how to become better through general topics
They are not specific, picky rules that you have to follow! They are guidelines, a way of life!
They are not the same thing as scriptures because scriptures are specific rules or steps that tell you exactly what to do.
Indirect methods: perspective
Stories and examples
Goals to attain
Need to have understanding and know what is happening.
Focus on understanding
Filled with mantras and shlokas.
Learning through motivation.
4 steps:
Adhyayana: learn from guru.
Manana: reciting and learning.
Pravachana: teach it.
Vyavahaara: practice it.
It is a cycle because you help other people start their steps when you reach Pravachana.
Most of them are written in Sanskrit.
Understand and learn word by word meaning of the mantras and sholkas that you sing.
Examples of shaastras include the Bhagavad Gita, Puranas, Vedas, Ramayanam, Mahabharata, and Upanishads.
Homework:
Why is the number 108 significant?
Why is the number 11 significant?
What are Shodashopchar pooja steps?
Difference between mantra and sholka?
What is the order is shaastras? Also bring some examples.
Please work on continuing your habits.
March 1
Really learn the meanings and words in the shloks
Unity
Forgetting differences/Putting them aside to coexist. Forgetting differences doesn’t work, but you have to be ok with the fact that differences exist to behold community
No fighting
Togetherness
Community
Sehe na avatu
How to achieve Unity
Build community
Communicate
When unity takes time to be built, how does somebody not get annoyed and continue working hard to build unity? How do you deal with the nuances of being a part of the community? How do you focus on unity when you have people who don’t want to be part of it, don’t want to communicate, and aren’t focused on positivity for growth?
Clearly, what you are trying to do isn’t working, so the best way to combat this is to come up with new solutions.
Make an impact on them, try to convince them of what you want them to do
Have empathy and try to understand their perspective
Lead by example
How does somebody lead by example?
USE IDEALS AND VALUES, what we’ve been learning this whole time
Remember Karma. If you put in the work yourself and do what you should do while embodying ideals and values, you will be OK.
Unity is NOT immediate. As you grow older and older, more and more people will exist who have a largely different life experiences. Some people will have nothing in common. The important thing is to remember the ultimate goal of community. Even if setting a common goal is accomplished, the way to accomplish the goal itself is still the other half of the battle.
Homework:
Keep on practicing meaning of Sahana Vavutu and purna madah. Habits and saving money too.
Read chapters 51 (Performance of Worship) and 52 (Study of Scriptures)
Brainstorm ideas for end-of-year presentation
We will be starting Gita shloka soon
February
February 23
What is Supreme Power?
The power of Bhagavan inside all of us.
How is mediation beneficial? What is its purpose?
To connect with yourself and your supreme power. People trying to find their supreme power, being a better person, just taking some times out to really think.
What do our shlokas really say?
Purna madah:
They say that we all have the same supreme power of Bhagavan inside us. Even if there's 10 people or 7 billion people on this Earth, the supreme power of the world and Bhagavan stats the same. Your power, your energy comes from Bhagavan, but that doesn't mean that because you have more energy Bhagavan has less. Bhagavans energy is infinite.
Non-Hoarding
Having only what you need
Wants vs needs
All wants aren't bad, some wants are simply unnecessary
Wants, needs, and |greeds| <--- Unnecessary
Greed is when you want something but only for a temporary moment of happiness
Nowadays, wants are blurred. Technically, all someone needs is a hut, food, water, and clothing. But nowadays it's ok to want something to make your life better. It's important, however, to draw the line and make the distinction between wants and greeds.
For example, getting a school iPad is a want, however you're using it for something productive and or something good. This is a want. However if you have an iPad and you want another one for some non-essential reason, it's a greed, not a want.
Its not always want vs need. It's wants vs needs vs greeds
it's not a bad thing to want to improve your life, to a limit
What is contentment?
Being satisfied
Wants/Needs
Not being stressed because you have what you want and need.
Why is contentment so hard to achieve?
Every time we get what we want or need, something or the other always bothers us and makes us feel discontented as even if we accomplish one thing, there's 10 other things in our mind that take it's place and continue to provide stress.
Homework
Keep on practicing meaning of Sahana Vavutu and purna madah. Habits and saving money too.
Read chapters 35 (Unity & Mutual Cooperation) and 42 (Hard work & Vigor)
Brainstorm ideas for end-of-year presentation
We will be starting Gita shloka soon
February 16
Peacefulness
Avoidance of conflict
Resolving conflict
Examples of dealing with conflict:
Use communication strategies.
Wait for some time before you go back to talking with the person.
Ask parents for help.
Move away from the site of the conflict so you have space to think.
Ignore the aggravator if they won’t stop when you tell them too.
Understand that the other person might be right.
Conflict can be Internal or External.
Internal conflict is when you have a disagreement with yourself.
External conflict is when you have a disagreement with something outside of your control.
Example of External Conflict include conflict with, others, nature, or society.
Saam
Solving problems through counsel or talking to a Counselor.
Occurs in a school setting.
Talking to a counselor when students are fighting.
Daan
Giving someone something. Meeting others’ needs to end conflict.
Identify and meet others' needs, since conflict is often about someone trying to get a need fulfilled.
A sibling is bothering you when you do your homework because they are bored, so you give them a computer game to play while you work, so the sibling is not bored and you get your peace and quiet.
Dand
Giving someone a consequence or punishment, or giving a warning.
Punishment should be proportional to the conflict.
Someone gets grounded for fighting at school.
Bhed
Create separation and break off from the conflict.
Solve your internal conflicts before your external conflicts!
Follow the right ideals so you reduce the frequency of conflicts you have.
Meaning of Om Purnamadham Purnamidham:
Literal Translation:
Om, that (outer world) is Purna (complete); This (inner consciousness) is also Purna; From Purna is manifested Purna.
Taking Purna from Purna, Purna indeed remains (because divine consciousness is infinite).
Om, Peace, Peace, Peace.
Homework:
Chapters 43 (Non-Hoarding & Simple Living) & 44 (Contentment)
Continue habits tracking
Continue learning/memorizing word-by-word meaning of Purnamadah & Sahana Vavatu.
February 2
The reason we say the prayer 3 times is
One for yourself
One for other people
One for nature
Straightforwardness and simplicity
Straightforwardness:
- being direct
- Not always a good thing:
- Being too direct
- Rude
- Unnecessary Comments
- To fix this be straightforward in a way that is
- respectful
- empathetic
- sympathetic
- kind
- positivity
The chapter is called straightforwardness and simplicity. What is the relation between these two terms?
- Being straightforward is a part of simplicity.
It's important to have perspective.
- Treat others how they want to be treated, try to understand other points of view.
Looking back at what we have done, one of the internal enemies is Delusion. How does one get out of delusion?
- Be simple and straightforward, don't overthink things.
What's another important value needed to stay straightforward?
- Honesty and Truthfulness
What is Honesty and Truthfulness
Honesty is the value, Truthfulness is the practice.
What's bad about lying?
Lying isn't good as it gets you in hot water later. The more someone lies, the more the "web of lies" is likely to come crashing down.
Why do people lie?
- Survival Instincts?
- Defensiveness?
- Self-Preservation
- Not breaking trust
- Pride/Ego
Why tell the truth?
- Don't feel guilty
- Be a good person
- Dharma
- Following Ideals and Values
What about things like white lies? In what situations is lying "Ok"
- Self Preservation/Safety
Understand that overthinking things makes stuff worse. Lying about small things is pointless and unhelpful. If you overthink things and make them seem bigger then they seem, you will be more likely to lie. Ex. You didn't do your homework or didn't eat vegetables. It may seem like lying about it makes things better, but being honest and getting yelled at or something similar is better then guilt. The next day it'll all be back to normal again.
Homework:
Ch 28 (Shanti) & 29 (Compassion)
Know the Meaning of "poornamadah poornamidam" (ending prayer)
Keep up with the daily spare change collection and the habits
January
January 26
Ch 41: Perseverance, commitment and fortitude
Commitment: What is it? - Keep going, not giving up, having your mind set in doing something, intending to do it, and not giving up. Following through, not losing hope, continuing to finish.
Is commitment easier or harder to yourself when compared to others?
Depends on the situation
Committing to yourself is harder then committing to someone else because there is no one to hold you accountable and you don't feel as guilty since no one else is depending on you.
Committing to others is harder then committing to yourself since with yourself you can just do what you want and you know what your we going to do, meanwhile committing to others means you have to make sure that week or you are all on the same track.
Commitment is the act of making a promise, you commit to doing it. Perseverance is the value that you learn about actually following through with said promise.
Examples of Commitments:
- doing good in Classes in School
- Kumon
- Team sports or academics
- HATS
- Personal Goals or commitments
- new year's resolution
Perseverance: What is it? What's the biggest enemy of perseverance?
- Distraction?
- Laziness?
- Ego is the end of Perseverance
We all know what the right thing is, but why do we still miss commitments?
Keep going; never give up
Intent to do; follow through
Accountability: to self and others
Commitment: making a promise
Perseverance: keeping their promise
Examples:
Commitment- feed kids, team sports and play, after school activity/HATS
Perseverance- more important because the world is a place of 1,000 opportunities but 100,000 distractions.
Technology has improved over generations. This allows us to find information arbitrarily, but it also makes it easier to get distracted. Make sure you improve your focus and commitment so that you don’t get distracted when you are trying to complete a task.
Understanding what goes wrong to make a positive change is also a way to show perseverance.
Working towards gender equality so that all people have equal rights regardless of their gender is an example of this because one needs to find out the problem, decide what they can do to fix it, and then fix it.
We have to make sure there are positive results for everyone.
We are all equal < link
HOMEWORK:
Continue to memorize/learn meaning of Sahana Vavatu
Continue practicing daily habits! Reminder- keep up 21 days in a row.
Continue to save some money daily/weekly for our end of year donation.
Read Chapter 36: Truthfulness & Honesty and Chapter 37: Straightforwardness & Simplicity
January 19
This has been on the website under homework for almost 2 months. Please memorize the meaning of Sahana Vavatu, phrase by phrase, by next week.
Charity:
Students described it as:
Help People
doing things for the community, family, or just people who are in need
share what you have with others
Giving things that you don't need, or that you have and "need" but other people need more then you do
These are acts of charity though, what is the basis of charity?
Empathy: Feel for other people and wanting to help them
Seva:
Doing work for others
help seniors or help those in need/with needs
without payment
without expectations
providing "service"
But what is service? You get your car serviced, your house serviced, etc. What is service in a general sense?
Doing something beneficial is service in a general sense
What is the basis for Seva? - Generosity
Seva and Charity seem to be one and the same? But what is the difference?
Charity is more about the action of giving or Sharing physical objects or help while Seva is where you yourself are going out and doing the work.
Charity is Quantifiable, while Seva is Qualifiable.
For example:
Bhakti Didi coming to HATS and sharing her knowledge is Seva, not charity, as (a) she is going out herself and doing the work and (b) how much knowledge she has given can't be quantified; you can't count it, but it can be qualified in terms of how helpful her teaching and the overall quality of her teaching.
Another example is when Bhakti Didi (in college) collected money through programs to donate to a charity that helps fight disease.
Bhakti Didi going out and working to collect money is Seva, while the donation itself is Charity.
It's not a competition of Charity vs Seva. Both are equally helpful to society, and doing either for your community is gold. The magnitude of the Seva or Charity you are doing doesn't matter. Help of any kind in any form is appreciated by someone somewhere.
How do you build these concepts in your daily life?
Doing Chores
Volunteering
Helping people in general builds the practice of Seva and Charity
Donating "extra" things, clothes, toys etc. Stuff that you really do not need anymore.
There's always a way to help someone. 1000s of organizations exist. All you have to do is look.
There are so many ways of helping people. Don't do it just for the sake of "Oh look at me I'm so helpful". If you want to be helpful then do it sincerely as this will allow you to help someone to the best of your extent as you will be thinking about it as something you want to do rather then as a chore.
The minute you think about what you are going to be getting back in return, it becomes a business transaction rather then Goodwill/Charity/Seva.
HOMEWORK:
Fill out and work on the habit sheet - choose a Habit and keep maintaining it. If you miss a day, you have to restart!
Read chapter 41, Commitment and Perseverance
Memorize word-by-word meaning of Sahana Vavatu
Save a little bit of money every day/week for our year-end collection to an education charity
January 12
Thank you to all the parents who were able to stop by for the parent-teacher conference. If you were unable to come, and would like to speak with the teachers, please do email or contact us!
We did a quick overview of everything we have covered in the year so far:
Internal enemies and what they are
Some values we have covered: ahimsa, respect, humility, empathy, honesty, etc
Meaning of "AUM"
Why we say shanti x3
During class we also had two HATS Alumni joining us: Akash & Neal. They also provided some insight on these values and internal enemies and how it impacts them in college life:
Neal: “Pride is the most dangerous internal enemy in college, and it can make it difficult to practice honesty (to yourself and others) and humility. Also, make sure you empathize with others because it is easy for one to stop being empathetic when nobody else around them is empathetic. Also, keep in mind the three main points you learn from the Mahabharata and make sure you keep an open mind to good values.”
Akash: “Desire is the most dangerous enemy in college because many students have many desires. This makes it difficult to practice honesty.”
Homework:
Chapters 33 (Charity) and 34 (Seva)
Starting work on your yearly project! (Pick up good habits for 21 days to learn a good habit).
Make sure your habit is specific and not generic-i.e. NOT “be good in general” (even though you should be good), but something more specific like “putting your shoes away in the closet every time you come home after you go outside.”
Pick up a minimum of two good habits
Will review and start in class next weekend
January 5
We had meditation in class today. We encourage all students to practice meditation for a few minutes every day using the practices we have covered in class.
December
December 8
Humility and respect
Humility: The opposite of pride
Respect: Elevating the status of someone else
How do you treat someone with respect?
If you see someone in need, you can show respect by realizing that they have the same needs as you and helping them out. Don’t give up your own safety, respect yourself too. Not everyone in need has good intentions for trying to get your help. In an ideal world, it would be safe to help people that need it and showing them respect. But in real life, we have to be safe while also being respectful. If you aren’t in a position to help someone, don’t disrespect them.
No one knows everything about everything. You can learn something from everybody. It doesn’t have to be the kind of knowledge we always think about, you can learn something about yourself too. Everybody has their own experiences, and so their own opinions, morals, values, and thoughts. Because of this uniqueness, you can learn from everyone.
Ex. Twins. Sometimes genetically identical, born at the same time, grow up together in the same household at the same period of time. Yet even they have different experiences from each other.
Respect and humility go hand in hand. Keeping humility while being respectful and gaining respect yourself is what the greatest people have done. Ex. MLK, Gandhi,
Put yourself in the shoes of other people to gain perspective.
When someone else does something, think carefully about why they may be doing it. There are lots of different possible reasons. Assuming their motives is just going to be bad for both of you as it does allow for any understanding or respect to exist at all.
November
November 17
Ignorance
-Choosing to ignore something
-Not paying attention to something
Ignorance vs Ignorant
-Calling someone ignorant is implying that that they are ignorant
-selective hearing; you hear what you want to and ignore what you don't want to hear
-internally blind
Why is ignorance described as bliss despite it seeming so bad?
-When you hear what you want to hear you may only hear the good things
-It distracts you from what you don't want to hear
-It may provide temporary bliss but in the long run there are consequences
Knowledge combats ignorance
What is knowledge?
-Perspective
-understanding
-knowing
Any one of the 6 Internal enemies can start the vicious cycle
-Talking about perspective
-Everybody has their own perspective
-Shaped by their own life experiences
Saha na avatu:
Why are we discussing the meaning word by word and not as a whole?
-Finding the meaning as a whole can change depending on perspective
-helps us learn words for other mantras too
saha nau avatu Saha nah bhunaktu
Saha - together
Nau - both
avatu - protect
bhunaktu - nourished
True meaning: Let us be protected and nourished
Everyone in class described what it meant In a different way. By going word by word, everyone can gain a meaning for themselves through their own perspective
Saha viryam Kara va vahay
Saha - Together
Viryam - having power/energy
Kara - do
Va vahay - actions
True meaning: Together let us has power (whether that be mental, physical, or otherwise) and let us do actions (not be lazy)
Tejasvi na va
Tejasvi - light, knowledge, brilliance
True meaning: Let us have life in our life taking away our life, have brilliance in our lives.
Homework:
Prepare the rest of the shloka; saha na avatu
Watch the Steelers-Browns fight NFL video if you want - reflect what we talked about in class. How falling into anger can make you react in a bad way
Chapter 27 - Non-Violence/Ahimsa
November 10
Any one of the 6 Internal Enemies can lead to the others. This is why it is important to be mindful of the vicious cycle.
Vicious cycle steps: (Try to see if you can match these with their English equivalents)
Kaam(a)
Krodh(a)
Lobh(a)
Moh(a)
Mad(a)
Mātsary(a)
According Newton’s third law, every action has an equal and opposite reaction. This concept can be applied in Karma too. Most actions do not have immediate consequences. We live in a world where everything is immediate (instant gratification), and it’s hard to see the concept of karma, which is really about both immediate (short term) and long term consequences.
Action -> Consequences
Why do we pray?
• Prayer is not asking for things
• To have God guide us through life
• Prayer is a way to enhance the work we have already done. If you have a big test and don’t study at all but just pray the day of the test, there is going to be no gain in terms of the test. If you study hard and are super nervous, prayer can help you calm down.
What is “god” in Hinduism?
• In the Hindu Society of Minnesota temple, there are 27 mini temples. In many people’s homes, they have mini temples with multiple forms of gods. But then at the end of the day what is god?
• All the forms of god that exist in Hinduism are different forms of the same energy, OM.
God has no definition since God is more than one thing. Religion is a practice
AUM notes
A - in your stomach (starts)
U - in your throat (sustains)
M - in your lips (ends)
Vibrations throughout body
This is to show that life starts (Brahma), is sustained (Vishnu), and ends (Shiva)
The only thing that you can control is yourself
Homework:
• Chapter 21 - Ignorance
• Finish homework about the meaning of Saha Na Avatu if haven’t already
November 3
In class we discussed delusion and pride
Delusion:
Delusion is relative. Its different for different people.
Being cynical, seeing things the wrong way, "reality" depends on perspective. Anger can lead to delusion. Stuck in a bad cycle.
How to get out of it
Calm yourself and get out of the situation
Change your perspective
Anger and delusion go so hand in hand that the ways to get out of them and their effects are very similar. We often forget that they are essentially the same.
Is delusion always bad?
No, it may have a negative connotation but delusion can be good as the thing that you are focused on does not have to be a bad thing.
Examples: Gandhi, MLK, etc. All these people made a true impact by being focused on what was important to them till they made a positive change. People called them delusional and crazy when they were doing what doing but they were able to control their delusions onto good things and make a change. Regardless of what happened, whether they went to jail, got violence threats, or anything else, their focus on one goal carried them on through
Pride:
Excessive pride can lead to
"I'm better", more then others, boasting self, putting down others, oversharing, delusion thinking. Superficial happiness
Ego
Excessive Pride is the first quality that we see on someone else that makes us not like them
Students have already learned about these ideals and values through stories
How to get out of having a big ego?
Do good things for others (without your ego going up) and be humble
Pride can be good
Being confident about yourself (not overconfidence)
Being resilient to what other people say.
If someone says something mean about you about having a little bit of pride or self confidence can help you ignore them
Pride can be a tool that can help you get out of bad situations, but too much of it can be bad too
Internal Enemies covered so far
Desire - kaam(a)
Anger - krodh(a)
Greed - lobh(a)
Delusion - moh(a)
Pride - mad(a)
As people grow older, they naturally grow more stubborn. Does this mean that older people are more stubborn? No, everyone handles it or deals with it in their own way.
Homework
Set aside a small amount of money regularly (every week, month, quarter, etc). Anything from a quarter to a dollar. At the end of the year, we will collectively decide on a charity to donate it to. The important life skills here are setting aside money every week and donating and helping those in need.
The amount doesn't matter. It's about the action of setting aside money and thinking of others, both of which are good life skills to have.
Build resilience against the fear of ladybugs
READ: Chapter 18: Jealousy (final internal enemy)
Find the word-by-word meaning of the class opening-prayer, saha na avatu
October
October 27
We started class with learning the meaning of "Namaste" and why we celebrate Diwali.
The students then had meditation class for the whole session.
October 13
In class, we went over last week's task of ways to calm down:
Rant online
Discussed ways to dissapate anger:
Distract self
Screming into a pillow or in general
Coloring books
Break pencils
Punching a pillow
Writing in paper
Think of positive things instead
Read Harry potter
Sleep
Deep breaths
Reading
Play a sport
Running
Talk to friends
Read joke books
Hug your pet
When you are angry, only YOU can make a change
what you do and think can impact your health. ex. People with high Blood pressure can be told to be in calm and stress free environments.
Turn the anger into something good
Redirect it
Greed:
-first things that we notice are generally becusee we want something
-need vs want
Never ends
Can harm
Desire leads to greed
Examples of well-known greedy people:
In Ramayan: Raavan
In Mahabharata: Duryodham, shakuni
Hitler
R e Lee
J w Smith
Voldemort
Darth Vader
Thing that links them together: wanting power. Had bad things happen to them. Complain instead of doing things. Surrounded by desires.
Raavan had a rich and happy kingdom, was well educated. But he was bad because he was greedy. He thought it was ok to destroy other people and their things as long as his own is ok.
Anger is the one internal enemy which has the highest chance of affecting other people more then yourself.ex: make them angry/ start violence
Anger affects other people
Desire starts it
Greed drives it; furthers it
Homework:
Read chapter 16/17
Do 3 nice things for others without telling anyone
See you all in 2 weeks!
October 6
Desire: kaama
-Want
-Most dangerous
Hard to control
-8 forms --> senses
-Cannot be fulfilled
-Not all desires are bad
-A must for achieving things
Vicious cycle: Desire is the first part of the vicious cycle. That's why it's the most dangerous. Most of the desires are based on the senses. Like if you see an ad and want something.
Marketing: Not limited to advertisements. Almost anything can be marketing. Talking to another person is marketing yourself. If everyone at school gets ___, it's being marketed to you. Marketing is not just about commercials, almsot anything can be marketing. Everything is marketing in the sense that it's happening to convince someone else to do something. Someone's eating chips; you see it with your senses and want it, it's being marketed to you. In movies, product placement is seen a lot. Keep and eye out for it.
Commercials are made to play and appeal to your desire.
Every person, every culture, every community, has a different set of desires.
How to stop: Ask yourself: Why do I need it?
5 "W" questions
What is the benefit?
Focus ons self. Don't get it because other people have it.
Do I need it?
Anger: krodha
-many levels - "irritated"
-impacting self
-triggered by others or things. i.e. could happen because of someone else doing something or by your own action like stubbing your toe.-
-hard to control
-can imapact health. ex. People with high Blood pressure can be told to be in calm and stress free environments.
-affect other's behavior
-⭐-LOSS OF CONTROL.
Homework:
Write 1 practical example of a situation in which you get angry.
Write down 2-3 practical things you do/can do/have worked to get out of an anger situation and calm down.
Read Chapter 15
Be prepared to have a discussion in class on both of these
September
September 29
Highlighting all the ideas kids shared on Ideals vs. Values is shown below
Ideals
Standards, could be good, for future, external, could be un-achievable, Expectations for something
Examples: idealistic things use the values to become idealistic. For example, Arjun was idealistic because he fought in the Mahabarat War
Values
Practices, known as “good,” for “now,” beliefs, positive triggers
Examples: helping others when they need it, honesty, respect, kindness, Arjun’s values that helped be idealistic were dedication, righteousness, determination, etc.
It is important to know when to use values in this world.
Big Question 1: Do all values lead you to an ideal?
6 Internal Enemies (Characteristics)
They stop you from doing some good actions
Makes you emotional
Makes you feel bad
Doesn’t make others feel good
Affects mind
Hurts us
In class we discussed the chariot of one’s senses and compared it to the chariot in the Mahabarat (Krishna, Arjun, etc.)
Horses are a good way to represent senses because both draw you toward things. Both can guide you or run wildly if you don’t control them. Both need care/tuning. Both are VERY powerful.
It’s not easy to be good- to be good one must control their senses and focus. It requires practice and effort.
Health is important because you need good health to be able to keep control of your senses. This is where the importance of a healthy lifestyle is greatly reflected.
We have to know what our focus or goal is so we can control our mind and get there.
6 internal Enemies:
Anger-getting mad, opposite of happy, frustration, is usually a reaction to something-triggered by something. Triggers are what begin a reaction to an action.
Big Question 2: Are triggers always bad? Can they be good sometimes?
Delusion- When one thinks something that is not true.
Attachment- When one is too attached to something, attached over the limit.
Greed/Desire-One will do anything to get something they want, even bad actions.
Pride- One thinks they are better than that which is around them printing the person to act in a haughty and egotistical manner.
Jealousy-Prompts one to harbor bad feelings against someone/something and causes the person to act badly to quell the jealousy.
Main Idea: At every situation, you can act based on your good trigger (values) or your bad trigger (six internal enemies).
Food for Thought: Different people can have different definitions of the same value. Values can change based on who you spend time with, where you are, what time period you live/lived in, etc.
Hierarchical Respect: Amount or type of respect given to people or things variates based on their position, age, wisdom, characteristics, etc. Mainly shown in stricter societies or more disciplined societies such as India. Shown through the fact that there are many ways to say ‘you’ in many Indian languages, each one variating in amount of respect.
American Respect: Respect in America is earned, and age is not as much of a factor. (Only one way to say ‘you’ in English).
Main Idea: You can only control yourself.
Food for Thought: Parents and siblings and family can be your trigger and one needs to control themselves against bad feelings against family.
Homework:
Look up the difference between Brahmagupta and Aarya Bhatt
Read about the first two internal enemies: Chapter 13 (Desire) & Chapter 14 (Anger)
Challenge: Don’t look at the door if someone come through or knocks (at Dharma class) to help control your senses.
September 22
In class we went over Chapters 1 and 2. The materials covered in class were:
-Understanding the human body and the difference between humans and animals
-Importance of the body and the senses
-Animals can't control their instincts so they can't be blamed for their actions. Humans, on the other hand, have the ability to make decisions and choices that affect their life.
-As you grow, your preferences change
-For animals, their preferences do not change
-A compulsion is something that is built into your nature
-Humans can control their impulsions i.e. fasting
-Animals cannot control their compulsions, it is in their nature
-People become great by focusing and working hard towards something. Only by struggling and being dedicated can people change the world
-Regardless of what you want to be or do in the future, you can't get there without working hard
-Your senses are dependent on the environment.
Homework assigned:
There is a person who's fasted for more then 1 year and nasa has studied him. Find out who he is and give a little background on him.
Ask parents what is the difference between ideals and values. Be ready to discuss in class
Who made the concept 0? Name of the person
Who created the lightbulb? Name of the person
Read chapter 12
Introduction:
Namaste parents- Just wanted to give everyone an update! We will have textbooks for all the students NEXT weekend, not this weekend as originally planned. But, I do not want this to delay our syllabus :) You can read and review the book as a PDF on the website! Please have kids read Chapter 1 & 2 for this coming weekend. Thank you!!!