Now, I have asbestos awareness, which means I can identify it if found, then everyone leaves the area and it gets isolated off for the removal operatives. The fact I was less than two meters away from someone who I should be nowhere near was astounding. One of the line workers decided he would eat for free in the cafeteria. He would walk around, pretending to be picking up stuff to buy, but would be instead stuffing his mouth full of bacon. You might get away with that once or twice, but he kept doing it. So he lost a good-paying job, for bacon. I am stuck in a marriage with this person who has paranoid personality disorder with some narcissistic behaviors. It has been a painful 20 years. I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy. Can’t wait for my youngest to grow old enough so I can walk and rebuild a network of friends and live a peaceful life. The lesson I learn is that don’t marry to fast. The most charming person you meet is very often turn out to be the most toxic person.