We were married for 12 years when in early 2017 she wanted to sleep in separate rooms and no sex. I was taking care of friend who was dying of prostate cancer and I was taking care of his affairs. I got him into a hospice and visited him every day. I was also taking care of my mentally challenged older sister who lived alone. I had to take care of bills and take her to grocery store, pharmacy, and her medical appointments. My business was in a shambles because natural gas and oil were too low. I lost my investors. I’m an independent geologist. Our anniversary passed and my friend died. No hugs or sympathy from my ex.