Create Yourself

When I was 22 years old, I was away from my parents as I was working for IT company. My parents were getting old and was of opinion that I should get married and settle in life. They were looking for best groom for me. I got many proposals also but somehow I was hesitant to go for arrange marriage. But my parents were pushing me very hard for same. I rejected all proposals as I was in distance relationship. My parents were not in favor of that. Time passed on my distance relationship failed. I was disappointed. All arrange marriage proposal started drying up. My parents were worried. They did not give hope and again started searching groom for me.

I got scared and started asking myself will I be able to get married at all. But gradually I accepted the reality. But at that time when I was alone I realized I must do some positive activities. I started learning music and I worked on my fitness. I became very positive mature person. I mastered the craft of building matured relationship with myself. I wish I had known before how important it is for one to have perfect good relationship with one self. With God’s grace I met my present husband. We got married. My family was very happy. But since I spread my wings and worked on and created   myself in my free time that really helped me and educated me to get adjusted in new relationship and new family of my in-laws.

Moral-

Don’t base your value on your relationship status, place your value on your personal growth by creating yourself.