Week of 1/2 - 1/3
Week of 1/2 - 1/3
A Message from Dr. Clapp
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Dear HKMS Families,
Happy New Year!
As you have heard Mrs. Mohr and me say at nearly every parent orientation, coffee, and open house, we should not prepare the path for the child, but the child for the path (based on Tim Elmer, 2001). As a parent, this is much easier said than done. Recently my daughter's friend group had some trouble at lunch. The teachers supervising lunch felt they were excluding other students from joining their table. Without interviewing the students, the teachers decided to assign everyone a lunch seat to break up any clicks that might be forming. My daughter had a much different version of events, and became very upset when she shared this with us (of course at bedtime). My urge was to get involved and ask questions of the school like, "Were students asked what happened? Was my daughter involved in excluding behavior? Why is the whole grade being punished for what could be an isolated event? What's the plan to given them back some autonomy?"
I knew I had to resist my protective parenting instincts to "fix" the problem. In order to give my daughter a chance to advocate for herself, I had to step back and hope my coaching was a success. The research says children who are given the opportunity to work out their own challenges leads to more mentally resilient and healthy adults. Raising an emotionally healthy human does not mean shielding them from everything that upsets them, its about guiding them through the tough times so they can solve their own problems.
After some emotional regulation of my own, I gave my daughter a few ideas and coaching tips. In the week before break, my daughter and some of her classmates met with the lunch supervisors (giving up their recess time!) to advocate for a modified plan with a seating rotation that allowed for some choice and some mixing of groups. I'm not sure how it's going to work out, but am proud of her for organizing and speaking up.
The author, psychotherapist, clinical social worker, and professor Dr. Amy Morin describes what we as parents should and should not do when our children are dealing with an emotionally difficult situation. She says, not to become our child's "emotional manager" by cheering them up immediately, jumping in to calm them down, or intervening too soon. What we should do is be a "supportive presence" by modeling healthy coping skills, normalizing tough feelings, encouraging problem solving, teaching emotional skills, validating their feelings, and recognizing their progress. By doing so we help them to develop problem-solving skills, stronger relationships, better academic performance, and a reduced levels of anxiety and depression. If you want to know more, I recommend checking out Dr. Morin's article linked below.
In this short but sweet week students and staff returned from break with wonderful energy and eagerness to reconnect and get to work. I hope you can take a few minutes to check out what was accomplished in just two days!
Wishing you a joyous, successful, and inspired 2025!
Steve Clapp, Ed.D.
Grade Six
Learning how to take notes during a science discussion is a vital and tricky skill. Mrs. Piacente, is modeling for her students using a documnet camera. As students share their thoughts during the class discussion, Mrs. Piacente helps them to synthesize the information and add it to their notes.
It time for World Language Battleship! This is a great game to help students review their numbers in the target language. The best part? They can only converse in the target language when they are playing!
Grade Seven
Before diving back into the land of mathematics, students spent a few minutes setting their intentions, hopes and aspirations for 2025!
On Friday in math classes, students worked in groups of 2 or 3 to complete the 2025 challenge.
Directions: Use the digits in 2025 (2, 0, 2, and 5) exactly one time each along with any mathematical symbol or operation of your choosing to create expressions equivalent to the numbers between 1 and 20.
You can put digits together to form larger numbers, such as 2 and 0 to make 20.
Decimal points may be placed between digits, such as 2 and 0 to make 2.0.
You can use the operations: addition, subtraction, multiplication, and division.
You can use the grouping symbols: parentheses, brackets, or braces.
You can use exponents (these count as one of your digits) and square roots.
You can change the order of the digits.
Dr. Baca's scientists are analyzing the symptoms of a patient and applying the knowledge of the body systems to develop possible diagnoses.
Grade Eight
8th grade ILA students are doing some group writing to test their knowledge and application of sentence writing. Each time the bell sounds, the papers rotate. Students roll the dice to see what type of sentence they need to add to their group's writing piece.
It's a Quizlet Live competition in 8th grade science this week! Students are testing their knowledge of sound waves. They can see real time updates on which teams are in the lead. With each round, the program re-groups all students so they change teams and get a chance to collaborate with all of their peers.
FPA
It is amazing what different textures, colors and techniques can produce when playing with water colors.
PE Students got back into the swing of things this week with Spyball!
Monday Morning Meeting
Please make sure you have reviewed the information about the high school scheduling and transition plans for the upcoming weeks in the letter linked below.
Eighth graders are getting ready for their upcoming high school scheduling sessions that will occur in early February. Mrs. Terry, our school counselor, has been holding small group sessions with 8th graders to help them review the JBHS program of students, learn about electives as well as understanding new vocabulary such as transcript and elective.
NEW CLUB ALERT! COMING IN JANUARY!!!!
The orientation will focus on describing course offerings, graduation requirements, and the course selection process for the 2025-2026 school year. This evening is most useful for parents and guardians of incoming ninth-graders or new students but may also benefit those seeking clarification of options.
Additional information will be shared after the holiday break.
Thank you,
Mario J. Almeida, Ed.D. Catherine M. Hilser
Assistant Superintendent/Head of School Director of School Counseling
Save the Date: The annual Joel Barlow High School Orientation Evening for our Program of Studies will be held on Monday, January 6, 2025, from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. The inclement weather/snow date, if needed, is scheduled for Thursday, January 9, 2025.
This is a 6.5-hour in-person course broken into two days, January 6th and January 8th from 9-12:30 pm. You must attend both days. (There is a snow date of January 13, 2025, from 9-12:30 pm.)
The cost is $18.95 for the cost of the textbook and there must be at least 5 adults registered for the course for it to take place. (You can bring cash or a check on the day of the class.)
Questions and registration should come to Maryanne, mpieratti@er9.org
"STORM" the mascot of the Bridgeport Islanders was here to promote the game (and try to steal some yummy lunches).
Easton SEPTA
It has been a wonderful inaugural year for our special education PTA group. Whether you have a child with learning needs or not, please consider getting involved in SEPTA. Here are their upcoming meetings (all via Zoom).
Tuesday, February 4th at 8 pm
Tuesday April 1st at 8 pm
Tuesday June 3 at 8 pm
ECC After School Program is now half off (75$ plus a family membership) for the rest of the year!!!
What is way better than going home and playing video games? The ECC!
The Easton Community Center's Teen Center offers amazing afterschool programs designed to engage young adolescents. We have a group of 20-25 students who walk over everyday. Please check out their offerings at: https://eastoncommunitycenter.com/teen-center/