SENIOR OFFICER ON THE COAST OF IRELAND

[Queenstown, Co Cork]

28 FEB 1906 - 18 FEB 1907

1906

AT QUEENSTOWN

28 February - Wednesday

Arrived at Queenstown 11.45 am and drove up to Admiralty House, met MacLeod and introduced to all the Officers in Command of Ships. Then over to Haulbowline D.Yard, where I made the acquaintance of the D. Yard officials. My flag was hoisted in the Skipjack this morning at 8 am and I had the pleasure of seeing it fly at the masthead of one of HM Ships. 42 years and two months, since I entered the Britannia at Dartmouth in Dec. 1863. Thank God for His Goodness to me.

TO DUBLIN

On the 4 March, Sunday, I proceeded to Dublin, and put up at the Gresham Hotel, Sackville Street. Turned into a meeting close by, and heard a very good address from a young man.

On Monday, Grenfell sent his motor car for me, and by mistake he took me to the Castle, I went in and asked for the A.D.C. Lord Haddo turned up and said I was rather before my time for the interview with His Excellency the Viceroy.

I then discovered, I had come to the wrong place, so off I motored to the Royal Hospital and met my old Malta friend Lord Grenfell and his Military Secretary, Major St. Aubyn. I then returned to the Castle and making the acquaintance of some of the staff, was ushered into Lord Aberdeen’s presence, and we had a most agreeable talk together for ¼ of an hour. Most charming manners. I lunched with the Viceregal party sitting next Lady Aberdeen, a large lady, very pleasant. General Henniker there, we had a talk afterwards.

I walked out to see the spot where Burke and Lord Frederick Cavendish were murdered in 1882, on the path exactly opposite the Viceregal Lodge. There is a small cross scratched on the ground where each fell some six feet apart.

In the evening West and I dined with Lord Grenfell at the Royal Hospital. Took in Mrs Naper, a bright young person.

Afterwards had a long talk with Mrs St Aubyn, of Malta days, told me all about her two little girls. She is a nice little thing.

6 March - Tuesday

My flag lieut. and I went to the Levée and having the Entrée I went in early and remained there the whole time. Grenfell presented me, and I presented West and my old shipmate Keane, who had come over especially for it. Both Viceroy and Lady A. asked me to present him.

We then, about 40-50 of us, sat down to lunch at 4 grand tables. I sat at the left of Lady Aberdeen, the Primate of All Ireland, Archbishop of Armagh on her left (I had met him the night previous at Lord Grenfell’s and had a long talk with him then and also just before going into lunch).

Lady Aberdeen and I had a most interesting talk together on politics generally, though we both confessed that in Ireland, we had to be careful, we also discussed Irish work.

I had to leave in the middle of lunch, and on going round to say good-bye to Lord A, he got up and everyone also, and he shook me most warmly by the hand and thanked me for asking him to stay at Admiralty House, when he pays his Southern visit. They both think it will be a good thing to do to come South. I was escorted down to the Entrance by one of the Staff and caught the 3 pm train to Queenstown. Nothing could exceed the kindness and attention of all the Staff, especially the State Steward Lord Hawkesbury, Private Secretary, Lord Herschell and the others.

RETURN QUEENSTOWN

14 March - Wednesday

Motored up yesterday to Cork with the Flag Lieut. West, 15 miles, called on the Lord Mayor of Cork Mr Barrett, and chatted away very amicably on state of Ireland. I think he saw where my sympathies lay and has promised to show me some of the Industries of Cork later on.

From there on to General Knox’s (Sir William), where I was received with Band and Guard of Honour which I inspected, and then into lunch, where I met my coz Pauline Hawker, Olga’s cousin. Delighted to see me. About two years ago I took her to her first dance, chaperoning her.

The road in a very bad state for motoring.

In the evening I motored out to the Ludlow Beamish’s. My man went the long way, some 10 miles, and after nearly running down a cart or two, none of them bearing any lights, we came to the conclusion that it was very risky and I endeavoured to make a bargain with a car we met on the road, but he asked so much, I decided to go on, and was next brought up by finding the tide right over the road. Not knowing how deep the hollow went, we tried to turn but found too close to the sea, so decided to go slowly on and pushed through. The water came over the hubs, about 20 ins. Arrived half an hour late, found a large party waiting for me. Apologies from them and from me. I took an hour and a half going in the dark and rain, but got back in the hour, the rain having stopped and moon having risen. My lights would not keep alight. Roads too dreadful for words.

15 March - Thursday

Bertie’s birthday, 44 years old, born Falmouth 2.30, 1862.

Called on R.C. Bishop of Cloynes Dr Browne and had an interesting talk with him on Ireland and Home Rule politics. He said he was a strong Home Ruler for local matters and a strong Imperialist otherwise. I must say, I go with him to a very large extent, unfortunately Home Rule means Rome Rule to begin with, but only for a time, for as responsibility was placed on people, they would resent being led by and kept in ignorance by the priests.

TOUR OF CORK COAST

20 March - Tuesday

Left Queenstown in Colleen, exercised signals en route to Castle Townshend, where I arrived 6 pm, having signalled through Galley Head, asking Lieut and Mrs Day to dinner.

On arrival 6 pm inspected Station and found the Days engaged to dinner and an invitation for me, so I sent for my things and went with the Days to dine with Colonel Townsend and to my surprise found a large Dinner party, including Col. and Mrs Townsend.

He commanded The Cameronians, Col. Coghill who com’d. The 1st Hussars and the old Delhi Horse, Mrs Gorges, d. of Col Townsend, by first wife. Her husband commands one of the Uganda Protectorates Regts. He has just finished a 6 months’ campaign against the Naudis and has telegraphed for her to come out. She is in a perplexity, afraid of the 11 month old baby feeling the heat of the Red Sea.

I took in Mrs T and sat next her and Mrs Gorges who told me a bit about the sleeping sickness which she had seen, propagated by the Tsetse fly. She had seen monkeys inoculated from infected natives and seen the microbes, about 3 go to a small drop of blood. The poison attacks the spine and brain. Suddenly there is a collapse and a drooping and then all right again. Other people take a kind of excitement (acute).

Natives generally die in a year and are being swept off by thousands. Missionaries told her Islands quite depopulated, not a soul, only the sound of the Hippo. She thought and said the missionaries were doing very well. The sleeping sickness is worse round the shores of the Nyanza Lakes, where the fly is prevalent.

There is quite a large society at Castle Townshend, all related and Irish Stock, and some well off, Townsends, Coghills, and Somerville, the latter rep’d by Com’d Somerville, just promoted and on leave from the Persian Gulf, his young wife there also.

Took Lieut. Day on board at 11 pm Wed. 21. Sailed 5.30 am for Crookhaven where I arrived 8 pm and inspected Station and walked up to Lloyds and Marconi Station, Brow Head, from which a very fine view is seen.

The country, wild looking and lying out in a wide panorama at one’s feet on the one side and the Atlantic Ocean on the other. Colleen shaking badly from Crookhaven to Schull, a nice little station, and from there to Baltimore, also a good station and telegraphed to Mrs Day. She came off to dinner with me and landed afterwards with Lt. Day. He tells me that he is sure that the R.C. priests prevent recruiting for the Navy. In 1904 his R.C. Station officers brought in 24 but in 1905, none.

22 March - Thursday

Left Castle Townshend and went to Union Hall and inspected Station. Found two old retired shipmates of mine, Peter Skuse, Bosun, who I had to rouse out of bed at 9 am, and Donovan, Carpenter with me in Druid. Very cheery, both delighted to see me and I them. Skuse was with me in Lord Warden in 1882/3.

From there, I proceeded in Colleen to Mill Cove, inspected Station and walked over to Ross Bar detachment. There boat picked me up.

Arrived at Queenstown 5 pm, coming in with the Antrim, my old 1st Lieut in Melita commanding her. He a Flag Captain. Dined with me.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

27 March - Tuesday

Went in Colleen to Roches Point. Had a look at the W/T Station and walked over to new site at Cork Beg and back.

Good Hope flying Neville’s flag passed me going out and left at 6 pm, so I did not see him.

House as regards electric lighting and painting in a very backward state.

1 April - Sunday

Glory arrived with some scarlet fever patients on board. Troubridge my old 1st Lieut. in the Volage commands her. He landed and lunched with me - and for a walk.

4 April - Wednesday

Lou and Madge arrived with Nurse and Alice from London. The children looking very well and pretty.

5 April - Thursday

The 14th anniversary of our wedding day, at St Paul’s, Onslow Square and a happy time it has been, with a most devoted and affectionate wife and I am glad and proud to see her occupying the position she will do at this place.

The Urban District Council called on me and we had a very friendly talk together.

8 April - Sunday

My beloved wife arrived by steamer. She was delighted with the house and grounds. Troubridge slept the night.

10 April - Tuesday

Went off to meet steamer, expecting Stevie and Olga’s maid. The latter came but no Stevie, and a telegram shortly afterwards arrived, from the R.N. College, Osborne, saying he had a bad cold and would not travel.

Later Thursday 16th Stevie still at College but, convalescent, he has had a bronchial attack, and temperature up to 102.6.

We are having glorious weather.

20 April - Friday

A telegram from Evan Thomas saying that the Lords Commissioners of Admiralty were arriving on Sunday.

22 April - Sunday

Enchantress arrived having on board Lord Tweedmouth, Sir Charles Drury, Captain Jackson, and Capt. Evan Thomas. I went on board to B’fast with Flag Lieut, and then we walked round Haulbowline Yard, looking at proposed extension of Dock.

They came to lunch, a party of 10. Mrs West (Flag Lt’s wife) and Capt. Wetherall, Smith and House making up the number and an uncommonly good lunch Mrs Pullen turned out. Olga looked and made a most charming hostess. Looking pretty in white as did Mrs West. Olga certainly has a very grande dame air, at the same time is very charming and has an extraordinary knack of drawing people out. I have never met her equal yet for the gift she possesses of analysing people’s character.

The Enchantress left 5.30 pm. Olga and I went to Church in the evening together, and heard a most excellent sermon from Canon Daunt.

23 April - Monday

Olga left for Southsea by the Inniscarra..

26 April - Thursday

Attended meeting Sailors’ Home, Cork. Lord Mayor in the Chair.

6 May - Sunday

Lunched with Canon Daunt, met Bishop of Cork, Cloynes and Ross who had been holding a Confirmation Service. I had never seen one where young girls had attended. They looked very neat and pretty, all in white.

General Sir John Knox came down in the afternoon to have a talk about the Viceroy’s visit. Lord and Lady Aberdeen and 2 A.D.C.s with Military Secretary and Lord Powerscourt stay with me. Lord and Lady Hawkesbury and two others stay with Knox.

13 May - Sunday

Sir William and Lady Knox and Brigadier General Rimington (who did so well in S. Africa) lunched with us, having come down to see the Cestrian off for Egypt, with the 6th Inniskilling Dragoons. Met their honorary Colonel on board, General Gore, father of Sub Lieut Gore who acted as my Flag Lieut in Renown, when C.O.S. He told me that down in Clare, he was still being potted at and not long ago, shots were fired into the house, at 1000 yards and though he had four policemen for protection and had offered £500 reward, he could not catch the culprits, though he knew who they were.

17 May - Thursday

Olga and I and Mrs West went up in the Barge to the Cork Industrial Exhibition, to be opened by Lady Aberdeen. The place was crammed. I was on the platform, next Lady Limerick very much done up and a mass of purple. The Duchess of Devonshire there and Princess Liechtenstein, the D. of D. also much done up.

Speeches for ¾ of an hour, took place wearying everyone. There was a good show of lace. Very well done.

I had a talk with Lady Aberdeen and presented Olga to her, who looked so well and a lot of people came up asking to be introduced. The Bandons, Lady Carbery, Mr Calmont, Mrs Bowen Colthurst and many others. Lady Aberdeen thanked me for having arranged such an charming programme for them in July.

29 May - Tuesday

A dinner party of 16 followed by a dance in the Ball Room to about 30 more. Both a very great success. The place most prettily decorated with flowers.

31 May - Thursday

Olga gave an At Home to about 150 people. Everything very well thought out and well done and from what I hear everyone much gratified not only with the At Home, but with the dance.

Next time we ought to do it for less expense, for things were most lavishly supplied.

1 June - Friday

Olga and I went off to the Bandons, Castle Bernard, Bandon. Arrived there in time for tea. Found Sir George and Lady Colthurst, Major and Mrs Owen Lewes and Sir Thomas Tancred.

Very pretty country and very pretty gardens. House gloomy, full of fine china. Lord B.agreed with me after dinner as to my idea of the landlords heading a moderate party, but Sir George C, next day, a prosy gentleman, buttonholed me for an hour and a half on the land question.

After dinner, nothing but that everlasting Bridge. So bed at midnight quite tired out, watching the bridge players.

2 June - Saturday

Olga and I found Lady Bandon, had more in her than we thought at first and I hear she is a most kind unselfish woman. Lord B.very attentive and made himself very agreeable.

On to Clonakilty at Noon and a motor meeting us, took us on Castle Freke, some seven miles by road, where we found Lady Carbery, the hostess, Sir Sydney and Lady Lea, Mr and Mrs Penrose, he the Agent for Duke of Devonshire and lives at Lismore Castle, Mrs Ludlow Beamish, Capt. Penrose, Mr Toulmin, Lady C’s brother and Mrs Currie, a cousin and Dr Sandford, the husband.

A fine castellated building, large, many courts, commanding a beautiful view over the sea and along the coast and standing in the midst of beautiful and most extensive woods. All told of wealth. House inside very bright and cheerful. The old Castle lived in to about a 100 years ago, stands below.

The ladies and myself drove out to Galley Head. There I inspected the W.S.S.

The evening spent with music and quietly, to our great relief.

Olga talking to Sir Sydney Lea, on the rows that had been going on at Chaddesley Corbett, mentioned that the Curate Chaplin had made the remark that whoever put his trust in the Bible, and that alone, was worse than an Infidel or Heretic.

To Olga’s surprise Sir Sydney said well that was rather strong. I should not say "worse" but that he is an Infidel and a Heretic.

3 June - Sunday

Heard at the village Church a sermon on Jewish Missions. Remained to Communion with Lady Carbery, Mrs L Beamish and Mrs Penrose.

The afternoon, we all went down to the beautiful sands and had a look at Lady Carbery’s House of Rest for workers.

4 June - Monday

Colleen turned up. We were motored down to Ross Bar by Dr Sandford and embarked, taking Capt. Penrose with us, whom we disembarked at Kinsale, and arrived at Queenstown at 5 pm.

12 June - Tuesday

Lunched with the Bagwells at East Ferry and then on to Colleen and had tea on board. Lou and Madge with us. Landed at Cork Beg and paid Sir Robert and Lady Penrose-Fitzgerald a visit, the latter played the organ very well.

Sir Robert drove us out to see his rhododendrons.

No sign of any of the Red Fleet.

22 June - Friday

Yesterday E.D. and I went up to Lady Knox’s At Home.

Olga much run down and been bothered with a very bad catarrh of throat and nose. Had Dr Townsend up to see her several times.

Very damp weather.

Forth, Hazard and 6 Submarines of the B Class came in on Wednesday.

9 July - Monday

The Viceregal Party left on Saturday and manoeuvres ended on Monday the 2nd so I must go back and start Thursday 28 June.

Several Gun Boats belonging to the Red Side came in, which had been simulating merchant vessels and been captured by the Blue Side.

The Commanding Officer of one, Lieut Osborne, breakfasted with me and told us that his grandfather, a Lieut., had been captured in the old French War and been kept a Prisoner for 7 years. Received his full pay on his return to his wife. His conduct was found not to have improved by his long captivity in a French town on parole.

On Friday the 29th June, (A day ever to be remembered by me), I had to give the official King’s birthday dinner to 22 officers, holding a reception afterwards. Some of the ladies were curious however. Olga and ED kept them going. Olga making a splendid hostess.

Sunday the 1st of July Nini arrived from London bringing a Hamper of Laces and Embroideries and on Monday morning Mrs Farquhar arrived to await the arrival of the Magnificent.

Monday the 2nd I dined with the Health Congress at the Imperial Hotel, a large dinner and replied for the Navy, which was most heartily received. The Band of the Durhams deafened us, playing in the Gallery.

Professor Smith the Mayor of Holborn, spoke very well. He was 10 years President of the Congress, succeeded by Lord Strathcona.

Much telephoning going on, in putting the finishing touches to the preparations for the reception of their Excellencies, building a shelter on the Naval Pier, decorating the town.

On Wednesday the 4th July the Guard and Band ready on the Quay at 4 pm. Ships dressed and salutes fired, announced the approach of their Excellencies, who came down in the Colleen and landed in the Barge. Received by myself, and Staff and Com’d Officers in full dress and General Fanshawe.

After landing we proceeded to the Dais, where the Urban Council presented an address. Very well got up and having on it illustrations of the Cathedral and of Admiralty House. The address was well and guardedly worded and reply was very tactful. Lord Aberdeen speaks very well and enunciates his words well. Photographing went on and then Viceroy and Vicereine with 2 A.D.C.s (Captain Coates and Lord Anson) started in the 1st Carriage and myself with Lord Powerscourt and Herschell and Flag Lieut. in the second.

Lord and Lady Bandon having driven on ahead. The streets were well decorated and Their Excellencies were received with much enthusiasm, a great contrast to Cork where it was respectful but not much more.

Mr and Mrs Longfield, High Sheriff for the County Cork came up also to tea. All the suite staying at Govt. House, Cork also came up, so we had a large tea party of 18.

The Viceroy and Lady A. with Bandons had tea in the Drawing Room, the remainder in the Lounge.

Olga took Lady A. up to her rooms, three in number, and the latter was quite struck with their freshness and the very delicate way everything was arranged. Lord A. also much pleased with his room. They had the whole of the front rooms and a very fine balcony with a magnificent view right over the harbour and out to sea - 250 ft above sea level.

That evening we had a dinner party of 16. The procedure being all Guests having assembled, A.D.C. informed their Ex’s who came down, and, any one not having been presented was presented. Then his Ex. took Olga, who made a curtsey and I followed with Lady A, the Band playing God Save the King.

Mrs Pullen surpassed herself all through the cooking and every one remarked how well everything was done. His Ex. told Olga he must go through everything. I proposed the health of the King, all rising. Lady A. and I had a discussion on this point, she could not tell me who ought to do it, nor could Lord Herschell, so it was decided that I was the right person to do it.

After dinner in the Drawing Room when Lord A. rose to speak to any one, everyone else rose.

This evening we all went down to the Promenade Quay where great preparations had been made. The Gordon’s Band, fireworks and 3000 people packed on the quay. We all went to a raised dais and their Ex’s were received with tremendous enthusiasm. People packed, rows 20 deep, staring at their Ex’s. The Magnificent looked very well, illuminated all over.

5 July - Thursday

At 8 Hrs the Band played God Save the King as eight bells was struck and at 9.20 am Hail Smiling Morn for Guests to assemble. We breakfasted in the Lounge at several round tables and though raining, their Ex’s went off to Magnificent, walked round her and then paid a visit to the Soldiers and Sailors Home, Miss Sandes and the Sailors Home.

A party of 26 to lunch, as we had to knock Friday’s lunch party into Thursdays on account of a change of plan.

Sir Robert and Lady Penrose-Fitzgerald, Mr and Mrs Bagwell, the Engledews and others made up the party and it went off very well. We then all went up to the Agricultural Show and Olga and I had to return early in the Barge to receive Their Ex’s on their return at 6 pm.

They motored up to dine with the General Sir Wm. and Lady Knox and back again at 12.15 am.

I must mention that, having mentioned incidentally to Lady A. that I had family prayers at 8.30 am, to my surprise I found her down in the morning for them. The only one besides Lou and Servants. Every one else tired and not up.

6 July - Friday

Their Ex’s went up to Cork at 10.30 am and Olga and I followed later to lunch with the High Sheriff of Cork, Mr Beamish, to meet Their Ex’s. Lunch was at the Imperial Hotel. We all went on to Their Ex’s garden party, held at the Exhibition grounds. It rained a little at first, but cleared up afterwards, about 1300 people present. We stood in the reception tent and saw every one go by. That evening a large dinner party of 18, including the Frenchs and Lady Carbery and Dr Sandford. Went off very well. Lady A. amused at seeing me keep time with H.E., Eating.

She told me that one of the A.D.C was told off to do this at the Castle, for he is a very slow eater. Lord Anson drew Lady A’s attention to what I was doing.

I have had several very pleasant talks with Lady A. on spiritual matters, as far as one could do so at meals.

7 July - Saturday

I took Lady A. and Anson to visit the Convent of Mercy and though the sisters were in retreat and not supposed to see any one, they readily received us. We had a pleasant talk. One of them said we shall pray for you. I said “Yes. When we have gone kneel down here and pray for us.” She said “Well not here, but in the Chapel.”

At 11 am many photographs were taken of us all, groups etc., and after leave taking and H.E. speaking and thanking all the assembled servants, they drove off as they came, in great state.

At the station they received a great ovation and my Band played Auld Lang Syne and Lady A. as she said good-bye held my hand, and said “I have to thank you in more ways than one.”

So ended the visit and it was a brilliantly successful one.

Every one worked hard and did their best. Nini was most helpful and the many valuable laces and pretty things she brought were most useful and ornamental and what pleased me most was her outspoken and unstinted praise and admiration of Olga as a hostess. As she said never making a mistake.

The Farquhars also assisted and being county mates [?] knew a lot of mutual friends. The Flag Lieut. and his wife were of the House Party and he did very well. ED also helped much, and the servants to whom I had spoken before their arrival, did well and worked most loyally and hard. Mrs Pullen the Cook, was as good as her word and the cooking was a brilliant success and every one asked if we had imported a Chef for the occasion. H.E. over and over again, apologising, said he could not help complimenting Olga on the Cooking.

O’Brien as usual everywhere helping to oversee everything. Their Ex’s left £10 for the servants. They certainly had hard work. Every room in the house crammed and could not even give Farquhar a Dressing Room. The Suite enjoyed themselves immensely for they did what they liked. Lord Anson and Capt. Coates put up at the Secretary for the night but lived at Admiralty House.

Lady A. wrote Olga a charming letter next day, which I transcribe below.

11 July - Wednesday

Mr Murphy, a retired C.G. Officer, who had been an A.B. in the Indus when my father was Flag Capt. in her to Sir Houston Stewart on the North America Station, came to tea and had it poured out for him from the Tea Pot that the Ship’s Company of the Indus presented to my father (of which Murphy was one) in 1860 on paying off the ship. It was an interesting episode.

TOUR OF CORK AND KERRY COAST

16 July - Monday

Left for Bantry by train, to meet Colleen which did not arrive until 2 pm so went up to Bantry House and had lunch with Arethusa (Olga’s cousin) and her husband Edward Leigh White, who gave me a very hearty welcome. Mr Harrison an Architect, son of Fred’k Harrison the writer, and Sir Harry Mainwaring of Cheshire staying in the house. Too late to move on so dined at Bantry House, going over in Colleen with House Party to call on my old friends the Hutchins at Ardnagashel

17 July -Tuesday

Went over to Berehaven taking Harrison with me and had a thorough inspection of the Island, W.S.S, Recreation Ground and Rifle Ranges. Returned to Bantry and dined at Bantry House.

18 July - Wednesday

Went over to Berehaven and drove from Castletown to Ballycrovane C.G. Station. Raining hard all the day. Wild scenery.

All the land from Glengarriff up belongs to Edward Leigh White, who has just sold his land on Dursey Island. Dined and slept at Bantry House.

19 July - Thursday

Sent Colleen back to Queenstown for the Cork Regatta.

Met many old friends at the Lawn Tennis Tournament whom I had met 20 years before when Commander of the Shannon and stationed here.

Olga arrived by train from Admiralty House.

Friday. Accompanied Arethusa down to see the prizes given away for the Lawn Tennis Tournament on Friday which day Isabel Hawker and Magdalen Hawker arrived. The former lacks dignity very much.

Saturday. Colleen arrived back. Took the House Party over to Glengarriff where we inspected the Lace School and bought some very pretty Limerick lace. Very muggy and thick fog.

22 July - Sunday

Madge two years old. Olga returned by an early train to Q.town. The weather being so bad, foggy.

Heard a very good sermon at the Children’s Flower Service. - “I am the Light of the World - Ye are the Light of the world - Let your light shine.” Comparing our Lord to the Sun of Righteousness and ourselves to the Moon the reflected light.

Just as I had commenced dinner at Bantry House, a message came to say that the Thrasher T.B.D. was ashore in Horse Island entrance to Bantry Harbour so I went out at once in Colleen and found she had run at 12 knots on Western Point.

Fortunately the Boulders were smooth. 2 Hours after H.W. she was propped up, but, at L.W. one could walk under her keel aft, as her bow was afloat and she pivoted amidships. Cleared out some of her guns and all stores and at 4.30 am got her off, but only just managed it.

23 July - Monday

Skipjack arrived to escort Thrasher to Queenstown. Russell commanded by my old friend Lowry came in, anchored. Took him up to Bantry Hose, to make Edward and Arethusa’s acquaintance. Went on board with House Party and had tea with Lowry.

Sailed in Colleen at 8 pm for Valentia.

24 July - Tuesday

Knocked about most frightfully last night, and got very little sleep. Landed at 8.30 am. Drove 7 miles in an outside Car, with Mr Green C.O. and inspected Bray Head W.S.S., walking 2 miles up a mountain and then inspected Port Magee C.G and back by 2 pm. At 2.30 landed and drove 10 miles to Waterville C.G. then 12 miles to Ballinskelligs and back 12 miles. 34 miles all told.

Slept well.

25 July - Wednesday

Drove to Cahersiveen C.G. 3 miles, then on to Kells C.G. and then on Cromane, 40 miles, and picked up train at Docks got back at 6 pm. Blowing a terrific gale.

26 July - Thursday

Still blowing hard. Landed and called on Cdr Spring-Rice, met his wife, sister of Knight of Kerry and sister in law, Miss Fitzgerald.

Left by 1.30 train for Cork via Killarney. Very fine scenery running along the side of Dingle Bay some hundred feet up.

At Killarney Sister Louisa got into same carriage. Got into conversation with her and we had a most interesting spiritual conversation together. At Mallow she go into another carriage to meet a novice and said as we bade each other good-bye “I will pray for you” and asked my name. She was surprised when I told her that I was the Admiral at Queenstown.

Arrived home 6 pm. Met dear Olga and the Chicks.

RETURN QUEENSTOWN

12 August - Sunday

I asked Hoare after Church if he was definitely engaged to Mrs Overend, Lord Barrymore’s daughter and on his saying “Yes,” I told him that I would do anything for him, but that we must part. I had a talk with him on the matter and pointed out what he was doing, marrying a woman stone-deaf.

On Monday 11th I spoke to Davis about it and he told me he did not think Hoare really wanted to go on with it. That evening Hoare saw me and asked me if I would get him three months’ full pay leave. I said I would try and he thanked me for all that I had done.

Next day, the 14th, Davis came and told me that they had mutually broken it off and that evening Hoare came and said the same thing.

14 August - Tuesday

My 56th birthday. Thank God for all His blessings to me. In every way may I ever remember all his mercies and goodness.

We are a very full house. Francie, maid, and Eddy, Isabel Hawker, maid and Magdalen, Baldie. Tomorrow Lord Carbery and Tutor and all our family. 13 in Servants’ Hall, so we are 25 mouths all told and consequently expenses are very heavy.

Lord Mayor of Cork (Alderman Barrett) and his daughter Mrs O’Connor lunched with us yesterday. Enchantress came in with Jackson (Controller), Civil Lord, Mr Lambert and Financial Lord, Mr Robertson, both of the latter shrewd men, but rough diamonds. I lunched with them after taking them all over the D.Yard.

16 August - Thursday

Regatta day at Q.town. I went down with Olga and Stevie on the Promenade Quay, and the Regatta Committee saluted me with 11 guns. The day was fine and a very good one for the Regatta. The yachts looked very pretty dodging about. Lord Carbery and his tutor arrived today.

17 August - Friday

Isabel and Magdalen left.

23 August - Thursday

My Beloved’s birthday. We had 120 - 140 women and children to tea. Olga having sent out Cards of Invitation to the wives of the Sailors Wives Union. The Band played and much dancing went on. Francie and Mrs West helping Olga.

25 August - Saturday

Francie’s birthday. Mrs Overend came up and had a long talk for 1½ hours with Olga and myself, concerning Mr Hoare and is evidently intent on making trouble for her former fiancé.

TO DUBLIN

27 August - Monday

Olga and I left for Dublin and arrived at the Vice Regal Lodge about 6 pm, their Ex’s being out. Miss Ridley, sister of present Lord Ridley received us, a very nice girl about 17. Not regularly out, niece of Lady Aberdeen’s and Lady Aileen Wyndham-Quin, the only surviving child of the Dunravens.

Soon after their Ex’s arrived and gave us a most cordial reception. The House Party consists of Lord and Lady Shaftesbury, the Dunravens and ourselves and Lady Celia Crew-Milne. At dinner Lady Jersey and some others were present and after dinner, Lord Herschell played and did it extremely well and Lord Shaftesbury sang several songs. I took in Lady Dunraven and we got great friends. She is far from strong, I should think. Captain Coates took in Olga.

28 August - Tuesday

Left to ourselves in the morning. In the afternoon their Ex’s took us in the motor, his Ex. driving, to the Motor Gymkana where I met Sir Algernon Coote.

On returning we came across a drove of sheep. His Ex. slowed quite down, but unfortunately one of the drove got frightened and ran in front of the car and got under the wheel and by the time we had pulled him out, he was dead. His Ex. at once asked the price . A man said 50/-. Fortunately I had £2 about me and we paid up at once and went on.

I was very sorry for his Ex. as we had been congratulating him on his very skilful driving, (for he is one) and I fear he felt a little mortified for he had, I fancy, been showing us what he could do.

In the evening we all went to a Concert in aid of Lady Dudley nurses, all travelling in Motors. Streets very crowded. Lord Hawkesbury, Lady Aileen and myself in one.

The room in rather large Hall was very full and singing also very good and Lord Shaftesbury sang very well as did Lady Maud Warrender and also the professionals. The Cello playing was superb. Lady A. made me sit alongside of her, after the two Admiralty Bounders, or rather Lords had gone. We returned about 11 pm.

Lady Shaftesbury, who is very nice, is Francie’s great friend, and knows all Olga’s relations in Down. Lord S and I had a talk together on the Education Bill but did not agree.

29 August - Wednesday

Captain Rich drove me in his motor to Clontarf to inspect the C.G. Station there.

In the afternoon a State Procession was formed of 4 carriages and escort of 11th Hussars outriders. Olga, Lady Clementine Waring, Hawkesbury and Herschell in the third Carriage. Myself, Lady Aileen Wyndham-Quin, Lady Celia Crew-Milne, Hon xx Ridley in 4th Carriage.

We drove in State through Dublin to Ball Bridge Horse Show and driving round the arena, pulled up opposite the large Covered Stand, and took our places in the Vice Regal Enclosure and for two hours witnessed the jumping which was very good.

Had a yarn with a couple of Indian Magnates, Burdwan and Puttiela and the Grenfells whom Olga and I had called upon on Tuesday and found in. Lady Grenfell is so very like Lord G’s first wife in every way. He seemed delighted about having a son and heir and a baby of four months. We drove back in the same state.

Admiral Sir Wm. May came to Castle for visit. Took Lady Dunraven in to dinner.

30 August - Thursday

This morning I went with Commander Holmes and inspected the W.S.S. Hut and a new site at Howth Head. The latter very pretty covered with purple heather and yellow gorse. On return, tyre got punctured, took ½ an hour to replace it.

This afternoon again in State to Horse Show. This time I was promoted to 3rd Carriage having as ladies Lady Aileen W-Q and Lady Wicklow. Jumping very good, the place crowded. Very fine weather. On our return, witnessed the rehearsal of a Pastoral Play in the grounds by Lord and Lady Ikerrin and Lord Farnham, written by Standish O’Grady.

Olga and Lady Dunraven did not go to Horse Show and had a great quack about Lady Stormont.

31 August - Friday

Last night a very large Dinner Party, and music afterwards. Lady Kimberly appeared in an extraordinary head-dress. Lord Herschell played very well.

Lady Dunraven and Olga became friends. The former admired Olga very much, so she told me. Olga certainly looked by far the most distinguished lady in Dublin.

I sat next Lady Hamilton last night, widow of the late Sir Robert, at one time at Admiralty, then Under Sec. of Ireland and finally Governor Tasmania.

We returned to Q.town this afternoon to prepare for the arrival of the Atlantic Fleet.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

2 September - Sunday

Lady May arrived to stay with us.

3 September - Monday

The Atlantic Fleet arrived and Sir Wm. May came up to Ad. House.

A large Dinner Party, some of the Captain’s wives to dinner and afterwards we had a dance. About 80 people. May told me confidentially that the Mediterranean and Atlantic Fleets were both going to be reduced.

4 September - Tuesday

Luncheon party and another dinner party. Two Arctic men there, May and Egerton, and one Antarctic, Scott, Flag Captain to Egerton.

5 September - Wednesday

Another luncheon party and dinner party and Mids coming up every afternoon to play tennis and have tea.

6 September - Thursday

Another dinner party. Miss Fisher having arrived to stay with us and then we went on to a subscription dance at the Fin Hurse [?], about 300 present. We left early, leaving Miss Fisher behind, a devotee to the dance.

7 September - Friday

We all went off and dined with May on board the King Edward VII and then stayed for the Ball on board, a very brilliant affair. It finished at 1.30 am.

8 September - Saturday

The Mays left for London.

11 September - Tuesday

Thick fog delayed the Fleet leaving. May full of thanks, as is every one else, for our hospitality to the Fleet.

12 September - Wednesday

Fleet left in the morning.

TO DUBLIN

15 September - Saturday

Colleen left last night, as I had decided with a falling Barom., it was not advisable to take Olga, children and maids in her, so this day we all went up by train to Dublin and joined the Colleen at Kingstown.

16 September - Sunday

Remained at Kingstown. Heard a very good sermon at the Mariners’ Church and enjoyed the service.

Called with Olga on the Holmes and Tudors.

17 September - Monday

A lovely day. Steamed along the Coast to Quinton 78 miles. Landed Olga, the two children (Lou and Madge) and two maids on the beach at foot of the Castle. Helen Marshall and Howard Wilson staying there.

18 September - Tuesday

Left in Colleen for Sheephaven.

TOUR OF DONEGAL COAST

19 September - Wednesday

Had a most uncomfortable night and off Fair Head had a tremendous struggle against the current, and it took us over an hour to make 1 knot and it was rather awe inspiring seeing the great dark cliffs almost overhanging and the noise of the breakers, and churn of the tide. At one time, I thought we should not manage it and I should not do it again, for any little mishap to the engine, or steering gear and we must have been done for.

Arrived at the anchorage 8 am and I took a Car and drove up to the W.S.S at Horn Head some 6 miles and then back again and another car drive to Inishbofin and Ballyassy [?], 15 miles, and got back at 5 pm.

Up anchor and steamed round to another inlet of the Bay, and went ashore to see Mrs Stewart of Ards, the owner Miss Stewart had just left for London, but her younger sister was there and their grandfather, Olga and I knew. He was a connection of Olga’s. His 1st cousin Lord Castlereagh (who shot himself) being Olga’s great uncle.

A large House and gardens, but much gone to pieces through neglect. Miss Stewart has been brought up in London and Brighton and knows nothing of country life. Her mother is looking after it as much as possible. She is a very pleasant woman and after tea we went for a walk round the grounds. The young sister, about 16, leaves on Monday for Dresden, where she is at school, her mother going over with her.

20 September - Thursday

Inspected Mulroy C.G. and then drove out to Mulroy to see Lord Leitrim, whose father I knew. Found he had gone away for two days, but found Lady Leitrim in and a young sister of his, Hon Kathleen Clements, called Kiddy by her sister-in-law. Both pretty young women and delighted to see me.

I found the place much altered and improved and all the trees my acquaintance had planted grown up. New buildings everywhere and what had been originally a dreary gloomy bare place now quite altered. The present young fellow is a very go-ahead young man and has a large Norwegian Hotel and fine links running close to the harbour.

A lot of fishing boats in (herring). Had a look at the girls gutting the fish.

Sailed for Buncrana and arrived at 5 pm, having landed and inspected Fanad W.S.S. en route. Landed at 6 pm and inspected Station.

21 September - Friday

Moved over to Rathmullan and went over the station with Lieut. Wyatt. It is 21 years since I have been here and found the place little altered. Dr Loughran still Surgeon and Agent, who helped me to send Fleet Surgeon Woods to Haslar Hospital for (incipient softening of the brain), really - drink.

I called on Miss Batt and had a talk with her, not a bit altered. Then moved ship over to Buncrana and taking a return ticket to Cardonagh left Buncrana at 12.50. It took a little over an hour to get out and then I went in a car to Malin C.G. Station and had some 12 miles out on a bold headland, as all these W.S.S are. On my return to Cardonagh I found I had missed the train and so at 7 pm started in a car with no lights for a drive across the mountains to Buncrana, 13 or 14 miles off.

The car driver and Hotel Proprietor both said the former knew the road so well, lights were not necessary. However, we had only got 3 miles out on a raised road, bogs each side, when it came in so dark, even the horse’s head could not be seen and car driver with myself felt we were doing a very dangerous thing going on so we turned back and only just in time for we had to walk and lead the horse for an hour.

Made a fresh start at 9 pm with lights and eventually got to Buncrana at 11.30 pm.

TOUR OF ANTRIM AND DOWN COAST

22 September - Saturday

Left Buncrana and arrived at Larne 10 pm, having landed at Ballycastle en route and on entering the harbour for some occult reason or other, the Colleen as nearly as possible got on the rocks. Helm had to be put hard over and full speed ahead and we just turned clear of the Beacon on rocks at South point.

23 September - Sunday

Landed and heard a very good sermon and took the Lord’s supper at the Methodist Church at Larne.

24 September - Monday

Proceeded to Glenarm W.S.S and woke up C.G. Station by Syren at an early hour. Walked up hill and left again by 9 am for Whitehead. Met Rick there, a member of the R.N.C.U.. Spoke to the C.B.C regarding the sad case of his girl seduced by one of the Boatmen, whom I am sending to sea. Proof cannot be proved absolutely.

Arrived at Quinton Castle 4 pm and landing found a larger party there for tea. Lady de Ros and the daughter, Mrs Ross will be the future Lady de Ros in her own right. They have just had a baby son. He was lately an Officer in the P & O. Not a perfect gem. The Nugents also there, motored over from Portaferry House and others, including General Ward (Lord Bangor’s brother) a thoroughly earnest and out and out X.tian man. Had a pleasant talk together.

25 September - Tuesday

Nini, Olga and I motored in Nini’s motor to Ballywalter, C.G. and on to Donaghadee and Groomsport. At Ballywalter, we called in on the Dunleaths. Lady D. grown stouter since I last saw her. Lord D. as quiet as ever.

At Groomsport we had tea with Mrs. xx and paid a visit to the Miss Maxwells of Groomsport House. Did not arrive back until dark.

A good motor, one of the 1906 4 cylinder Humbers. Cost £300.

26 September - Wednesday

(My dear Mother’s birthday). I left in Colleen and visited Mill Isle C.G. Station and then on to Bangor, where, I anchored for the night.

27 September - Thursday

Took carriage and visited in Company with Lieut. Wyatt, the C.G. Stations of Marino, Helen’s Bay, Donaghadee and Bangor and embarked on board Colleen at Donaghadee.

Arrived off Quinton 4 pm, and at 9 pm by the light of a bright moon, embarked Olga, Lou, Madge, Nurse, Lydia, Rivers Ker and the Chauffeur.

A very fine calm night and quite romantic. The boats putting in on the beach at the foot of the Castle and the house party on the rocks seeing us off.

28 September - Friday

Steaming down along the coast, knocking about a good deal.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

29 September - Saturday

Arrived at 2 am and anchored in the outer anchorage until the morning, then went up to the buoy and disembarked party.

16 October - Tuesday

Miss Dawes and Magdalen Hawker (10) here. The former teaches very well and Lou and Magdalen are devoted and inseparable from each other. Madge a dear little thing.

Isabel Hawker, mother of Magdalen arrived for the night, en route for England.

Francie and Ted both been very unwell but I am thankful to say, much better now.

Poor Davis, Sec. clerk, very ill in Hospital. I doubt his being able to return to the office.

31 October - Wednesday

Went out in the Colleen and inspected Ballycotton, Ballycroneen and Inch C.G. Station. Flag Lieut and Rivers Ker with me.

Davis who has been at death’s door slightly better.

1 November - Thursday

My dear Olga’s afternoon receptions on Thursdays are a great success. She is such a splendid hostess, so sweet to every one and a general favourite. I feel very proud of her, a most loving and devoted wife.

This evening, I attended the Annual Meeting of the Y.M.C.A. at the Assembly Room Queen’s Hotel, Rivers accompanying me. Savage French in the Chair. I gave an address for 10 min on “Influence”.

TOUR OF WICKLOW AND DUBLIN COAST

5 November - Monday

Left in Colleen with Rivers and Flag Lieut. for the East Coast and Quinton.

Dear Francie who has been so seriously ill, well on the mend and D.V. I hope Davis will pull through.

6 November - Tuesday

Arrived at Kingstown and took train to Wicklow, where I inspected W.S.S. and the C.G. Station.

7 November - Wednesday

Started at 5 am for Carlingford but at 6 am had to turn back, a N.E. gale commencing.

Visited Bray, Dalkey and Greystones C.G. Stations by train, blowing and raining hard, a nasty sea in Kingston Harbour.

Flag Lieut. and Rivers gone out to Howth W.S.S. to see it.

A telegram from my Beloved Wife, saying Stevie has returned to duty and one of the Motor Tyres burst.

8 November - Thursday

Still blowing hard from the N.E. so obliged to remain at Kingstown. Visited Howth, Sutton and Baldoyle C.G. Stations.

Met an old shipmate at Baldoyle. Pate in Narcissus.

9 November - Friday

Visited Ringsend C.G. Station. Still blowing hard, so have given up my visit to Portaferry. Rivers left for Belfast and thence to motor to Quinton.

Their Excellencies invited me to lunch at Lodge, but, unable to accept. At 1 pm Captain Rich came off to see me, accompanied by Col Leycester Smythe, sent by His Ex. to return my call. Poor fellow he came off in a nasty sea in a tall hat and patent leather boots and got pretty wet. As he remarked, it was not a day for tall hats.

At 3 pm left with West for Queenstown. Had as fellow traveller Dr Browne, Bishop (R.C.) of Cloynes. We had a long talk over Irish affairs, economic, political and religious.

He denied very strongly the accusation made that now the R.C.’s had power, they kept Protestants out of positions. He laid great stress upon the Irish having the control of their money and would be quite satisfied with a very large measure of local self Government. He told me also, that they, the R.C. Authorities had to be very careful how they dealt with their people now. Once they could order them to do anything, now they had to be very cautious how they dealt with them and from stories he told me about himself, I could see he was unable to use his influence as he once could. The workmen at Passage, though asked as a personal favour by the Manager, Mr Piper, to let an apprentice enter the yard as a fitter, refused to do so, though he told them it was the only request that the Bishop had ever made.

I said to the Bishop, that it was to the interest of the R.C. Church to support the gentry, if the latter would only rally round and head a moderate movement of Ireland for the Irish. To this he agreed.

He told me that there were hardly any illegitimate births in the country and deplored the emigration going on. I did not like to tell him that I thought the R.C. Church by its extensive buildings, numerous monasteries and nunneries were bleeding the people white.

Emigration is much greater this year than last year.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

19 November - Monday

Drove Olga out to Ashgrove, Mrs Ludlow Beamish’s. We enjoy driving out together. I do not think any couple could be more attached to one another than Olga and I are to each other. It reminds me of the attachment my own parents had for each other.

20 November - Tuesday

A dreadful day, blowing and raining. Only about 12 ladies at the meeting, instead of 30 or 40 expected. However, we had a most interesting account of the Life Boat Institution from Mr Storey, Secretary, and it was decided to form a Committee and ask Lady Barrymore to be President.

Lady Mary Aldworth offered to fill the post of Hon Sec. Olga did the honours so well and looked so engaging.

22 November - Thursday

Walked out to Lady Mary’s and managed to get through some business regarding the L.Boat.

23 November - Friday

Olga and I motored out to Lady Barrymore’s to hear Miss Jones sing, which she did very well, a rich contralto, but I could not make out a single word she said.

About thirty people there from round about.

24 November - Saturday

The children’s performance came off this afternoon (they had a Dress Rehearsal last Saturday before the Servants). It went off very well, I do not think it was possible for it to have gone off better. They sang, and recited and danced in costume about 12 pieces.

Lady Barrymore said when she hear Lou sing, it gave her a lump in her throat, and Mrs Philip Scott said she sang with a tear in her voice. We had about thirty people, grown ups and children. The Band (part of the Strings) playing whilst the children changed their costumes. Olga and I needless to say, felt very proud of them both.

Mrs Newson’s little girl brought a bouquet and rushed forward and gave it to Lou, who handed it to Magdalen. Lou being in boy’s costume. She did look so sweet and graceful. Every one remarked on it. Magdalen looked very handsome, nearly a head taller. They formed a capital foil for one another.

Olga looked the handsome and distinguished mother of a very charming little girl. Madge came down to the Drawing Room and looked well. I am sorry our boy was not here to see his sister.

E.D. returned here last Wednesday via Rosslare, a bad passage. It is pleasant to have her back again.

27 November - Tuesday

I went up to Cork by invitation of the Lord Mayor to inspect some of the Institutions. At 11.30 am we started in a Carriage and pair. Mr Giltinam [?], Town Clerk, a very intelligent young fellow accompanying us.

First we inspected the Carnegie’s Free Library, all the treasures being laid out for our Inspection and then to the Technical Institute. From there to the Protestant Cathedral of S. Finbarre, where the Bishop, Dr Meade and the Dean met us and shewed us all over. It is a fine Cathedral and unique of its kind. The Organ is built below the floor.

From there we went to the Schools of the Presentation Brothers, where all the officials met us and took us over the buildings and the many School Rooms. The Lord Mayor in each room, saying the ‘distinguished’ visitor had asked that they should have a half holiday. Much clapping of hands. Then on to the Mercy Hospital where all the Committee met us and shewed us over. It was originally the Mansion House of the City and has fine ceilings.

We then drove to the Ear and Throat Hospital where Dr Sandford shewed us over and then to Queen’s College, where we had lunch with Dr Windle, the President of the College, and a most interesting man. He made Birmingham College what it is.

After lunch we had a long talk over the whole Irish question and a very frank one too. D.W. and the Lord Mayor are R.C.’s but I could see neither could brook Clerical control, and the Lord Mayor said one reason why the Cork people were not coming out in support of making Queen’s College a University was that they were afraid of the Bishops and Priests having control over it.

I asked if Protestants would not come off badly under Home Rule. They scouted the idea, however I said there is no doubt that if you can square the bishops, you can get anything done in Ireland. Dr Windle shewed me all over the College and grounds and palm tree house.

From there we went to the Convent of the Good Shepherd, an immense pile of buildings standing in acres of grounds. The Mother Superior and Sisters met us, and took us all over the Convent and the large laundry, all worked by steam and everything turned out so beautifully clean. The Magdalens work here of all ages. Some have been there 35 years, others quite young and pretty. All neatly dressed. The machinery very up to date and the two Boilers worked by one woman, everything spotlessly clean - no coal about, tho’ good fires were being kept up.

In one large room lace work and needle work and painting was being done. Some the latter beautifully done. Most artistic. One of the Magdalens, the best artist it appears, had at one time kept two Hunters in Kerry and came of a very respectable family.

To another large room, where 150 girls from 4 to 14 were ranged round an immense room, and chairs placed in the middle. The Lord Mayor, myself and Mother Superior sat down. Clapping and singing. Then a girl of 12 came out and danced some kind of a sailor’s dance, then two little ones, dressed as Paddy and his wife, about 8, danced a jig, then 4 girls in tartan danced St Patrick’s dance and then the first girl dressed in a sailor’s costume, danced the Sailor’s Hornpipe as good as ever I have seen it done. More singing, speech and clapping of hands and we left for the North InfirmaryHospital, an hour and a half late in our programme.

However, though some of the Committee could not wait, we had the House Surgeons shewed us over and I found an old Edgar there. Kidney by name, invalided out of the service. From there to the R.C. Cathedral, the old Canon lit it up for us, decorated rather in the style of the Alhambra, and from there to Mrs O’Connor’s, the L. M. daughter, where we had tea and two reporters followed us and got information of our doings and a tremendous quack over Ireland.

A good day’s work. We could not do several other Institutions, as it was getting so late.

28 November - Wednesday

A long account in papers of my visit, under heading of my rank in huge letters.

Left in Colleen for Kinsale, arrived there 1 pm. Inspected R.N.R. Battery, Upper Cove, and the C. G. Station. Had tea with Com. and Mrs Lloyd who have two dear little girls , 3 years old twins.

29 November - Thursday

Moved over to old Head of Kinsale in Colleen and drove out to the W.S.S. in mist, wind and rain and it coming on to blow. Returned to Q.town the same evening.

30 November - Friday

A large dinner party of 19 went off very well.

At 5 pm Magdalen came rushing down to me saying Lou was very bad. I ran up and found Lou in a complete state of collapse and wandering. I took her in my arms and ordered brandy at once which nurse ran down for. Poor Olga much distressed. My precious little girl did nothing but moan and droop her head on my shoulder. We undressed her and put her to bed and summoned Dr Townsend. I got some brandy down her throat and in about ½ hour she was better, but wandering a little. It appears that Magdalen had seen a run-away horse when out driving this afternoon and burst in to the nursery and told Lou, who soon afterwards gave way and began sobbing and went off in a collapse.

Dr T. soon came and we found she has really had influenza the last few days, and Miss Dawes has it also. Lou’s illness spread consternation in the household, for everyone loves her. About 6 pm she was fairly right, so we did not postpone the dinner party. It gave Olga and I a great shock. The dear girl seemed so frail and her life hanging on such a slender thread. She needs very careful watching over. I thank God for His goodness to us.

2 December - Sunday

Mr McConnell, one of the Curates preached. Very disconnected. Colonel Morris from Spike had tea with us. He would be a very suitable husband for E.D.

6 December - Thursday

Dined with the Barrymores. Met the Grenfells, Col and Mrs Longfield of Castle Mary, and Col Herbert and Miss Port [?]. Lord Grenfell, I think, has got thinner since his marriage. Lord Barrymore told some amusing stories of the House of Commons. The other night he saw one of the Liberal Whips standing outside the Division door to see that none of the Liberal Members went off, before voting in favour of the Town Tenants Bill and the Whip said to Barrymore “I hope to gracious you will throw the Bill out in the House of Lords.”

Olga looked very well. We motored both ways.

12 December - Wednesday

Stevie arrived home looking very well.

14 December - Friday

Lunch Party. Lady Barrymore, Sir Robert and Lady Penrose-Fitzgerald, Lady Mary Aldworth, and my old friend Admiral Fitzgerald.

17 December - Monday

Some sickness in the house. Magdalen Hawker for the last week, Madge, Alice and now Olga bad colds.

This evening Stevie came down and said he had discovered spots indicative of chicken pox and sure enough he had several.

21 December - Friday

Stevie still under quarantine though attack is a very slight one. We have had to put off our entertainments.

Isabel Hawker arrived at Hotel on Wednesday, there being no room in the house and left today with Magdalen for Bantry.

Xmas Day - Tuesday

A very happy day with us all. Stevie came out of quarantine and joined the family party. Gave Olga a warm Motor Coat, quite a surprise to her.

26 December- Wednesday

A Xmas tree, to which we had invited about 13 children. The children mightily enjoyed themselves.

31 December - Monday

A year full of blessings in every way.

1907

1 January - Tuesday

Forgetting the things that are behind, let us press forward.

7 January - Monday

The children have gone to Fota to Lady Barrymore’s fancy dress ball. Olga and Lou with Jack West in motor. Stevie with Jack Hoskyns in the Pony Trap

Ryves Hawker and Magdalen arrived from Bantry House, Bantry. Ryves leaving again for England by Inniscarra. Arethusa Leigh-White arrived for the night.

10 January - Thursday

E.D.’s birthday.

Making up my accounts still owe £400 . Very difficult to pay off bills.

14 January - Monday

Lel’s birthday.

Stevie left us for Osborne. It has been a great pleasure having him home this time. He is a very affectionate good boy, and full of life and energy, a favourite with every one. It is a pity he is a sea lawyer, for it gets him into trouble with his masters at the R.N.C.

At 9 pm Olga and I accompanied by the Flag Lieut. went down to the Fancy Dress Ball got up by the Town, at the Baths. An annual affair in aid of the Q.town Hospital. 4 to 500 there. We were received by the Committee. The President, and Italian nobleman (Mr Grogan the butcher), showing us to the seats of honour and then making a speech and alluding to the kindness of the Admiral.

Dancing commenced, the place was well got up, thanks to our flags and help of the ‘blues’ under Mr Saunders, the Bosun of Emerald.

At 10.30 we shipped off and embarked on board the Colleen and at 11 pm left for Waterford.

TOUR OF WATERFORD AND WEXFORD COAST

15 January - Tuesday

Inspected Dunmore W.S.S. and then steamed up to Arthur’s Town C.G., inspected that and on to Waterford. Made fast the pier at 3 pm.

Landed with Olga who is much enjoying the rest and freedom from house bothers.

16 January - Wednesday

Took train with Olga to Tramore, 8.15 am, and inspected C.G. Station. Lieut. Worthington D.O. there. Drove back in car 7 miles to Waterford and caught the Rosslare express. Arrived at Rosslare and inspected Ballygeary C.G.. Lieut Sharpe, smelling of whisky (D.V.) there.

Drove back to Rosslare C.G. and R.N.R. Battery 4 miles and after inspection, embarked on board Colleen, which had come round from Waterford.

The pier here requires lengthening considerably, until which it will not be a first rate harbour. Several B.Ships sunk would do very well.

17 January - Thursday

Landed at Rosslare and drove out to Carnsore C.G. Station with Olga, and then on to the W.S.S. 2½ miles on, and then 15 miles to Wexford, taking train for Waterford and driving down to Passage, there embarking the Colleen which had come round from Rosslare to meet us.

Olga most thoroughly enjoying her outing and it is a great pleasure seeing her doing so.

At Carnsore W.S.S. there is the remains of an old Chapel dating from the 16th Century, part of the end wall standing with the window. Some old grave stones.

18 January - Friday

Left Waterford in a Carriage and pair and drove to Bunmahon, 25 miles, inspected the C.G. Station, Olga seeing all the women as before, and then drove to Kilmacthomas, 6 miles, and caught the train to Cork, arriving home about 8 pm. Coming down in the Barge to Queenstown.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

22 January - Tuesday

Stevie’s birthday, 14 years old. He is turning out a very good affectionate boy, and devoted to his family.

Davis not much better than when Olga and I went out to tea with him at St Ann’s Hydro, some 2 weeks ago, poor fellow.

23 January - Wednesday

A very successful dance last night, about 36 people present, the men all in uniform, from the Gordons, the Durhams, Sherwoods and 6 Dragoons and R.A. Everyone enjoyed themselves very much. 9.30 to 1, but it was not until 1.30 the last had gone.

My Barge brought down some of the Officers from Cork and took them back. Miss Coxwell-Rogers and Miss Parsons stayed the night with us, also Mr Johnson, A.D.C. to General Parsons.

TO DUBLIN

28 January - Monday

Left with Flag Lieut. for Dublin and joined Colleen at Kingstown, travelling up with Edward and Arethusa Leigh-White and their Agent, Mr Turner, who told me a lot about Ireland regarding the land question.

For 6 months all Edward’s tenants on the West Bantry Estate have refused to pay any rent and there is a no way of making them do so. No protection is given by the Police as a Sergeant told him a day or two ago. If we do nothing we are reprimanded and if do anything, we are reprimanded.

29 January - Tuesday

Attended Levée, present Edward L-W and Captain Rich. A large number attended. Lord A. shook hands and said he thought I would come up for it.

Lunched at Shelbourne with the Richs. Mrs Rich’s uncle, Admiral Heath, lent Olga and I his Brougham to drive away from the Church after our marriage.

Had a long talk to Judge Wilkie, the head of the Commission for the Estate selling. He has 14 Barristers under him and thinks all landlords should sell out as quick as possible, and did not see how rents held back could be got hold of.

30 January - Wednesday

Went to Shelbourne Hotel, Stephen’s Green, Olga arriving there in the evening from Queenstown, bringing Margaret.

31 January - Thursday

Attended the Court which was held in St Patrick’s Hall. Edward and Arethusa Leigh-White drove with us, first going to Lafayette for the ladies to be photographed, and then on to the Private Entrée at the Castle. Olga and I were shewn to the Entrée seats in St Patrick’s Hall.

About 20 other people there and at 10.30 pm the Vice Regal Procession entered, a fanfare of trumpet from one of the galleries was blown, and the Band in the other Gallery, played the King. About 30 Officers and officials of the Court came first, then their Excellencies. Lady A. in black, her train held by two pages dressed in blue and followed by 30 - 40 ladies all carrying bouquets.

As soon as their Ex’s sat down the seats were filled each side of them by Members of the Court, and the Presentations commenced. Olga was one of the first, I passed along with her, but some little way off, making my bow to each of their Ex’s. Olga had to walk about 35 - 40 feet, before making her curtsies, which she did very well and gracefully and then another 40 feet, where we met and then took our place with the Entrée people on gilt chairs in a pew, right in front of their Excellencies, and watched some 400 ladies go by, who nearly all took their places on chairs outside our pew. The scene was a very pretty one. Whilst the Presentations were going on, the Band played very softly. Altogether it was a very brilliant affair. Their Ex’s recognised us very warmly.

One unfortunate lady passed their Ex’s altogether and looked wildly round, at last seeing Sir Arthur Vicars, Ulster King at Arms, she curtsied to him, at which to my regret, there was a loud titter, which I saw their Ex’s did not like and I only wonder it was not stopped. Another lady went by and curtsied to no one, and several only to His Ex. and not to her.

After it was all over, the procession went out, and the Entrée people followed in its wake to the special refreshment room, where their Ex’s sent for and had a talk with us. We got back to the Hotel about 1 am. Arethusa looked very well, but there were very few pretty trains. Olga was the prettiest, silver train covered with brown chiffon and wreaths of roses artistically entwined about it. The sheen of the silver was very pretty, thru’ the Chiffon. The dress a very pretty and rich maize colour.

Lady Stopford and I struck up an acquaintance as she was sitting next me on the Entrée seat.

1 February - Friday

Both bad colds. The weather very cold and damp. Fog in the morning.

Made the acquaintance of Sir James and Lady Stronge and their two daughters of Tynan Abbey. The former are second cousins of Olga and staying at the Shelbourne - nice people.

Also made the acquaintance of Mr Tom Burrowes, an old Venetian friend of Olga’s, now married and living in Co. Cavan.

In the evening dined at the Palace in St Patrick’s Hall, some 120 sitting down. We formed up in two rows, in Drawing Room and their Ex’s passed down shaking hands. I took in Mrs Everard and Olga taken in by the husband Col Everard, Lord Lieut of Co Meath. We found them very agreeable and Devolutionists. Some very fine diamonds worn, notably by Lady Powerscourt.

‘The King’ was drunk, and I was glad to notice water was sent round as well as wine, and all glasses filled up with one or the other (a tip his Ex. got from me).

After the ladies went, I had a very nice talk with the Head of Queen’s College, Belfast on the Bible. Found him a staunch Believer.

A dance took place after dinner in the Throne Room, very crowded, a lot of girls and young men being asked, but hardly any room to dance and many young girls never got a chance.

I renewed my acquaintance with Lady Annesley (a very pretty woman hunting) and Lady MacDonald, wife of Under Sec. and also made Lord Pinier’s acquaintance at midnight, as Olga and I were leaving early. We made our adieu to their Ex’s who sent their respects to the occupants of the cra--- sent Lou and Madge. We made Mr Burrowes acq. and also Lord and Lady Stopford.

All the suite very attentive, especially Hawkesbury who, told his father Lord Liverpool was dying of cancer and how indignant the King was, that on account of his time being up he had either to leave the Court or send his papers in, so he did the latter and had rec.d a letter from the King.

Coates very energetic, his wife Lady Celia looked very small, but she is nice. Lady Clem. Waring not much.

I omitted to jot down that I attended a meeting at the Molesworth Hall in the afternoon on behalf of the R.N.M.W. Deep Sea Fishermen. Very badly managed. Tickets charged for 2/- and 1/- and the Hall bitterly cold. Her Ex. came there bringing Lord Pirrie and about 15 people from the Castle. Only about 30 - 40 people there. I did not think either the Dep. Secretary, or the Skipper spoke well, feeble jokes from the former. Lady A. asked me to say a few words and I did so and spoke strongly. Arethusa who came with me, said it did more good than the whole of the rest. I hear afterwards Lady A. was disapp. and I do not wonder.

RETURN TO QUEENSTOWN

2 February - Saturday

Olga and I returned to Q.town not waiting for the State Ball. Glad to get back and I am now laid up with a near touch of bronchitis.

4 February - Monday

A large number of young ladies, came to an afternoon meeting at the House, to hear an address by ladies from Dublin on the Lady Helpers Union. I fancy they did not explain the raison d’être of the meeting at all well and Olga was very disappointed.

7 February - Thursday

A telegram from Robbie asking for money. Replied by telegram, which was returned having sent it to 10 Place Vendôme instead of 20.

8 February - Friday

Another from Paris. Am quite unable to help, owing all the money that I do and the difficulty that I have in paying it off. Came out of my room today for the first time.

A very affectionate letter from Bertie. Pauline Hawker arrived on Tuesday last for a visit. Cousin of Olga’s and a nice girl.

13 February - Wednesday

Our dance came off last night. About 60 present, nearly all the men being sailors and soldiers, some from Cork and the room looked pretty with the varied uniforms. Capt. Ramsay, and Holroyd-Smith from Youghal dined with us, the latter sleeping the night. Capt. McClintock of the Gordons, a cousin of Olga’s there.

Received a telegram this evening from Lord Aberdeen, saying the Haddos were coming down to give Mr Bryce a send off as he passed through in Oceanic to-morrow. Sent a written telegram asking Bryces to breakfast.

14 February - Thursday

Very foggy, Oceanic delayed, so Haddos came up to house. Lady Haddo, a very pleasant person but of course double Haddo’s age. He is a nice fellow, but not mentally strong. We all went off to Oceanic on her coming in, and saw Bryce. Mrs Bryce in bed with a bad cold.

Had a look over the ship, very magnificently arranged. Kitchens very large and Cabins large and spacious. Captain Cameron R.N.R. took us over. Lieut. Roper, Lord Charles’s Flag Lieut. aboard.

Had a yarn with Bryce, and reminded him of a speech I heard in the House 2 or 3 years ago, when he spoke advocating an extension of the tramway into Tottenham Court Road.

We had a talk on Home Rule. He told me that in reply to the King’s question a few days ago, he had told him that there were only 5% absolutely disloyal people in Ireland. This in my opinion is an under estimate. He agreed with me that he thought it a pity that the landlord did not head the Home Rule movement and I told him what the Bishop of Cloyne had told me, that the last thing they, the Bishops, desired was to break the connection with the Imperial Govt.

As a matter of fact it would be a bad day for them, if this ever took place but of course it would be impossible for England ever to permit it.

Bryce thanked me for coming out to call upon him and after wishing him a pleasant voyage and an invitation to stop here next year, when he comes home, we left.

The Haddos stayed to lunch and went off by the 3 pm train London. Sending a message to Lady Aberdeen by Lady Haddo.

15 February - Friday

Went up to see Dr Sandford who examined and painted my Larynx and ordered me off for a week’s rest, so shall get away in Colleen.

A large dinner party of 22 in honour of Captain and Mrs Hoskyns, who are leaving on the 25th. Proposed his health and afterwards had a small dance. Some girls and officers coming up after dinner.

16 February - Saturday

Lou had a large children’s party. Band played and a lot of dancing. Lou and I danced a Highland Schottische together, I in my Shooting Boots. Lou is a terrific little dancer. Dorothy Smith-Barry and the little Neish girl, very nice children.

17 February - Sunday

Very bad weather. Kept in all day.

18 February - Monday

Went up to Sandford and had my throat done again.