Activities: shop assistant, stenographer, factory worker, war time lookout,
accomplished seamstress, dressmaker, ballroom dancer, botanist, landscape designer, cultivation gardner,
~ Masterful home coordinator~ Mother, wife and family events manager ~
Ivy May Luck could have been named after her Aunt May Ivy Luck (1894-1917).
Foto Circa 1940 ~ Ivy walks the line blindfolded with friends Kath Porter and Tom Muggleton. probable photographer was George McGrath.
Exposure to city living was probably an educational factor in Ivy's life, and Ivy looked forward as a teenager to the weekends when radio broadcast of big band music lead them to the town’s hall where she learned to dance well, from her leading partner, George McGrath, a graduate of the Sydney studio of - Arthur Murray Dance Centre – proficient in Ballroom, Latin, Bridal, Tango and Salsa. Young people enjoy tennis and dancing and it was at these tennis events, that Allan Egan, a railways man, met and courted Ivy and although her heart was with George, an adventurer, who was not ready to “go steady” so Ivy agreed to marring Allan who was ready.
After the first World War had passed, in 1919 Donald Wallace (Ben) Luck and Elsie Ryan were married in Carcoar, New South Wales. Elsie's health was delicate as she suffered from chronic asthma, which may have been due to dusty conditions of living with her parents Edward and Annie, in mining towns during her childhood.
By the Spring of 1919, their first child,, Ivy May was born in Blayney, on 10th. October, followed by Donald Maxwell, Wallace Edward, Robert (Bobby) and Peter .
In the 1920s Ben Luck and his growing family moved to Surrey Hills in inner Sydney, running a butcher shop business, a trade associated with his farming background and practiced by his siblings, who ran a similar business about Bathurst and Dubbo to the west of Sydney. The small business could not be sustained through the Great Depression years from 1929 and the family returned to the western plains districts settling once again in Blayney.
Ivy recounted that on return from school, her mother would often be experiencing an asthma attack, and as the ‘girl’ child she became housekeeper and foster carer to each of the males in their turn. So from a young age, she was responsible for the care of her younger siblings. Her four brothers were Donald b. 1924, and Wallace b. 1927 and Robert (Bobby) b. 1932 and the youngest Peter, born in 1941.
World War II clouded the lives and shaped this generations young adult years, although raised with optimism and versed in Christian teachings and ceremony, they knew to be ready to face impending adversity. When reason fails mankind often turn to faith in God.
On 21st October 1941, at St.James Church, Blayney, Rev. Father Henry celebrated the marriage of Ivy May only daughter Mr. and Mrs. D Luck, of Blayney, to Leading Aircrafts an Allan E. Egan, youngest son of Mr. and Mrs. P. Egan , Albury.
They were married in Blayney, a fortnight before Allan embarked for further pilot training in Canada, with the RAAF before being seconded to the RAF bomber command and he returned from there in 1945..
"The bride was charmingly attired in a powder blue French romaine dress appliqued in white, with matching box coat and an exquisite spray of lily-of-the-valley."… "A pleasant occurrence was the presence of the bride's two grandmothers, Mesdames Ryan and Luck."
Ivy remained in the Carcoar Rd, house in Blayney and cared for her sibling infant brother, Peter, as mother Elsie was suffering badly from asthma, and required rest. This role continued until Allan returned from the Second World War, which was when they stated their own family..
The parish priest of the Catholic Church in Blayney was Father Henry and he was well known to the Luck family and advised Ivy that her first name, a name for a plant, was not suited to a Christian woman, and when the opportunity came after Alan returned, Ivy assumed the alliterative first and very feminine name of Eve, Eve Egan.
Mother was a caring and nurturing woman yet practical, upholding exacting standards in morals and virtues as practiced behaviour and in domestic order and cleanliness. Labour saving devices were gradually added into home life and like minded family and friends gathered around her. Gardening remained an enriching source of pleasure and endeavour and Eve’s gardens in Blakehurst were awarded a garden prize and her garden in Linden were as impressive.
Their children witnessed and testify to this love and dedication and for her quality gardening. They experienced her evangelism regarding the importance of an education, the observance of religious practices and the Christian values they appeared to embody and the illumination of a way to live a practical and caring life of continuous improvement, knowing right from wrong.
Eve's knowledge of plants and gardens stemmed from years of research into plant identification, propagation and cultivation and from field visits to botanical gardens, wild flowers reserves, open community gardens and from her own gardens. Allan and Eve travelled together throughout the East-coast States and in New Zealand, always visiting garden festivals held in towns, highlighting regional flowering seasons. This included the Bowral tulips Festival, Canberra’s Floriade, local Illawarra garden open days and Jack Dallinger’s cultivated garden and greenhouse in Albury, NSW. Jack was a brother in law to Allan.
Eve was a proponent of continuous learning and in applying her morals and ethics and board knowledge to family matters. Eve enjoyed the effort of entertaining and improving the home and garden. Her impressive knowledge was gained through reading, magazines and books, listening to radio, discussion and viewing programs on television then putting new gained knowledge into practice thereafter. Some of her favourites radio serials included “Blue Hills” broadcast in the 50s, a dramatised reading and TV viewing drama series of “Poldark”, “Onedin Line”, “Pride and Prejudice”. Both Allan and Eve were quietly content with crossword puzzles. Allan solved them from the newspaper on the train to and from work, whilst Eve read reference books and understood the rules of cryptic and both were masterful at solving puzzles.
During long days of housework when Allan was at work and the children in school, Taffy the family dog was Eve's confidant and it was said they would have long conversations over tea breaks. Parents and friends from school and neighbours joined in these little ceremonies and such events became increasingly common throuugh the 1960s, and continued well after her children had embarked on their own careers.
Eve passed away peacefully in care on the morning of 1st. April 2002, following Holy Week and Easter Sunday on 31st March. Her sufferings were relieved as were those of her Lord ans Saviour, Jesus, the Christ.
Note: Christians celebrate Easter on a date of the Moon phases? Easter is on the first Sunday after the Full Moon following March 21.
https://www.timeanddate.com/calendar/determining-easter-date.html