Trauma is something that can last generations. Traumatic events can have such an impact on us that can affect the relationship we have with our loved ones, especially kids. Thus bringing upset onto the family. It then can become very upsetting for everyone. It can lead to that trauma getting passed onto kids. The cycle can be difficult to break until there is healing.
We must be very careful with the way in which we handle any trauma in front of kids. Now we know controlling our emotions isn’t easy but it is something to work on as to not upset kids. Also, trauma goes beyond emotions because we know what the situation made mean for the future. We can't deny what happened and lie kids but we must help them through all the chaos that trauma may cause.