Alana Tappin, Psy.D.
Incoming Class of 2005
Internship: Manhattan Psychiatric Center
January 2013 Conferral
The Experience of Growing Up With A Borderline Parent
Chair: Geoffrey Goodman, Ph.D.
Having a parent or caregiver with borderline personality disorder (BPD) might result in lasting psychological damage to the child. The present study investigated the experience of growing up with a parent or caregiver diagnosed with BPD. The aim of this study was to generate hypotheses about the experience of this population and gain information for further research and treatment intervention for children at risk for developing psychopathology in adverse familial environments cultivated by BPD parents. Twenty individual interviews with adult children of BPD parents were used to develop a theoretical narrative from the transcripts of the participants. Results showed that children of BPD parents experience abuse, neglect, a difficult relationship with their BPD parent, difficult relationships with others, and psychopathology. They also experienced protective factors that enhanced functioning under adverse conditions. Children of BPD parents are therefore at significant risk for psychopathology and difficulties in interpersonal relationships. The themes uncovered in this study can be used to test specific hypotheses about the antecedents of various forms of psychopathology in adult children of BPD parents. These adult children need comprehensive interventions that address psychopathology, developmental needs, and emotion regulation. BPD parents also need comprehensive treatment that helps them resolve past trauma, manage their emotions, improve their ability to cope, and help them become more attuned to their children’s needs.