The Effects On Children: Parent Separation
Shaelyn Rose Phillips
Pueblo of Acoma
Shaelyn Rose Phillips
Pueblo of Acoma
Phillips,Shaelyn Personal Photo (2023)
image by Chrystian Kretowicz, 12 January 2011
Phillips Shaelyn ( Personal Photo ( February 23 2025)
Idenity
Armstrong,Jeanette "Sharing One SKin: The Okanagan Community," in Jerry Mander and Edward Goldsmith (eds), The case Against the Global Economy. San Francisco, CA, Sierra Club Books, 1996. Pp 460-470
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Toastie, B. “How place names impact the way we see landscape.” High Country News: Know the West, 1 May 2022, https://www.hcn.org/issues/54.5/people-places-how-place-names-impact- the-way-we-see-landscape.
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Suina, Joseph "And I went to school" memories of a Pueblo childhood," New Mexico Journal of Reading, Winter 1985, Vol. V,No.2.
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HISTORY
Indigenous peoples: loss of land to the United States
In this article it was about spiritual, cultural and intellectual rides people they called indians. It also talks about the lands and how the century and other wars that had caused so much trauma and damage they have went through.And how their struggle to defend their land and way of life against the European settlers. The southwest tribes, promised food and transportation during their removal to the west,were instead forced to walk the "Trail of Tears". More than 4,000 men and women and children had died during the forced march..The "removal policy" was successful in opening the a enormous hardship for the indians. The issue will be contested in the courts. Congress the white house, even the international human rights community.Americans a greater comprehension of the issues and conflicts.These issues are not easily understood nor can these conflicts be readily resolved.
Kelly, Lawrence C. Federal Indian Policy. Chelsea House, 1990.
The trauma of separation talks about how other teens deal with the separation differently.. It's either with violence or substance abuse which can lead to trauma. It's also very emotional to go through something like this because it really affects the child more. It could also cause the parents to get into drugs and mental health issues. And how different other families go threw it and how there emotions are and how they have to deal with it. No matter how hard the situation was or how they have to deal with it even when they have issues that get to them. It can cause a great deal of distress. In the process of a separation they end up going in the wrong direction and getting lost. It could also have a reason for separation anxiety. which gives them worries about being by thereself or one parent.
Ismayilova, Leyla, et al. "Trauma of separation: the social and emotional impact of institutionalization
on children in a post-soviet country." BMC Public Health, vol. 23, no. 1, 20 Feb. 2023, p. NA. Gale
Academic OneFile, dx.doi.org.sfis.idm.oclc.org/10.1186/s12889-023-15275-w. Accessed 12 Sept.
2024.
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Early Parent-Child Separation with depression, social talks about how children go through depression while they are going through a parent separation. I really mess with there mental health. At young ages (12-18) are the ones that exprenise with depression more throughout the separation. And how there are or is a higher number of people that are dealing with depression in a parent separation. The risk for child and adolescent adjustment problems. including academic difficulties. Depression between parent separation is something that is serious to think about. Even when it comes to your mental health. The depression will last 3 months or longer it was found to be associated with moderate to several levels of depression. Under 3 months it did not show this association.
. "Association of early parent-child separation with depression, social and academic
performance in adolescence and early adulthood: a prospective cohort study." Child and
Adolescent Psychiatry and Mental Health, vol. 18, no. 1, 26 June 2024, p. NA. Gale Academic
OneFile, dx.doi.org.sfis.idm.oclc.org/10.1186/s13034-024-00769-1. Accessed 12 Sep. 2024.
Current State Of The Issue
Children's Feelings In Blended Families and Stepfamilies was about how Children or how the parent can work together to help their child be okay or to feel comfortable with their step parent. If there child feels worried the parents should talk to spend time together. It could affect the child's feelings or make them feel worried. The parents could support their child's relationship with their "other" parent by making sure they have time together.
2006-2025 "Children's feelings in blended families and step families" https://raisingchildren.net.au/grown-ups/family-diversity/blended-families-stepfamilies/feelings-about-blended-families
Native American family : It takes a village article about how it takes a village to bring a family together. All the things they do as a family. Such as the little things like tradishian things . Just being together as one, another thing that was talked about was "staying on the right path" talks about how the village wants each others to stay on the right path and walk in positive ways.
Fiddler Delwin, “Native American Families: It only takes a villagehttps://blog.nativehope.org/native-american-family-it-takes-a-village (assessed Nov.14)
Global Connections
When grandparents become parents to their grandchildren was talking about the reason why or how difficult emotions are while going through a situation like this. The circumstances that put you in this position have a big impact on how your role develops. The child shouldn't be in the middle or isn't responsible for the situation and should not be blamed or shamed about. Grand parents are very important and influential people to grandchildren of all ages.
Saxena Divya, M.S., Family Science AssociateSean Brotherson, Ph.D., Family Science Specialist When Grandparents Become Parents to Their Grandchildren https://www.ndsu.edu/agriculture/extension/publications/when-grandparents-become-parents-their-grandchildren ( accessed 14 February 2025)
Whanau- Maori and Family was about how Whanau is translated as "family", but its meaning is more complex. It includes emotional, physical and spiritual dimensions and its based on whakapapa. Whanaua can be multi- layered. It also includes multiple generations encompassing parents, children and grandparents. Maori culture it signifies a strong sense of belonging and responsibility towards one another within the wider family group. Whanau carries a deeper meaning in Maori culture.
Walker Tai, 'Whānau – Māori and family', Te Ara - the Encyclopedia of New Zealand, http://www.TeAra.govt.nz/en/whanau-maori-and-family (accessed 21 February 2025)
Story by Tai Walker, published 5 May 2011, updated 1 June 2017
The Nations first family separation policy was about how families were helped by ICWA and how ICWA helped out a lot of families. And ICWA was confirmed that tribes stand in parens patic and ICWA was or is a acknowledgment by the united states government. There were also a lot of families that were born and had been taken away from their tribes and families.
Renrick Christie, The Indian Child Welfare Act: The Nation’s First Family Separation Policy https://imprintnews.org/child-welfare-2/nations-first-family-separation-policy-indian-child-welfare-act/32431#0 (accessed 14 February 2025)
Personal Connection
I am interested in this topic because it is something that I have been going through most of my life . There have been stories that I have been told from my dad’s side and from my mom’s side. These stories have been confliction, confusing and even positive at times. Getting to see my mom most recently has been really fun. My time with her is positive and I have fun with her. On my dad’s side there has been some resentment and difficult for me with this new found relationship with my mom. This at times makes me feel as though I am doing something wrong. I found myself wanting to delve into this topic because I need to go with my heart. I really love both my mom and dad.