Loving People, One Neighbor at a Time

Ever have problems with your neighbors?  Imagine going away on an extended vacation and returning home only to find out that someone else had moved into your home, was siting on your couch, watching your Television, and enjoying all the benefits that had been yours.  That's how Pastor Saul suggested that the Jews may well have felt when they returned from many years of captivity in Babylon to find their land and their homes in the hands of the Samaritians.  Aside from all the theological differences, that would be enough to strain relationships a bit.  Loving our neighbors can be challenging at times.  The story that we explored this week gives us a snapshot of the way that He dealt with this tension, and provides a pattern for us to take seriously as well.

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John 4 (TNIV)

1 Now Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard that he was gaining and baptizing more disciples than John— 2 although in fact it was not Jesus who baptized, but his disciples. 3 So he left Judea and went back once more to Galilee.

    4 Now he had to go through Samaria. 5 So he came to a town in Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of ground Jacob had given to his son Joseph.6 Jacob's well was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.

    7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, "Will you give me a drink?" 8 (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.)

    9 The Samaritan woman said to him, "You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?" (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.)

    10 Jesus answered her, "If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water."

    11 "Sir," the woman said, "you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his flocks and herds?"

    13 Jesus answered, "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but those who drink the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life."

    15 The woman said to him, "Sir, give me this water so that I won't get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water."

    16 He told her, "Go, call your husband and come back."

    17 "I have no husband," she replied.

    Jesus said to her, "You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true."

    19 "Sir," the woman said, "I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem."

    21 "Woman," Jesus replied, "believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth."

    25 The woman said, "I know that Messiah" (called Christ) "is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us."

    26 Then Jesus declared, "I, the one speaking to you—I am he."

   27 Just then his disciples returned and were surprised to find him talking with a woman. But no one asked, "What do you want?" or "Why are you talking with her?"

    28 Then, leaving her water jar, the woman went back to the town and said to the people, 29 "Come, see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the Messiah?" 30 They came out of the town and made their way toward him.

    31 Meanwhile his disciples urged him, "Rabbi, eat something."

    32 But he said to them, "I have food to eat that you know nothing about."

    33 Then his disciples said to each other, "Could someone have brought him food?"

    34 "My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. 35 Don't you have a saying, 'It's still four months until harvest'? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest. 36 Even now those who reap draw their wages, even now they harvest the crop for eternal life, so that the sower and the reaper may be glad together. 37 Thus the saying 'One sows and another reaps' is true. 38 I sent you to reap what you have not worked for. Others have done the hard work, and you have reaped the benefits of their labor."

Who are the neighbors that you find the most challenging to deal with?  Why?  Do you think it would matter if you really took the time to hear them tell their stories?  

Do you think that their story might be different from your version of their story told from your perspective?

As you reflect on this story, what insights do you pick up on as you watch the interaction between Jesus and this woman?

As you think about what evangelism looks like in this story as you watch Jesus at work, how does this compare/contrast with the popular models of evangelism that you are aware of?

Pastor Saul suggests:

Which of these to do you find the most challenging?  Why?  

John 3:16-17 (TNIV)

16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 

17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.