Is God MARRIED?
If God is Not Married, then Why Not?
Is the Holy Spirit God’s WIFE?
Does God have a WIFE?
If not, then WHY not?
The Bible talks a lot about the Holy Spirit OF God and the preposition “of” indicates belonging to God.
Therefore, it can not be said that the Holy Spirit is not a separate PERSON from the Father, who is always identified as being to one true God.
In other words, instead of the Holy Spirit being a third person of a Godhead Trinity God, the Holy Spirit could very well be a Spirit that God married to become His wife.
And the TWO separate spirit persons became ONE Spirit through the union of marriage.
Another question that this read asked me was, why does every creature that God created have a mate to procreate, if God does not have a wife?
And I think that she makes a good point or a valid observation.
Also, Jesus did say that God is “a” Spirit and not that God is the only Spirit.
After thinking on these questions, Ephesians 2:18 came to my mind. That verse says, “For through him we both have access by one Spirit unto the Father.
I thought, wow, could this verse really mean that the Holy Spirit is a separate Spirit from the Father?
Then I thought about how John the Baptist SAW the Spirit OF God descending like a dove.
Then they heard a voice from HEAVEN saying, this is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.
Apparently, the voice was not coming from the direction of the Holy Spirit that rested on Jesus like a dove.
Also, Jesus said, not that any man has seen the FATHER, except he which is of God, he has seen the Father.
So again, some verses and passages of Scripture seem to IMPLY the possibility of the Holy Spirit being a separate Spirit from the Father.
I mean, if no man has seen the Father and John that Baptist saw the Holy Spirit, then that could mean that the Holy Spirit is not the same person as the Father.
And then, we have the account in Genesis where God created Adam, and after Adam named all of the animals, God said that, It is not good for man to be alone.
So, God made man a HELP mate. Not another male to be a friend of Adam, but a FEMALE helpmate to become his WIFE.
The question then arises, where did God get that idea of making a female to be Adam’s wife and helpmate?
Then after reading the word “helpmate”, that brought to my remembrance that the Holy Spirit is also called our HELPER and another COMFORTER.
All Christians agree that God instituted marriage as TWO separate persons of the opposite sex coming together in union to be ONE.
Not one being, but one in unity.
So then, when the Bible says that there is but ONE Spirit, that could possibly mean two Spirits coming together as ONE Spirit to BEGIN creation.
The Bible says that God made the angels as spirits and the angels are called the sons of God.
So, that raises another question in my mind, did the angels start out as spirit children, through the union of the marriage between two separate persons who became ONE Spirit, namely the Eternal Spirit and His WIFE the Holy Spirit.
And then, God the Father, alone and by Himself created all things having His wife by His side giving her husband ideas that she would like to see Him create.
Well, I am beginning to wonder to myself, that this idea is not out of the realm of possibility.
I mean, seeing that some of the angels mated with human women to bear children that were giants, then that tells me that the angels have bodies and sex organs.
And that could very well mean that the angels, at one time, procreate to have angel children that also had bodies.
The Bible teaches us that we as humans are a spirit who have a soul and live in a body of flesh.
But God Himself is never said to have a body, just a mind and a soul.
So then, consider the possibility of an UNSEEN universe that we will call the “spirit” realm.
And in the eternity past before anything existed except for the one eternal Spirit being who always existed.
Then that one Spirit who was alone thought to Himself that it is not good for me to be alone.
So, as the Eternal Spirit’s first creation, He created a FEMALE Spirit out from Himself to be His HELPMATE.
There was not yet any physical realm, just the unseen spirit realm with ONLY the Creator and His WIFE, Mrs God, if you will.
You know the old saying, behind every good man is a good woman.
And we all know that God is good, right?
So then, could it be that His WIFE is His HELPMATE that keeps him GOOD.
After all, does not your wife say, calm down dear, when you are disciplining your children?
I know that my wife did that with me.
Keep in mind that these are just thoughts, and not thus says the Lord, statements.
Let’s get back to what might have happened at the very beginning of creation.
All was well in the unseen spirit realm and the married Spirits as ONE Spirit produced spirit children that the Bible calls the angels.
Then, quite by accident, the Father, the Eternal Spirit, made a SOUND and discovered that He could see something that did not exist before.
So, God made another sound, and saw that He could change the shape of what He had just created by making different sounds.
He showed what He had been experimenting with to his wife.
Please understand that they communicated with each other telepathically to share different ideas.
And before this time that the Eternal Spirit made that very FIRST sound, only the unseen Spirit realm existed.
So then, together, they decided to create bodies for their spirit children that the Bible calls the angels.
And they also decided that it would be good to create physical places for them to live.
Then, the Father, alone and by himself, began the creation of the universe with just one solar system, which grew to become one galaxy.
And that one galaxy led to the vast universe that we have today.
The only difference was that all of the galaxies were really close together like the gears spinning in a finely designed watch.
All was fine in the universe called the heavens, because each galaxy was in a sense a separate heaven with different races of the angels.
Yeah, I know, different races of angels, who would have every thought of that?
Again, all of the many countless angels of every species imaginable lived together in peace and harmony for billions and billions of years.
Then one day around 15 to 20 thousand years ago from our time in this present year of 2025, one of the angels corrupted himself and a war in the heavens broke out.
God, in His wrath SHOUTED at His children and all of the galaxies spread apart, which scientists call the Big Bang Theory.
Mrs God reminded her husband to calm down lest He kills all of their children.
So, God lifted His wrath after the heavens were SPREAD out, according to Isaiah 44:24.
And even the scientists say that the galaxies seem to be coming back toward each other, kind of like a rubber band stretches out and then relaxes and comes back to its original state.
Anyway, when you look up the meanings of the Hebrew words, then you can clearly see that God overthrew the side of heaven that waged an intergalactic war against the other side of heaven.
Then, God sat down with his children, the angels, called the Elohim, to settle this war once and for all time.
This is what the Bible calls the foundation of the earth and the foundation of the world.
And when you look up the meaning of the Hebrew word that is translated as foundation, you will see that it actually means to sit down together to settle something.
And God said to His wife and the other Elohim that He Himself set on thrones to be rulers over different planets, let us make man in our own image and after our own likeness.
Then God alone and by Himself created Adam, the first human being.
And according to Psalm 8:1-6, the very reason for why God made man and the Son of MAN was to STILL His enemies.
In other words, God sat down with His FAMILY and told them, here is what we will do to settle the accusation made by Lucifer that this war is my fault, because I created him with a sinful nature.
I have already told Lucifer that from the day I first created him billions of years ago all the way to the day that he corrupted himself, I created him perfect in every way without any flaws.
So, just to prove to you, my children, that I am good and do not lie, I will postpone my punishment that I decreed upon Lucifer and the fallen angels.
God then extended the time of judgment to take place after a seven thousand year trial to see if Satan and the fallen angels will repent and return to being His good obedient children.
If they do not repent, then my name will be cleared, and my decree to destroy them will be a righteous judgment in the eyes of my good and obedient children, you angels.
With that being said, let’s get back to the question at hand, “Is the Holy Spirit God’s Wife?
The Greek word for Father has a singular form and also a plural form.
The singular form means father, parent, and carries the meaning of originator, as in, the origin of what the father or parent produces or creates.
The plural form means fathers, parents, and carries the meaning of originators of what they produce, beget, or create.
Remember that God said, let us make man in our image. Not a Trinity God, but a Husband and His WIFE, Mrs God.
So then, is God two Spirits who came together to become ONE Spirit, married for all eternity.
When Jesus said, Abba, Father, could he have intended his words to mean, Mother, Father?
The whole point of these questions is that some people have a really hard time grasping everything being created out of nothing.
Yes, they do accept the creation of all thighs by faith, because that is what the Bible says.
But some still have trouble wondering how one being can create things that a woman likes, such as bunnies and flowers, and the same God also created things that a man likes, such as grizzly bears and rugged terrain.
Some suggest that God is both male and female.
Others insist that God is neither male nor female.
And some dogmatically demand that God is male because Jesus said to call him Father.
But again, the Greek word translated as Father also means PARENT.
So, did Jesus intend for us to understand God as our parent, our creator, and our origin.
Or did Jesus intend his words to mean that God is a MALE being and not a female being?
The point is that the Bible itself does not definitively state as a fact that God does not have a wife.
So then, is it a sin, if some Christians wonder and imagine that God does have a HELPMATE that He sent to be our helper and COMFORTER?
Sure, I agree that some earthly fathers can be good comforters, but most children go to their mother when they want to be comforted.
So, again, could the Holy Spirit be God’s WIFE who dwelt in Jesus, keeping in mind that Husband and wife are no longer TWO, but now married as ONE and called the Father, which also means PARENT.
In other words, could Jesus have intended his words in John 14:10 to mean, it is not I who do the works, but my PARENTS who dwell in me, they do the works.
Personally, for me, I am still undecided.
And since the Bible itself does not definitively state that God does not have a wife, then I am not going to say it is impossible for God to have a wife.
We as humans say things like, come over to my house to see my new TV, as opposed to saying, come over to OUR house and see OUR new TV.
Also, the Bible says that ALL of the GLORY goes to the FATHER.
But again, the Greek word translated as Father also means PARENT.
So, all of the glory goes to the parents.
We say parents because we view husband and wife as two separate people. But God views those who are married as ONE parent.
Again, this study was done at the request of one of my readers.
And her questions intrigued me, when she asked me why the church is called the bride of Jesus, when there are both male and female Christians.
And after thinking about the children of the resurrection being like the angels to no longer be given in marriage to procreate and have families in heaven, I came to realize that while we may still be male and female in the world to come, none of that will matter anymore for us who receive eternal life at the coming of Jesus.
Our family will be far greater than just our own children. And the Bible also says that it has not even entered into our minds concerning the things that God has prepared for those who love Him.
Oh, I almost forgot, and those love His WIFE, if that is what you choose to believe.
The author of this study is me, Brother Mark, but I always keep the names of my readers anonymous.