Particulars

Particulars
"Particulars" is a special kind of separate aspect of Love Map (Love Map being a general and comprehensive view of how to reach each other). Your "Particulars" notes could be regularly updated (usually at your Private Retreats) and may have particular possibilities from time to time. 

Instructions: As you share back and forth, take some notes for future reference. Keep your notes in some kind of an "Our Amazing Marriage" folder (paper or digital) , along with your "Request List" and other CGPS notes. If you're using paper, you could print this page out to take notes on. If digitalm you could copy this document into your "Amazing Marriage" folder and then start the interview!  This is also a really good exercise for each of your children. Spend some time with them all and take good notes. 

• Favorite Holidays and how your spouse likes this Holiday to unfold each year. 

• Favorite traditions (part of holidays or not).

• Favorite kinds of gifts (things you like me to buy you).

• Favorite surprises (how your spouse likes to be surprised, in big and little ways. Note: This should not set up expectations). 

• Favorite dates (things like you like to do on our date nights, including inexpensive to expensive).

• Behaviors (my behaviors) that create positive energy and/or attraction toward me (i.e. when I play with the kids etc.)

• Favorite romance activities (what warms your spouse’s heart, romantically?).

• Top five favorite books of all time:

• Top 5 favorite movies of all time:

• Favorite foods.

• Favorite Desserts.

• Favorite restaurants:

• 3 Closest Friends.

• Favorite relatives.

• Favorite 2 to 3 colors.

• Favorite massage i.e. foot, back, neck, head?

• Favorite time to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner.

• Favorite chore you do for me.

• Clothing measurements

• Shoe size.

• Ring size.

• Favorite nightly and/or self care.

• Favorite lunch meat?

• Favorite cereal?

• Favorite ice cream.

• Favorite smells.

• Favorite sport to watch.

• Favorite sport to play.

• Favorite sport to play with me.

• Favorite sounds.

• Behavioral Trivia

• What you like me to do when you’re upset or working through something:

• What do you like to do when you come home?

• What do you like me to do when you come home?

• What you like me to do or say when you are grieving

• What you like me to do for you when you’re sick.