The "Centering Questions,"
Positivity Map & "What Can I Bring?"

Intimate relationships foster an inclination to get into your spouse's business (his or her choices) vs. your own. The reason for this is that the intensity of a marriage commitment fosters high expectations and easy disappointment.

These disappointments often come in "stories" i.e. "Victim Story" (Why me? I don't deserve this), "Villian Story" (He or she is just mean & dark. I can't live with someone like this).Β  "Hopeless story" (He or she will never change. What's the use?)

These questions are to assist you in remaining centered in your choices (not your spouses)- your commitment to act vs. react and most of all, your willingness to stay in peace. Peace comes from remaining in your business & peace cultivates discernment (leading to the the answers to the centering questions). Β Β Β