Face to Face - Guided Conversation
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Warning! If any of these topics trigger an issue, please put the issue on your Request List and return to it later with Talk Cards or a Love Seat.
Note:
"Face to Face" is the highest level of guided conversation. Paradoxically it is the only guided conversation which doesn't encourage conversation- rather, just the response to the questions or the sentence completions.
Instructions:
1) Get face to face, knee to knee or at least close to it.
2) Pick a subject line or “share starter” from the list below.
3) Go back & forth with the subject line (or share starter). Give honest responses or shares, while at the same time, avoiding criticism or accusations.
4) Go until you feel complete (around 2 to 10 minutes).
Mind the Icons:
🤿 Deep dive.
⚡ Potential trigger, or use to get unstuck when you've been struggling to understand each other.
🚀 Challenge your life. (Let's get serious about what we can contribute in this world!)
🚀⚡ Deep and delicate (could create triggered reaction).
Note that topics can appear in different lists (i..e. "Write & Share", "Walk & Share"), giving you the option to write first, or just talk about it.
What do you love and why? I feel loved by you when _____ Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
I’m afraid of succeeding because _____ Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
I’m grateful for _____ Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What are you afraid of? Interview Style i.e.“ Tell me more about that” or “What else about that” or “Why do you think you feel that way?” or “When did first notice that?” etc.
What is one thing about you, you’d love if I understood more about. Interview Style i.e.“ Tell me more about that” or “What else about that” or “Why do you think you feel that way?” or “When did first notice that?” etc.
What do you want? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
What do you stand for? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
What do you want for our children? Interview, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What do you hide from yourself? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
What do you want your loved ones to remember you for? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
What I think God is trying to teach me is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What do you hold on to? (and, as it applies) What would you rather hold on to? Interview, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What I love about you is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What I think you need is… Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What I want to feel is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What I would like to give you is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What makes you feel safe? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
What makes you happy? Interview, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What I love about life is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
What would you like me to give myself? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
When do you feel proud of me? Interview, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
When do you feel proud of yourself? Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
⚡ What I may not be seeing is (that) _________ This would be for an issue in your lives in which you're struggling to understand each other. This is sentence completion, ping pong, back & forth. Don't think. Just go by instinct. You've been in locked in the prison of your point of view for too long.
⚡ What do you see in your future? (Note: Do not do this one unless you're seeing something positive between you) Repeating question, one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
🚀⚡ What’s missing from your life (not related to our relationship)? Repeating question- one way. One person asks, the other answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
🚀 What I don’t want to look at is... Sentence completion, one way. One talks, one listens. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
🚀 What I’m afraid to be is… Sentence completion, one way. One talks, one listens. Go 1 to 30 minutes each way.
🤿 Who are you? Interview, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
🤿 What are you pretending not to know? Interview style, one way. One talks, one answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
🤿 What I’m afraid to feel is... Sentence completion, one way. One talks, one listens. Go 1 to 30 minutes each way.
🤿 What makes my life worth living is... Sentence completion, ping pong - back and forth until you both feel complete.
🤿 What would you risk by loving me? Interview style, one way. One talks, one answers. Go 1 to 2 minutes each way.
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