Parents and Carers we need your help!
Our work in this area really began to flourish back in 2016, with our school’s efforts to promote both positive attitudes towards mental health, and identify well-being as a key school focus, being granted the Gold Healthy School London Award. From this, our pupils created our permanent MOLAR hand display to remind them of ways to keep ourselves mentally well: mindfulness, others, learning, active and relationships.
Many of our worries about children’s mental health or quirks are often short lived; professionals frequently reassure us that our children’s behaviour is normal, and say that ‘they will grow out of it’ and to give the child time. However, if you are still concerned, it is always best to go and make an appointment with your GP. Likewise, if you yourself are suffering with any anxieties or general health and well-being, please see your GP.
We understand that some children and adults in our school community may have been affected by trauma or have attachment needs. We understand that this can impact on all areas of well-being, behaviour and presentation. In recognising the importance of being trauma informed and attachment aware, we have made a whole school commitment to work together to increase protective factors in the school culture to prevent adverse childhood experiences from becoming long term mental, physical and societal problems.
Mental health is prominent part of PSHE and is taught both in and out of PSHE lessons. Regular assemblies are held to highlight and remind children of how important it is to keep ourselves and those around us mentally healthy.
Each term, the whole school has a day to focus on a different area of mental health, which could be anything from, dealing with anxiety, building our self esteem to being comfortable in our own skin. These days are a well-loved and important part of our school ethos in equipping children with the right skills and mindset to be mentally healthy now and in the future.
M- mindfulness
O- others
L- learning
A-active
R- relationships
Classes focus on an aspect of MOLAR each half term and put into place practical strategies to help the children with their mental health.
For any further guidence on mental health please read the policy above.
M- Mindfulness
O- Others
L- Learning
A- Activity
R- Relationships
We started our days with an assembly with Miss Simpson, speaking about the importance of MOLAR and reminding us of some ways we can do this in our day to day life. After this, we went back to our classes for a full day of activities. See what we got up to below!
We looked at solving conflicts with our friends that we put into place when playing snakes and ladders. We also looked at looking after ourselves and how to keep our teeth clean.
We looked at what play is and what skills we use for playing. We talked about how play can help use with mindfulness especially when there is a goal. We then used LEGO to create a KS1 town. The children had to build different parts of the town and put it together.
For learning (L part of MOLAR) we learnt a new skill of how to draw animals using an egg shape as a starting point. Once we had learnt how to do it, we used the skill to draw other animals. For others / relationships (O & R of MOLAR) we looked at friendship and what that is. We thought about how trust is an important part of friendship. We had to lead a friend through an obstacle course using trust to help.
We also listened to a couple of stories about trust and friendship.
Mindfulness: We looked at different mindful meditation strategies: focus bubbles, guided imagery (thinking of our favourite place) or deep breathing (number breathing). We then reflected on our favourite one that we can use in the future. We drew a mindfulness picture that makes us feel good about ourselves and calm.
Learning: we looked at different ways of learning and carried out a carousel activity of three different types of learning on the topic of climate change (1. Watching video, 2. Reading and drawing mindmaps on large sugar paper, 3. Collaborating through a board game activity) We then learned a new skill of drawing realistic sea turtles and dolphins using a step by step video.
Others: We looked at a powerpoint about guide dogs and how they helped people with visual impairment. Also talked about how dogs help in a variety of different ways. E.g. hearing dogs and epilepsy. Designed a leaflet about guide dogs and had the opportunity to guess the dog name for raising money for Guide Dogs.
Relationships: Looked at positive and negative relationships. Thought about how these affect us. How can we deal with negative relationships? We then made paperchain people and on them we wrote down messages and words about positive relationships.
For learning, we used Chrome Music Lab to create collaborative pieces of music. We also spent some time sharing how we feel about music and the link it can have to our emotions.
For ‘relationships’, we explored the characters in The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse, and how they look after their mental wellbeing. We discussed our relationships with ourselves and how it is important to be kind to our minds. We then created our own illustrations based on our emotions.
For ‘others’, we discussed ways in which we can help those we know, our wider community and the world. We also considered how helping others helps us and the positive impact it has. We then made Christmas cards which will be delivered in care packages to elderly and isolated members of our local community.
For mindfulness, we talked about getting lost in a relaxing activity so that our mind focuses on something calming and fun. There were lots of different stations set up across the class, such as: embroidery, sewing, drawing mandalas, lego, origami etc. for the children to have a go at.
We have a range of different support that we can offer children, who may be having struggles with their mental health. We are lucky to have 5 trained and experienced emotional support staff, who work across the school, with a range of children on improving and supporting their mental health.
If you feel you would like to discuss your child’s mental health or worries in this area then you can contact, through the office:
We will be able to arrange a meeting to discuss your concerns and offer support or advise on any other external agency’s if necessary.
Below are some tried and tested suggestions. We do have limited copies of some of these titles in school if you need to borrow a copy.
We watched the video Brain Basics: Anxiety for kids - with Lee Constable
Build confidence in your knowledge of parenting techniques.
Improve your control of your child’s obnoxious behaviours.
Better manage testing and manipulation from your child.
Encourage good behaviours from your child.
Strengthen your relationship with your child.
Children and adults alike may find the organisations below useful:
Childline:
0800 1111
Mind:
0300 123 3393
Samaritans:
116 123
Young Minds:
0808 802 5544
Kingston Bereavement Service:
0208 547 1552
Click here for some additional websites.
We would also like to reiterate that St Paul’s staff are here to help you. Feel free to make an appointment at the school office or catch a member of the Senior Leadership Team on the gate.
NSPCC
The NSPCC has provided information for parents about protecting our children's mental health and well-being during the current situation. Support and tips to help you keep children safe. From advice on children’s mental health to staying safe online, support for parents and what to do if you’re worried about a child. https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/
Public Health England
Advice for parents and carers on looking after the mental health and well-being of children or young people during the coronavirus outbreak.
Mental Health and Well-being Pack
We find ourselves in a new and challenging time in which not only our physical health is at risk but our mental health and well-being. With schools being closed, you as parents and carers have been asked to take on additional roles and responsibilities which can at times feel overwhelming. The Emotional Health Service have developed a 10 week programme around growth mindset and resilience for schools to send out to parents and young people. The pack is to support you to support your children.
For information and support on mental health and well-being, and the well-being pack, click the button below.
As a reminder, should you have any concerns about a child’s welfare or feel that a child is at risk in anyway, please contact Single Point of Access Team (SPA) on 0208 547 5008 (midweek 8am-6pm) or 0208 770 5000 during evenings and weekends.