Your Enneagram wings are like Rose’s arms wide open in the famous Titanic deck scene: they help you fly. The Enneagram represents the interconnection amongst the 9 personality types brought forth by human nature. This means that each enneatype is not an absolutely singular thing. And the Enneagram wings show us the connection degree between predominant types and neighboring types.
The 9 Enneagram Types And Their Wings:
Enneagram Type One, The Reformer: 1w9, 1w2
Enneagram 1w9 (Enneagram 1 Wing 9 is The Idealist)
An Enneagram type one with a nine wing primarily shows the characteristics of a type one, but shares a few with the type nine, as well. People with a type one wing nine personality tend to be judicial and rational in their behavior, but are generally more calm and balanced than other type ones. They usually have a desire for justice and equality and can see both sides of an issue easily. They are motivated by a strong sense of right and wrong.
The one that is always able to see the “bigger picture.” Gifted with objectivity and reflexive abilities, the idealist grows to be an open-minded person with a sharp perspective. They are communicative and flexible so it’s not difficult for them to connect with people, as they feel inspired instead of judged by the brilliance of the idealist. Idealists can find the balance between rationality and calm to ease their self-demanding nature.
Enneagram type 9 softens the sharpened perspective of Enneagram type One. This injection of calmness makes them still wise and ethical, but less aggressive. As both types are part of the Gut Triad, the Enneagram type 1 wing 9 could end up being an introvert and have a hard time connecting with their instincts and dealing with anger.
The idealist is a strong combination of principles, justice, and an overall desire for other people’s well-being. This fits perfectly into Enneagram type 1 wing 9’s altruistic pursuing to unveil its deepest power and turn it into action. Nothing’s holding the idealist back, except for its own self-demands or self-repression. They’re committed to changing the world and whatever is wrong in it, but as they project the ideal world in their minds it gets hard for them to cope with reality as it is. The Enneagram 1 wing 9 type will have to learn how to flow with life by channeling their true feelings and facing their vulnerabilities. This sensitivity will make them wiser and more relaxed with themselves. The world needs the idealist to be ok with its own self so the fire will light the beginning of new times.
One-wing-nine personality types have a basic fear of being unethical and corrupt. They avoid making morally wrong choices and can be objective and emotionally reserved. They have a basic desire to be morally good. They advocate for rights of others through teaching and discussion.
Ones who have a Nine wing usually notice it by being a little bit more introverted and detached about their idealistic approach to life. The influence of the Nine makes it easier for them to remain calm in sticky situations and more considerate as a whole. Ones with a Nine wing wish to improve themselves and the world just as much as any other One, but they usually choose a gentler approach.
Enneagram 1w2 (Enneagram 1 Wing 2 is The Lawyer)
An Enneagram type one with a two wing generally shows the characteristics of a type one, but also shares a few with the type two. People with a type one wing two personality tend to be principled and empathetic in their behavior. Consistent with type ones, they usually have a desire for justice and equality. However, those with a two wing are generally warmer and more interpersonally aware than other type ones.
Defined by its powerful and energetic manners, this wing likes to accept challenges and do whatever it takes—sometimes even aggressively—to reach its goals. Outgoing and strategic, the lawyer shows off their skills to make people see what they see. It’s important for them to set their perspective. They feel very comfortable interacting with other people, which increases their rhetorical abilities. This wing pays a lot of attention to its performance.
What makes Enneagram type 1 wing 2 special is the fact that they’re still wise, principled, and ethical while having a more interpersonal consciousness. They are more empathetic and aware of other people’s needs, which enforces their sense of equality and justice. The brilliant aspect of Enneagram type 1 wing 2 is that the typical stubbornness of its core (type 1) is tamed by the deep sense of compassion and the giving nature of the predominant wing (2). They know what’s right and what’s wrong, what needs to be done, and they have the courage to overcome the obstacles ahead of them with a warm and open-hearted attitude. They are receptive and able to cope with conflicts with determination.
Ones with a Two wing get a couple of great (but as per usual: also not so great) qualities from this type: They are usually more extroverted and empathetic towards people, softening the coldness many people associate with the idealistic behavior of Ones. Their Two wing makes them more generous, passionate and willing to get down and dirty. They often talk a bit more and a bit louder than other Ones and are much more willing to debate their ideas. Let’s be honest: Makes for good politicians – on every level.
People who are type one with a two wing generally have a basic fear of being immoral and making impure choices. They avoid this by making a conscious effort to make ethical choices. They also have a natural desire to be upstanding and humane. They try to fight for the rights of those less fortunate and love being hands-on in making a difference by volunteering in their community.
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Enneagram Type Two, The Helper: 2w1, 2w3
Enneagram 2w1 (Enneagram 2 Wing 1 is The Servant)
Enneagram type twos with a one wing primarily identify as type twos, but also share characteristics of type ones. They tend to be altruistic and purposeful in their behavior. They have the will to alleviate human suffering and are generally more quiet and reserved than other twos.
This subtype is an interesting balance between the giving nature of TWOs with the objectivity and interpersonal skills of ONEs. This blend makes them very generous without forgetting about themselves, and helpful without losing sight of their own needs. That moderate manner is typical of this subtype but they can also be very self-critical when not balanced.
The empathy that defines this type allows them to easily see when someone is suffering and give them a hand, without saying a word. They’re selfless, yet don’t lose sight of their own needs. They’re also quite objective and try to focus on dealing with things the in best way possible.
Enneagram 2w1 subtype would leave the pan on the stove to go help anyone that needs help. Taking care of others feels natural to them; it comes from their soul and they can’t avoid it. They’re helpful and welcoming—to the point that they may put themselves last. However, with the influence of the One, they get a little more self-centered. They’re ready to help others, but they will turn off the stove first to avoid burning the food. That’s the most specific attribute of Enneagram type 2 wing 1. They can be available to others without forgetting about themselves. They know that taking care of themselves allows them to take better care of others.
As extroverted as Twos usually are, with a One wing they can become more comfortable with working in the background without drawing too much attention to themselves. But since Twos always enjoy the feeling of being important in other people’s lives, they can feel awkward – their Two nature tells them “please see me“, while the moral voice of their One wing says “oh please, it’s nothing, don’t look at me“. As a result of this, what you also get with this wing is a tendency to self-criticism and and a bigger strain on their ability to take care of their personal needs – because now those come into conflict with their principles.
Enneagram type two-wing-ones fear being unwanted by those they love. They tend to take on a caretaker role to serve others and avoid feelings of insecurity. They desire love and acceptance above all else. They are service-oriented and humble, seeking to help better the lives of those in their community.
Enneagram 2w3 (Enneagram 2 Wing 3 is The Hostess)
People who identify as enneagram type twos with a three wing primarily identify as type twos, but share some characteristics with type threes. They tend to be ambitious, altruistic, and sociable in their behavior. They love building connections with others and helping to make a difference in the world.
This subtype has a joyful sparkle no one can resist. They are very sociable, flexible, charming, and outgoing. People of this subtype pay attention to other people’s needs, but they aren’t too concerned about pleasing them. Everything flows naturally, and people feel comfortable around them. When unhealthy, they can be very hard on themselves and repress their emotions.
Enneagram types 2w3 are very sociable and are always seeking love and attention. They are very pleasant people, always willing to help. You don’t even need to ask; they immediately get into an attentive and helping mode. As they are restless helpers, they don’t understand indifference. Truly caring, they know what other people need, and they will do whatever they can to respond to this need. This is where 3s’ influence shows itself the most. They become determined and ordained. No one needs to ask them for anything; once Enneagram 2w3s step in, they scan the atmosphere with their feelings-reading superpower and try to provide others what they lack. Nevertheless, this might result in self-repression and avoiding negative feelings. Keep in mind that this Enneagram type is under the Feeling triad umbrella, which means that they’re heart-oriented when it comes to making decisions.
Cultivating their network, something all Twos do, can be a bit more about who they know and how it makes them look than about simply being important in the lives of others. It makes them more concerned with their own desirability and status, and when they get manipulative (as unhealthy Twos can), it is usually to avoid humiliation and assure people still like them. Lucky for them, healthy Twos with a Three wing are still concerned about others as much as their basic type promises – their self-esteem just isn’t tied as closely to their service but more to their personal qualities.
Enneagram type two wing threes fear being unwanted or worthless. They usually avoid this by building personal connections with others and working hard to meet the needs of the community. Their most basic desire is to be loved and accepted. They may express this by being extremely attentive and attached to other people.
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Enneagram Type Three, The Achiever: 3w2, 3w4
Enneagram 3w2 (Enneagram 3 Wing 2 is The Charming)
People who identify as enneagram type threes with a two wing primarily identify as type threes, but share some characteristics with type twos. They tend to be ambitious, charming, and enthusiastic in their behavior. They are driven and love to achieve. They tend to adapt their attitude to their environment, which can make them very effective communicators.
This subtype is well-known for not going unnoticed. They stand out from the crowd, like the party soul they are. They are friendly but self-focused at the same time. This confidence makes being around them quite enjoyable and astonishing. The Charming subtype loves to shine; they don’t settle for less. In an unhealthy state, they hide their feelings and don’t want to show their vulnerabilities.
Some specific attributes only Enneagram type 3 wing 2 have is their energetic and purposeful approach to life. The 3w2 type clearly knows what it wants and will do anything to accomplish its goals. They can easily focus and get things done, but they never forget their beloved ones and love to meet and chill out with others.
Both types are part of the Feeling triad, which means that not only 2 but also 3 deal with reality using their heart, and are guided by their feelings and emotions when making decisions. As their heart calls the shots, they tend to be very sensitive people who strive for appreciation and being worthy of love. Success is their symbolic paradise since it’s crucial for them to feel good and feed their self-esteem. Enneagram 3w2 is obviously aware of its virtues, but failure is like an earthquake that takes its structure down and leaves it facing insecurity. Nevertheless, truly inspired by their unstoppable force, The Charming shines among the crowd like a vampire in the sun.
Threes are used to employ a lot of character traits to get people to like them, even if they have to fake them. With a Two wing, the most social one of these – coming across as loving, generous and altruistic – often actually becomes true. Yes, they still want to be admired for their achievements, but it becomes more likely that some of those achievements are helping others to succeed as well. Their efforts of making sure they are seen as accomplished can veer away from purely public recognition to a more private kind of success: having a stable family, a satisfying private life and an enviable home.
Enneagram type three wing twos are afraid of failing and being unworthy of love. They avoid this by setting and accomplishing goals, in order to feel successful and worthy. Their basic desire is to be admired and accepted. They seek value through accomplishment, which may push them deeper into their work.
Enneagram 3w4 (Enneagram 3 Wing 4 is The Professional)
People with an enneagram type three wing four personality predominantly take on features of a type three, but share several with the type four as well. They tend to be ambitious, focused, and serious in their behavior. They are very career-oriented and are more introverted than other threes. They tend to find much of their identity in their work and are very task-focused.
This subtype is the one who’s always trying to do better and give a better performance. So, it’s very important for them to feel appreciated. In their skills deployment, they like to feel valued and challenged. As they love to achieve new goals and keep going higher, they feel the need to succeed. This need can eventually become a huge pressure for them.
This amazing blend brings out a new type that is always seeking to trespass the limits and go further than others. They are like courageous sailors that want to prove where the horizon ends. Due to this ability, they’re very concerned about their thoughts and everything that happens in their inner world. Going inwards is their only way to analyze and taste reality, but unfortunately, it also leads them into a strong disconnection from the outside. As they are members of the same crew, The Feeling Triad, they are constantly dealing with their heart’s voice, surfing their feelings waves. However, they do not do this in the same way. While 3s are likely out of touch and disconnected from what they feel, 4s are aware of their feelings but under-express them. We could say that the real challenge for Enneagram type 3 wing 4 is to hear themselves and channel all the information they manage within their private streams and then manifest it. Just like sailors that always have new stories to tell, this type has a ton of them.
Threes with a Four wing find aspects in their personality that seem to almost contradict their basic personality type. See, Fours are all about authenticity, while Threes are chameleons that can change colors deliberately to blend in. How does this work? Well, actually, the main effect a Four wing has on Threes is to steer their focus away from purely personal qualities and more towards their work and career. Where Threes with a Two wing go all-in on shining in their relationships, the Four wing often leads to a bigger emphasis on their profession, their craft and materialistic pleasures. These Threes still want and need to make the right impression, and more importantly: to have their projects succeed. But the self-reflective, introspective nature of the Four can clash with this goal. It’s hard to project an image that hopes to please while you have a voice in your head calling you a phony.
Enneagram type threes with a four wing are afraid of failure. They tend to throw themselves into their careers and do anything it takes to succeed. Their most basic desire is to succeed and feel valued. They may show this by seeking validation of their hard work and successes.
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Enneagram Type Four, The Individualist: 4w3, 4w5
Enneagram 4w3 (Enneagram 4 Wing 3 is The Aristocrat)
People with an enneagram type four wing three personality tend to identify most with the type four, but may share some traits with the type three. They are creative, energetic, and productive in their behavior. They are generally more sociable than other four types. They want to be unique and expressive, hoping to make a lasting impact on society.
This subtype is very interesting as type 3 brings dynamism into the introverted style of the 4. Type 3’s rhythm makes this combination successful as it causes them to reveal all of their potential that’s usually kept inside. As they get more confident with the outside, they can make big changes. Their main challenge is to connect their potential to their actions.
This great combination broadens the core type’s scope, connecting it to reality. If you’ve already read about the Enneagram type 4, you may have noticed that they’re very introverted and have an amazing inner world they rarely share with others. However, the 3’s influence comes into the mix to save them from their tendency to remain silent, giving the world the chance to see them.
They’re still part of the same crew, The Feeling Triad, which means that most of the time they’re in charge of their emotions and feelings. Those are the very engines of their actions and the fire of their decisions. The heart is in command. However, the Enneagram type 4w3 can be misinterpreted as part of The Head Triad because of their ability to discover new things, solve mysteries and problems, and pursue quests propelled by their constant thirst for knowledge. As they spend a lot of time inwards, they become incredibly creative, although their insecurity may hinder their ability to recognize it. The 4w3s feel safer by treasuring all their thoughts as if they were a Soul Gem. They don’t take too many risks. The less exposure, the more comfortable they will feel. The main challenge for 4w3 is to detach from their feeling waves and find their own identity beyond them.
Of the two wings of the Four personality type, the Three wing adds some of the energy, ambition and competitiveness to the otherwise withdrawn Four. With a Three wing, Fours get more image-conscious – and usually more productive. They are better at hiding the emotional turmoil inside them to go out, be sociable and turn their dreams into action. It’s basically what you get when you want to be both the most unique and the most accomplished. With the out-going, people-focused nature of the average Three in their mix, Fours with this wing make more effort to communicate themselves to others and find a way to express all those complex emotions inside them. If they go the artistic way, these are the kinds of Fours who also have the drive to see their work published, exhibited and put on stage. They want the glittering products of their minds to be seen by the world. The whole thing of Threes is to be seen as successful and admired for what they do. Some of these motivators swap over to the Four. Status, refinement, good taste, culture, sophistication – all these things become more important for Fours with a Three wing. You get someone who is more practical, but often also more extravagant.
Four wing threes’ deepest fear is that they have no significance in the world. They tend to express this by frequently distinguishing themselves from the rest of the world. They desire uniqueness and personal identity. They long to be authentically different, which may lead them to intense bouts of creativity and self-expression.
Enneagram 4w5 (Enneagram 4 Wing 5 is The Bohemian)
People with an enneagram type four wing five personality tend to identify most with type fours, but may also relate to type fives. They are introspective, creative, and perceptive in their behavior. They want to form a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them. They tend to be much less concerned with public image than other fours.
This subtype is the most intense one, the one with the eye of an artist. Since they aren’t outgoing, they spend a lot of their time withdrawing to their inner world to observe the real world. That’s how they extract the essence of things. As they seek security, their analytical eye makes them better understand the environment and allows them to move around with more confidence. It’s important for them to learn to create bonds with people and channel their intense nature.
With the extra self-confidence, they jump into their own universe to find an incredible inner side that was hidden behind a façade of simplicity. Where normal people see just common events, this type raises new questions. As limits are broadened, so is their curiosity. Nothing seems impossible for 4w5 hunger. When these two Triads interact, introversion gets even deeper and they’re no longer worried about how people see them or how to adapt to new environments. They’re just focused on opening new doors and breathing the air of progress. The key to achieving this is perception. Trusting perception will drive 4w5 to ask the right questions. The only thing they have left is staying tuned in with themselves and becoming experts in what really matters: themselves. The Bohemian is described as being less outgoing than the 4w3, but also more the observer.
You notice a Five wing in a Four when you find them on the more introverted, unconventional and private side of this personality type. They are quieter about their ideas than their counterparts with Three wings, less interested in status and putting their ideas into action. They are usually much happier to do their unique things just for themselves and nobody else. Both Fours and Fives are withdrawn types. Fours draw back to protect their feelings, while Fives do it to protect the security of their minds. Both those things reinforce each other in this combination. These Fours are still markedly more concerned with their inner emotional world than Fives, but they are more observant and intellectual about it, at the cost of finding it harder to put their brilliant thoughts into practice.
Four wing fives fear having no impact on the world. They may be reserved, but they seek recognition and admiration. They desire their own personal identity, and may retreat within themselves to discover who they really are. Free Spirits tend to defend themselves either by withdrawing from others or adapting characteristics of loved ones.
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Enneagram Type Five, The Investigator: 5w4, 5w6
Enneagram 5w4 (Enneagram 5 Wing 4 is The Iconoclast)
People with an enneagram type five wing four personality tend to identify mostly with type fives, but also share traits with type fours. They are curious, creative, and reserved in their behavior. They prefer to be alone to reflect and recharge. They tend to be more emotional and self-expressive than other fives.
This kind is known for withdrawing entirely to their inner world to make amazing discoveries. They surf brain waves that constantly break onto new knowledge shores. In this wing, 4s freshen up their mood by updating some events related to their feelings and the outer world. They are usually very disconnected from the environment; the 4 wing plays its role by connecting them with reality.
Enneagram 5w4s can spend all day long diving into their own universe, trying to conquer new systems. They want to understand everything that comes across their minds, and won’t leave any loose ends. In this case, both wings are members of different Triads. Type 5 is part of The Head Triad, while type 4 is part of The Heart Triad. This interesting crosspoint makes this particular subtype a unique blend that combines the electrical rhythm of the mind with the compass of the Heart, resulting in a 5w4 that loves to withdraw to their inner self and decipher the outside by studying it and understanding the inside first.
That’s why they are always isolated. Like mad scientists trying to reach a groundbreaking discovery, they put a lot of themselves into that so they can master their field. Being aware of every step they take into a specific direction is fundamental for them. They don’t need anyone else; that’s why it’s difficult to approach them.
If a Five has a Four wing, they get to add an emotional sensitivity and a passion for the unconventional to their analytical, detached minds. These Fives are more independent than those with a Six wing. They sometimes are also more eccentric and definitely more in tune with their imagination. Fives and Fours are very similar. They both choose to withdraw from the world: Fives to analyze it from the safe haven of their minds, Fours to explore their own emotional world. Both are looking for something inside them that helps them cope with the real world. But they come from different directions: Fives from their heads, Fours from their hearts. They are often less concerned with cold, hard, data-driven science than with areas where they can use their intuition and imagination as well. What you also get is an even more withdrawn type that can spend a lot of their time with impractical things that stimulate their minds and imagination without producing any meaningful results – hours spent reading, specializing in trivia and hobbies or playing intellectual games. Since they are still fundamentally Fives, their fantasies often revolve more around the fantastic and surreal than the Four, sometimes drifting into the macabre, dark and horrific.
Type fives with a four wing are afraid of being helpless and incompetent. They tend to overcompensate for this by spending their time developing new knowledge and skills to feel useful and worthy. Their basic desire is to feel helpful and able. They express this by passionately pursuing knowledge and understanding of the world.
Enneagram 5w6 (Enneagram 5 Wing 6 is The Problem Solver)
People with an enneagram type five wing six personality usually identify the most with the type five, but also share traits with the six type. They tend to be practical, independent, and logical in their behavior. They are much more cooperative than other five types and have a passion for using their knowledge to solve real-world problems.
This subtype is the analytical and curious one who is always questioning and unveiling how things work. Very practical and handy, they use their discipline to get to reliable discoveries. Once focused, they have surgical attention. Don’t get surprised, because their brilliance can open amazing doors and dazzle us.
Enneagram 5w6s are very intuitive people with the ability to read others to stay always a step ahead. They are rational and logical, and love to think of new ways to do things. And they do it well, too. They go all in when it comes to decision-making, which doesn’t mean they take risks. They will actually thoroughly analyze the scenario and take every possibility into account before taking any steps. Jumping into the void is not their style.
The two types in this mix are both members of the Head Triad. So, they take things seriously and tend to overthink them. They’re spontaneous when facing real-life challenges, but they don’t leave loose ends. They connect the dots and seek truth. One of the most distinctive aspects of this subtype is that they are usually quite smart and clever and use their intelligence to protect themselves and detect possible threats. This permanent state of alarm makes them very reactive, though, and sometimes a bit defensive, too. Despite being independent, they also need love and protection, which can be contradictory. However, these opposing forces are what make them shine.
To generalize a bit right off the start, Fives with a Six wing are often what people associate with the classic programmer-type: Very good at intellectual dissection, theoretical problem-solving, technical subjects and practical matters; more social than others (the reclusive Fives with a Four wing for example) – but not very good at voicing their feelings (if they try at all); very observant of the world around them but not particularly introspective. This is what the Six wing adds to the Five type: the ability to use their analytical mindset on practical things that ensure the world will be easier to navigate, more predictable and maybe even a little bit safer.
Five wing sixes fear being useless or incapable. They seek to improve the world around them in order to feel worthy. Their basic desire is to be competent and useful. They usually show this by picking up new skills and pieces of knowledge that can be of benefit.
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Enneagram Type Six, The Loyalist: 6w5, 6w7
Enneagram 6w5 (Enneagram 6 Wing 5 is The Defender)
People with an Enneagram type six wing five personality tend to identify most with the type six, but share traits with the five type, as well. They tend to be intellectual, hard-working, and cautious in their behavior. They are independent, but are very loyal to those they support. They are usually more serious and focused than other sixes.
This kind is known for being very practical and for loving standardized processes. The defender is interested in politics and social issues; they like to have their own opinion to reassure their values. They’re lonely but also love to be surrounded by familiar faces. The contradictions of the Defender overwhelm them sometimes. As they’re quite attached to their beliefs, they can get very self-critical and hypervigilant. The Defender is a subtype that results from the encounter of types 6 and 5, which means that Sixes’ natural reflexive and analytical style meets the potential and creativity of Fives.
This particular blend creates a whole new kind of Enneagram type that is very entangled with their values and principles by which they measure reality and define risks. This parameter system and really heightened sense of analysis and sharpened observation make them very suspicious, so sometimes they might not trust others, although it is ideal to anticipate scenarios or other people’s behavior.
Although they are part of the same triad—Head—they don’t only use their common sense when making decisions. They make the effort to find new and more convenient ways to do it, with a low emotional cost. 6w5s are very loyal people who really value honesty and clarity. They fiercely defend their values in order to maintain their honor and give life a clear frame. On that same note, we might add that they are huge fans of standardized processes, where things are predictable and can be controlled. Enneagram 6w5 types seem to move away from others because of their independent and self-reliant manners, but they love to be surrounded by good people. They appreciate having supportive and trustful relationships that can be their safe space. They are also very creative and purposeful people. If they feel comfortable, they will improve their complete environment.
Sixes are usually very social, endearing and lovable pragmatists who enjoy the safety of systems and people of authority to guard them against a volatile world. If you add the withdrawn, introverted and cerebral nature of the Five as a wing to this, you get – amongst other things – Sixes who are more independent and analytical, who like to protect their privacy and pursue more solitary hobbies than communal ones. Sixes with a Five wing often find they have a greater need for time alone, where they can use their considerate powers of concentration and focus to narrow in on the things that they feel they need to solve, be it in their job or their private life. These Sixes often fit in particularly well into fixed systems like academics and analytical jobs, where the rules are well established and they have a safe framework they can predictably move and advance in.
Sixes with five wings are afraid of losing their guidance and stability. This is often expressed through their skepticism of the world. They have a strong desire for security, which they tend to show by protecting themselves and others. They seek close and stable relationships. Guardians tend to defend themselves by projecting their own feelings onto others, which can often enhance their distrust of the world.
Enneagram 6w7 (Enneagram 6 Wing 7 is The Buddy)
People with an Enneagram type six wing seven personality tend to identify most with the six type, but share many attributes with the seven type, as well. They tend to be engaging, hard-working, and personable in their behavior. They are much more sociable than other six types and love to make new friends.
This is a subtype that definitely loves to be around people, just chilling out and having a good time. While other types tend to withdraw into themselves to avoid their problems, the buddy goes off and gets distracted to face them. This type knows how to have fun without forgetting important commitments, which they take seriously. They are also protective and witty, and when they feel in danger, they can get suspicious. Their main challenge is choosing which battles to fight. The Buddy is a subtype that results from the encounter of the types 6 and 7, which means that Six’s common seriousness and commitment to values blends with Seven’s enthusiasm and social skills.
This blend brings a unique kind of Enneagram type. Those who identify with this type are very outgoing people that love to be surrounded by friends and have a good time. The time they spend relaxing gets balanced with periods of hard work, which is sacred to 6w7. They can be both cheerful and serious. In this amplitude of moods, they get insights from their environment and people around them to anticipate them and eventually protect themselves. The combination of Six’s honorable manners with Seven’s optimism makes this Enneagram type a very engaging one. They know the best way to talk to people to satisfy their needs and to get what they want. They are also very observant. Since both types are members of the Head triad, they deal with reality by using their rationality and looking for answers everywhere. When things get out of control, they can fall into anxiety and distrust, perceiving threats wherever they go. Their defensive mechanism gives them an aggressive style that makes them seem quite intimidating. That’s one of their strategies to keep danger away and reach their main goal: feeling safe.
Combine the focus on commitment, safety and preparedness of Sixes with the easy-going, playful nature of Sevens, and you get Sixes who are much more adventurous, funny and extroverted than you would expect from this usually quite serious type. Sixes with a Seven wing are just as willing to make sacrifices to make sure they and their loved ones are safe as those with a Five wing. But they are willing to take on a bit more risk, come equipped with a bit more energy and are a bit more ready to laugh about their own insecurities.
Make no mistake, these people are still Sixes at heart: Dutiful, caring and battling that inner voice that tells them to always prepare for encountering the dangers of the world. But they take it all with more lightness, thanks to the influence of their wing. What makes them clearly different from pure Sevens is that they are by far not as initiating and decisive. They often rely on the advice and opinion of others, even more than Sixes with a Five wing – which makes them more independent. What they get from the Sevens though is the humor to take their own preoccupation with safety and security more lightly.
Six wing sevens’ fear losing their support system. This may be expressed through self-deprecating humor, in which they seek affirmation and assurance from other people. Their basic desire is to feel safe and supported. They show this by being loving and supportive to others. They honor their commitments and are very loyal to their friends.
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Enneagram Type Seven, The Enthusiast: 7w6, 7w8
Enneagram 7w6 (Enneagram 7 Wing 6 is The Entertainer)
People with an Enneagram type seven wing six personality tend to identify most with the seven type, but share many attributes with the six type, as well. They are usually enthusiastic, responsible, and adventurous in their behavior. They enjoy pursuing new experiences, but are much more able to stick to prior commitments than other seven types.
This type is the joker of the group, the most childlike. Like a good 7, they are experience-oriented, but the 6 influence gives them the ability to go slower and create bonds with people. They love to fill up their schedules and check out everything that life has to offer. If they’re in good company, that’s even better. But if talking about focus and expertise, they feel troubled. Learning to settle down and commit to one thing is one of the hardest things for them to do.
These adventurous people are really amazed by life and they want to experience as much as they can. To do that, they sometimes fill up their schedule and divide their time amongst different types of activities. It’s hard for them to focus on one thing, so they end up getting easily distracted. They want it all! It’s not only their desire to live a fantastic and intense life that makes them squeeze things to the last drop, it’s also a sort of insecurity. Due to the admiration that life awakes inside of them, they rush into doing big things.
In this case, both Enneagram types share the same Triad, the Head Triad, so it’s normal for them to get lost in their thoughts and think about ways to achieve happiness and find good reasons to do things. As opposed to the other subtype, 7w6 types are more responsible and loyal to their duties. Although they get excited easily, they don’t get lost and try to keep balance.
So on the one hand you have the Seven: Spontaneous, looking for new and exciting experiences from their environment and quite capable of taking care of their own needs. On the other hand you have the Six: Focused and dependent on people to provide them with security, steady and consistent, and quietly good-natured. These people tremendously enjoy encountering and interacting with people, often the more the better. There’s a bunch of other great things these Sevens inherit from their Six wing, things like discipline, organizational skills and generosity. They often become incredibly productive, since their already existent high levels of energy get combined with the steadiness and foresight of their wing.
Sevens with a six wing have a deeply-rooted fear of missing out. They want to be trustworthy and honor commitments, but they also want to leave room to allow for last-minute opportunities. Their basic desire is to feel fulfilled and happy. They express this by searching for joy in every small thing that comes their way.
Enneagram 7w8 (Enneagram 7 Wing 8 is The Realist)
People with an enneagram type seven wing eight personality tend to identify most with the seven type, but share many attributes with the eight type, as well. They tend to be enthusiastic, determined, and protective in their behavior. They are generally more tough and work-oriented than other seven types.
This subtype is as excited about living as the 7s but with the same aggressive touch when it comes to reaching their goals as 8s. Dynamic as they are, they go through life with a clear mind. Pragmatic and task-focused, they choose a target and go for it. Life is a source of abundance, and the realist wants to experience it all. The problem is when 7s can’t satisfy their appetite. With the determination the 8s give them, staying in the present—here and now—is the best thing to do.
Enneagram 7w8 types are self-confident, love to be in control of their lives, and they get what they want. They are just as hopeful and restless as Sevens, but with the self-assertiveness of the Eights. They are also hard workers that always take the extra effort to stand out in their tasks. As they are not as easily distracted, they are very detail-focused and can do their best. These types dream big and pursue scalable careers. They are very protective of their things and beloved ones, but can also be very suspicious and defensive.
We have to take into account that these two are not part of the same crew. The 7s are part of the Head Triad, while the 8s come from the Gut Triad. Thoughts and Instincts both make 7w8 types very anxious when unbalanced. They can always foresee things and get prepared. They usually won’t show their vulnerability to anyone, not even themselves, because as soon as the storms come, they may get distracted with other activities or “urgencies.” 7w8’s uncertainty drives them to be impulsive and sometimes risky. They struggle for joy and security, yet they want to feel as if they are exactly where they want to be. The discomfort they feel when facing the unknown makes them want to manipulate or rush things in their favor.
The combination of the outgoing Seven type with the strong-willed Eight type produces a personality that can only be described as pretty aggressive – in all the good and bad aspects of the phrase. Taking the assertiveness, strength of ego and will to dominate from the Eight wing, these Sevens are very determined (and capable) to get what they want – and as we know, Sevens have broad tastes. Sevens with an Eight wing are not as concerned with relationships as their counterparts with a Six wing, more focused on their own experiences and not necessarily on who’s along for the ride. You get some pretty powerful and often very materially successful people from this combination, though they still remain their fundamentally playful Seven self.
Seven with an eight wing fear being deprived. They want to pursue new opportunities and avoid being controlled by schedules. Their basic desire is to content and satisfied. They love experiencing the world by traveling and going to parties.
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Enneagram Type Eight, The Challenger: 8w7, 8w9
Enneagram 8w7 (Enneagram type 8 Wing 7 is The Independent)
People with an Enneagram type eight wing seven personality tend to identify most with the eight type, but share many attributes with the seven type, as well. They tend to be self-confident, sociable, and pragmatic in their behavior. They are ambitious and independent, preferring to follow their own path. They are generally more comfortable with conflict than eights with a nine wing.
This kind flows through life with agility and calmness. They are self-confident so they always find a way to make their dreams come true. They really don’t skimp on that. They are truly inspiring people as they challenge others to test their skills and undertake new projects, but they can be very conflicting when they run into dominant imposing attitudes.
The final product of this mix is a subtype that is very pragmatic and will do whatever it takes to accomplish its goals. They are very self-confident and ambitious. 8w7 don’t settle for anything; they always seek more. They are also strategic and tough if needed. Considering these two Enneagram types are not part of the same triad, this crossing point between the Head Triad (7) and Gut Triad (8) creates a new type that combines overthinking with instinct when it comes to making decisions. To feel safe, they become very self-protective and eventually get intensively aggressive too. Setting clear boundaries and showing their authority gives them assurance and advantage to get prepared for different situations. However, they also struggle for love and support. They need a safe space they can trust and gives them care and assurance.
Enneagram 8w7s are idealistic and imaginative people; they are highly creative and perfectionists when they feel comfortable. They master their field and consider themselves the best when they hold specific positions that allow them to make important decisions.
The main thing you notice about Eights with a Seven wing is that they are much more extroverted than their counterparts with a Nine wing. That big chunk of energy and assertiveness you associate with Eights? Combine that with an outgoing, fun and impulsive personality, and you get quite the supernova of energy that leaves behind lots of its guarded wariness in order to enjoy life to the fullest. The key motivation of Eights is acquiring, maintaining and projecting power, while the main interest of Sevens is incorporating new experiences into their life. So I guess that makes for – pardon the pun –, pretty powerful experiences Eights with a Seven wing are going for. With a kind of double dose of independence and the Sevens’ joy in risk taking, these Eights often thrive in entrepreneurial settings where they can combine their natural leadership skills with their strong visions.
Eight with a seven wing fear being controlled by others. They dislike authority and prefer to work alone. Their basic desire is to remain in control of their own lives. They also want other people to be free, and are often advocates for those less able.
Enneagram 8w9 (Enneagram 8 Wing 9 is The Bear)
People with an Enneagram type eight wing nine personality tend to identify more with the type eight, but share several traits with the nine type as well. They are confident, patient, and protective in their behavior. They are generally more gentle and subdued than other eight types.
The Bears care a lot about protecting their people and creating bonds with full awareness of their surroundings. They are realistic and tough when they need to be. They face life and challenges with their heads up, backed up by the perfect blend of power and calm determination. This constant state of alertness can be exhausting, so they have to learn to trust and flow with the cycles.
This combination brings out 8’s protection instinct in a more relaxed way. Enneagram 8w9s are very warm, reliable, and helpful people. They advocate for other people and have a sixth sense that detects threats and helps them protect their loved ones. They like taking on all the responsibility even though this can be exhausting at times. They are also really good listeners, which makes them very welcoming and empathetic.
These two Enneagram types share the same group: The Gut Triad, which means they deal with reality through their instinct. They perceive danger, conflicts, or problems, and then decide how to deal with it. Most of the time they find a great balance between action and reaction because of their clever minds that are always a step ahead. Like bears, they often go withdraw into themselves when going through hard times. However, instead of hibernating to rest and live through winter, they do it to avoid revealing their vulnerabilities. People are afraid of bears for their mighty presence. Something similar happens to 8w9 Bears, but believe it: they love to hug!
If you put Eights and Nines next to each other, they look almost like complete opposites: the assertive, strong-willed, confrontational Eights on the one side, the quiet, peace-loving, conflict-avoiding Nines on the other. As a wing to the Eight type however, the Nine type mostly has a soothing effect on the aggressive and intense appearance of Eights. They become more measured, cooperative and often more family-oriented. Like a big bear: Snuggly towards their own kind, but still equipped with claws that they are more than willing to put to use when necessary.
Depending on how strong their Nine wing is, these Eights are more oriented towards people than towards experience, as it happens with a Seven wing. They become more accommodating of other people’s opinions, while still very capable of defending and asserting their own. In general there is less of an iron-fist and more a velvet-glove dynamic going on here. As good as they are at projecting power, they also have a gentler way of calm and reassuring leadership available to them.
Eights with a nine wing fear being hurt by others. They avoid situations in which they have less control, generally preferring to be in positions of leadership. Their basic desire is to guard themselves against threats and control their own destiny. They may express this by asserting independence at a young age.
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Enneagram Type Nine, The Peacemaker: 9w8, 9w1
Enneagram 9w8 (Enneagram 9 Wing 8 is The Comfort Seeker)
People with an Enneagram type nine wing eight personality tend to identify more with the type nine, but share several traits with the eight type as well. They are social, independent, and routine in their behavior. They are generally more assertive and adventurous than other type nines.
This subtype is defined by its constant pursuit of peace and an easy-going state of mind. If things don’t go as expected, they can react aggressively and expansively. They are naturally attractive as they are baffling and friendly at the same time, a one-of-a-kind blend that’s easy to recognize. This polarity could be adjusted if they learn to express their feelings at the accurate moment.
The result of combining these two types is a unique blend which increases the original type’s sociability and adventurous instinct. Enneagram 9w8 loves to spend time with other people and please them. As they are very empathetic, it’s easy for them to discern other people’s needs and try to spread good and relaxed vibes. Both Eights and Nines are part of the same crew: The Gut Triad. Like Spiderman, they have a spider-sense to detect danger and conflict. As soon as they see it coming, they actively either avoid or face it to ultimately ensure their safety.
Independence is one of 9w8’s core concerns. They don’t like to ask for permission or give explanations. They like to keep life’s harmony and enjoy things without having to defend anything. In this sense, they can be a little utopian and let their ideals trigger their actions. When they find their peace of mind, they give some of their good time away.
Nines with an Eight wing – that’s one complex type-wing combination if there is one! On the one hand: Nines who try to avoid conflict at all costs. On the other hand: Eights who enjoy conflict like a cool glass of soda. How does this work together? Well, it actually gives Nines a powerful set of supporting aspects to their personality. They are generally more energetic, confident and practical. Something that clearly shows these people are still fundamentally Nines is that their anger isn’t used to assert their power, like it is for Eights, but to secure their inner peace. Like all Nines, they value harmony and conciliation after a conflict – they are just more willing to engage in one to begin with than, say, Nines with a One wing.
Nines with a one wing are afraid of being separated from the rest of the world and losing what matters to them. They desire peace, both internally and externally. Their type one wing encourages them to make their idealized, peaceful world a reality.
Enneagram 9w1 (Enneagram 9 Wing 1 is The Dreamer)
People with an enneagram type nine wing one personality tend to identify more with the type nine, but also share several traits with the one type. They are hardworking, creative, and friendly in their behavior. They are generally more idealistic and serious than other nines.
The Dreamers are great company, very pleasant and slow-paced. As they are ideal-based they’re wise and fair people who, with the influx of the 1s, know how to synthesize different factors and distill a more human conclusion. Agile minds and reassuring people, they are in the limbo between reality and utopia; they bring serenity to life but still have to accept the darkness to develop their own resources.
Enneagram 9 wing 1 types are very critical, sarcastic, and have a sharpened sense of justice. As they are reasonable people, they tend to analyze things, tell right from wrong, and set a whole new path that’s better than the already existing one. Dreamers can see the whole picture. They can easily make conclusions and decisions. They can’t stand viewing things as a mandate; if something is not good, they will let people know. They can also keep their temper and good humor, so most people enjoy their company. They’re easygoing, smiley, and sweet. They usually know exactly what to say to calm people down and how to embrace others. 9w1 types are balance seekers. They need to be balanced and in a joyful state of mind; otherwise, they get really anxious and moody. Conflicts are not their forte, but when moved by morals and their ideals, they stay and face their issues.
The effect a One wing has on the Nine personality is – depending on how strong it is – lifting them out of their calm, relaxed state of gentle compliance into a more disciplined, orderly and productive state. Here, the One’s wish for self-control mixes with the Nine’s wish to maintain their inner peace, so you get very principled, focused and often more confident Nines.
Something many Nines struggle with is finding their own voice, their sense of purpose. A pronounced One wing tremendously helps them out here, since it gives Nines a much stronger sense of right and wrong and a more idealistic view of the world. You put the patient openness of the Nine together with the objectivity of the One, and what you often get is wonderfully non-judgemental counselors who are able to maintain an admirable integrity.
Nines with a one wing are afraid of being separated from the rest of the world and losing what matters to them. They desire peace, both internally and externally. Their type one wing encourages them to make their idealized, peaceful world a reality.
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