Blame Levels

There are 6 general levels of blame that reflects one's emotional sense of responsibilities. They are detectable through one's expression, especially from speech and words. We will review each levels in the following elements:

• Example type of expression
• Level depth

The deeper the level, the more responsible one is.

Level One - Complete Immaturity

This level is all about whining, without considering the effect towards the surrounding emotional energy. One just express the negativity as it is.

Examples:

• I blame you for bringing this down.
• I blame timing is not right for me to achieve this.
• I blame The Mighty One for giving me a bad life.

Level Two - Awareness

This level is about aware of the source of blame entering one, and blame towards oneself allowing such event to occurs. This shows that one is self-aware that he/she is in control of his/her emotion but not strong enough to manage it.

Examples:

• I let it get into me.
• I let that get into me.

Level Three - Maturity

This level is about the beginning of taking emotional responsibilities. One has shown the sign of maturity and is accepting that there was a flaw inside oneself, aware of emotional responsibility.

Examples:

• I blame my own negative thinking.
• I blame my own action for hurting her just because I was angry.

Level Four - Mature Thinking

This level is about taking emotional responsibilities.

Examples:

• I blame my own thinking choice. I must find a way.
• I blame my own action without thinking through consequences. I must improve.

Level Five - High Mental Understanding of Causation

This level is about root causing the problem and taking action to the emotional responsibilities.

Examples:

• I blame my scripts for my thinking choice. I must improve that.
• I blame my lack of knowledge for taking action emotionally. I must start to learn emotional responsibilities.

Level Six - Beginning of Spiritual Understanding of Causation

This level is about taking emotional responsibilities towards one's own soul or spiritually aware.

Examples:

• I blame my flesh nature for being drawn to death.
• There is always something to learn from this emotional incident. Let's work it out.

That's all about 6 blames levels in emotional responsibilities. The goal is to shift from blaming to taking responsibilities into one's own hand and then execute it.