Principle of Step 6

🧹 Step 6 of Recovery: The Principle of Willingness and Transformation

Step 6 in the 12-step recovery model says:

“Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.”

This step marks a shift from awareness to readiness. You’ve identified your character defects in Step 4 and shared them in Step 5—now, you’re preparing to let them go.

🌱 Core Spiritual Principles of Step 6

• Willingness: Being open to change, even if it’s uncomfortable or unfamiliar.

• Acceptance: Recognizing your flaws without shame, and accepting that they no longer serve you.

• Humility: Understanding that transformation isn’t about willpower—it’s about surrendering to a process greater than yourself.

• Commitment: Choosing to show up and do the work, even when progress feels slow.

• Perseverance: Continuing forward despite setbacks or doubts.

🧠 What This Step Really Means

• You’re not expected to be perfect—just ready.

• You’re acknowledging that these defects have harmed you and others.

• You’re preparing to release old behaviors and embrace new ones.

🛠️ How People Practice Step 6

• Reflecting on which defects you’re truly ready to let go of—and which ones you’re still holding onto.

• Praying or meditating for the willingness to change.

• Talking with a sponsor or mentor about your readiness and fears.

• Journaling about what life might look like without those defects.

Step 6 is like standing at the edge of a new beginning. You’ve done the hard work of uncovering your patterns—now you’re choosing to let healing begin.