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Hayoung Sohn in Los Angeles, California (February 2025). Photographed by Donnie Sohn.
The Girl With The Ethnic Name
The Girl With The Ethnic Name
by Hayoung Sohn
The first day of school was a dreadful experience for me every single year. Each year, I would patiently wait for my teachers to go through the class attendance list before they would take a deep breath and pause, signaling that my name was the next to be read. I always hated having the "ethnic" name, until I realized that the name Hayoung (HA-young) was far more than just a name that was difficult to pronounce — it was a heartfelt blend of tradition, hope, and love passed down by my grandfather who devoted himself to finding a name that would bestow good fortune upon me. To him, my name was more than just a set of syllables—it was a wish for my future, a symbol of love, and a connection to my family’s heritage.
In South Korea, naming a child is a solemn ritual rather than a simple decision. It is a process that honors both family history and future aspirations. Many families rely on ancient name books or consult fortune tellers to ensure that a name will usher in success and harmony (Melanie). These cherished guides provide detailed meanings and associations for a variety of names, allowing parents to select one that is believed to bestow luck and prosperity upon their child. Embracing this long-held tradition, my grandfather devoted his energy to finding a name that was far more than just an identifier—it was a promise for the future.
Beliefs about the power of a name run deep in Korean culture. Parents often see a carefully chosen name as a protective charm that can lead to a bright and successful life, while an ill-suited name might bring unexpected challenges (Evanson). My grandfather’s decision to name me Hayoung was fueled by his deep love and his desire for me to experience a life filled with positive energy and opportunities.
This thoughtful approach to naming extends beyond my own family. Throughout Korea, families invest considerable time and energy into this important decision. Some turn to time-honored name books, others listen to the counsel of respected elders, and many seek advice from fortune tellers who examine a baby’s birth date and family background to suggest the most auspicious names (Kim). This practice, often referred to as saju, is an integral part of Korean culture, with many convinced that a well-selected name paves the way for lifelong happiness and success (Melanie).
Every time I hear “Hayoung,” I feel the echo of my grandfather’s devotion and the rich traditions that guided his choice. My name is a constant reminder of his loving commitment and the cultural values that continue to inspire me every day (Kim). It is a precious gift—a blend of heritage, hope, and the timeless wish for a life filled with good fortune.
I carry the name Hayoung with pride, for it is a constant reminder of my grandfather’s heartfelt care, our cultural heritage, and the enduring promise of good fortune that lights my path every day.
Works Cited
Evason, Nina. “South Korean Culture - Naming.” Cultural Atlas, 2021, culturalatlas.sbs.com.au/south-korean-culture/south-korean-culture-naming.
Melanie. “POSTCARDS & PLACES.” POSTCARDS & PLACES, 5 Aug. 2009, www.postcardsandplaces.com/stories/whats-in-a-name-korea. Accessed 10 Feb. 2025.
“한국민속대백과사전.” Nfm.go.kr, 2025, folkency.nfm.go.kr/en/topic/detail/365. Accessed 10 Feb. 2025.
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